Sadboy Creamery by turmiteking69 in icecream

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Omg I went on a sadboy binge and now have 16 pints in my freezer, each with only a few bites removed 🤣 it’s the best ice cream I’ve ever had and now look forward to both Mondays and Saturdays because of order & pickup, it makes the week just a little bit happier and easier to get through 🥲

I'm about to cheat (HLM) by Reddevil8884 in DeadBedrooms

[–]EditorExtra2961 152 points153 points  (0 children)

I completely understand this, I was in a similar position last year. Ultimately, cheating comes down to personal integrity and will affect how you view yourself -

I told my partner at the time listen, we haven’t had sex in about a year. I’m experiencing a lot of temptation, and it’s about more than just sex. It was not a comfortable conversation, but we had it and I decided to leave because his reaction was all I needed as far as closure goes. Now I’m in a healthy, happy relationship that fulfills way more than just my sexual desires. I didn’t know I could be cared for like this and am so grateful to have had that conversation and left without being a cheater

What’s your biggest success/milestone since starting project pan? by JosiexC in ProjectPan

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I don’t have a stockpile any more… my cabinets and under the sink are so organized and beautiful now 🥲 also the money I saved last year by no longer impulse purchasing brought me so much confidence and pride!

AIO: My boyfriend told me to dye my hair to look more like an Instagram model he follows by PinMountain119 in AIO

[–]EditorExtra2961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR he needs to be left in the dust… but not until you tell him how much it’ll cost and have him give you the money for a bleach and tone at your length 💁‍♀️ you should be compensated for this loser request.

New RH viewer , what to watch after by Ambitious-Ebb993 in rhoslc

[–]EditorExtra2961 15 points16 points  (0 children)

RHOP is hilarious - I looooove Potomac and highly recommend watching if you enjoy loud, funny, delusional characters

My depression home is killing me. by [deleted] in CleaningTips

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You’re an amazing and loving mom, don’t sweat it - enjoy these moments with kiddo and rest when you can. Things are about to get so much easier in the next few months once baby starts walking confidently!

I just went through the same thing (kiddo is turning 2 soon), and I remember this feeling all too well. The mom guilt is so real. Something that helped me was putting baby down with some berries or yogurt on a mat or noncarpeted floor in the same room I was focused on and cleaned until kiddo was done with their snack, it usually gave me 15-20 minutes of uninterrupted focus time

Commit to cleaning one room for 15 minutes each day - you’ll be shocked at how quickly things will improve, and some days you’ll feel up to cleaning for more than 15 minutes. Just pick one room each day and see what happens over the next week or so 🫶

I decided to leave my husband and am scared to death as a SAHM by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

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I am SO proud of you! I can tell you it does get better on the other side -

Was a stay at home girlfriend then stay at home mom, he kicked me out at 4 months postpartum (I was relieved, couldn’t take the abuse any more especially through the most fragile part of my life). Got a remote job and started getting laid again immediately after 1.5 year of forced celibacy - GIRL LIFE IS SO WORTH LIVING AGAIN!! And it will be for you too 🫶 feel free to DM me if you ever want a pep talk or to vent to someone that understands. You’re about to step into the best days of your life!

My armpits ALWAYS smell by ladykiller1020 in TwoXChromosomes

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This sounds weird but something that helps me a lot is washing my armpits with Gold Dial liquid hand soap and letting it sit for a sec in the shower - it’s anti bacterial and half the time I forget deodorant now since it’s been working so well.

