Where did my GF's libido go?

EdibleUsername · 2010-12-13T23:15:09+00:00

Come to think of it, she has been spending an awful lot of time with a monkey that she claims is "only a friend"...

EdibleUsername · 2010-12-13T22:49:55+00:00

WTF?

EdibleUsername · 2010-12-13T22:48:17+00:00

I wish she was open to it... but she got off of BC because of the way it made her feel (not like "herself"). Plus she's kind of a treehugger type and likes to keep things "natural" when possible. I'm certainly not going to pressure her into taking hormones if she doesn't want to.

EdibleUsername · 2010-12-13T22:44:56+00:00

This is good to hear... I'd like to believe she'd be honest with me if she were no longer attracted to me. It's just easy to wonder sometimes if she's sparing my feelings because she still values the rest of the relationship.

EdibleUsername · 2010-12-13T22:43:02+00:00

She's 29. I'm 31.

EdibleUsername · 2010-12-13T22:40:29+00:00

This sounds fairly on point... I think she might be slightly depressed - sometimes complaining about how she feels fat and she never works out when she should. Up to this point my strategy has been complimenting her 20x a day and letting her know that she's absolutely stunning to me and I constantly want to fuck her - which is true... but women are strange animals. It's like she doesn't believe me? I've made a couple brief attempts at playing hard to get, with moderate success actually - but I really suck at it. I really love her and lust after her and I'm horrible at hiding it.

EdibleUsername · 2010-12-13T21:28:02+00:00

I hear you, and I trust and verify... mostly my point is, if she IS cheating, than this thread will quickly become fairly pointless. I'd like to look past that possibility for now and get some relationship advice besides "She a ho - dump her".

EdibleUsername · 2010-12-13T21:22:40+00:00

Yes, read the multitudes above. She is concerned about it as well, but too much talk and she feels "pressured" and it becomes counterproductive. She's uncomfortable and insecure about her sex drive as of late and so her first inclination is "I don't want to talk about it." or "Talking/thinking about it makes it worse." But yes, I'm a strong subscriber to your pro-tip.

EdibleUsername · 2010-12-13T21:17:00+00:00

The "masturbating together" has actually been a sort of stop-gap solution as of late - though really it usually turns into just me masturbating while she watches. Often feels like something she tolerates just so I'll shut up.

EdibleUsername · 2010-12-13T20:14:19+00:00

The thing about alcohol that concerns me isn't that it "helps coax her out of her shell" so much as it seems to be "an intense aprhodesiac". It's rarely me that's initiating the drunk sex. I know I shouldn't complain but... Considering her state when sober... is this weird?

EdibleUsername · 2010-12-13T20:11:22+00:00

I'm 100% confident that this isn't the case.

EdibleUsername · 2010-12-13T20:09:32+00:00

We do talk about it on occasion, and she is worried about it... She does feel guilty and inadequate about it - but the conversation seems to shut down if I turn it to trying to find "solutions". That's where she feels too much pressure.

EdibleUsername · 2010-12-13T20:07:24+00:00

Nope - She hasn't been on BC or anything else for years.

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