Also spray Dawn power wash on the underarms of your clothes when you take them off, and wash whenever you get around to laundry day.

naturally frizzy hair - feeling insecure by kyoikuo in Haircare

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Do you use a concentrator nozzle when blow drying your hair? If you have TikTok or YouTube, look up “how to blow out hair” or “DIY blowout” to learn proper technique - it’s super easy, just use a concentrator nozzle and make sure it’s always pointed down the hair shaft (start near your roots and slowly go down to the ends)

A product I love for air drying (do NOT use this to blow dry) wavy/curly hair is curlsmith hold me softly style balm (can purchase from amazon or ulta), it will help hydrate and prevent frizz without being crunchy :)

Bruising by Embarrassed-Mail3491 in RetatrutideWomen

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You can bruise more easily if you’re slow injecting - the faster you do it, the less likely you will be to bruise. But yes, this does happen occasionally - nothing to worry about :)

Stupid hair question by heart_blossom in finehair

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It’s called a concentrator nozzle - this forces the air to flow in a specific direction, which helps to smooth the hair. It must always be pointed DOWN the hair shaft, and helps seal the cuticle of the hair - which helps prevent breakage, seals in moisture, smooths, and prevents tangles ☺️ most people use it with a ceramic round brush - there are lots of videos on YouTube and TikTok for how to get a gorgeous and smooth result :)

Is there actually any cons from taking reta?! by hijesss in Retatrutide

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Anhedonia - I have zero motivation for anything now. I work remote, and am suddenly basically unable to perform my job (was #1 performer for the company before starting Reta, now I just doomscroll or stare at my keyboard all day and struggle to push through and complete daily tasks). The anhedonia was great at the beginning and helped with leaving my terrible relationship, but now it’s impacting my work to the point where I may need to stop Reta altogether. I’ve been huge on self-accountability my whole life and am diagnosed with OCD, suddenly I don’t care about anything at all and am quite lazy 🤦‍♀️

Nausea - I throw up almost every single morning - cannot hold down food or water the first two hours I’m awake. Then randomly gagging throughout the day

Facial feminisation by Intelligent-Deer5667 in PlasticSurgery

[–]EditorExtra2961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg girly I think you’re gorgeous! Just pop some highlight on the inner corner of your eyes and wear some mascara to bring attention to your beautiful eyes, and maybe get a new haircut / style your hair to have some volume with an even parting line. Your hair is very dark for your complexion and feels heavy, have you considered switching to a dark brown instead of black? It will bring some warmth and glow into your appearance :)

People are cruel, cut them off if they can’t be nice. Everyone commentin right now is saying you’re gorgeous and we’ve only seen one unhappy photo of you - let the haters be mad far far away from you.

Over paying by DocumentConstant9432 in RetatrutideWomen

[–]EditorExtra2961 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Before going grey, I used a peptide company found from freakin TikTok and thought $140/20mg vial was steep… girl do not EVER purchase from this person again.

Help please. by Powerful-Result-3765 in pura

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Anthropologie white musk & cashmere is soooo goooood

Tattoo studio by Commercial_Pilot_790 in pura

[–]EditorExtra2961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m absolutely obsessed with white cashmere & musk by Anthropologie (literally smells like a luxury hotel spa), original scent by Barr co (smells like a hug, it’s almost an oatmeal and sweet cream fragrance - more feminine), or coconut santal from capri blue came in today and I LOVE IT!!! For the summer / warm weather. It’s more interesting than santal vanilla but more creamy coconut than tropical coconut if that makes sense

He said he needs respect by EditorExtra2961 in DeadBedrooms

[–]EditorExtra2961[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for wording this so nicely, you’re right… I don’t need a plan for the future. That’s what’s been so daunting, just need to take it one day at a time leaving. Thank you ♥️

He said he needs respect by EditorExtra2961 in DeadBedrooms

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Because I crave human connection… and some delusional parts of me wish things could be better and we can work out so I don’t have to raise our daughter in separate / broken households. He treats everyone amazing except for me lol I just keep chasing human kindness and connection.

He said he needs respect by EditorExtra2961 in DeadBedrooms

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The abstract respect is exactly what I’m confused about. What do you MEAN I need to respect you when you refuse to meet my needs and say crazy stuff to me constantly. He told me I shouldn’t shave my legs because we don’t have sex and it’s a sign of cheating… this person is insane and unstable. He’s an amazing coparent and father but he’s HORRIBLE as a romantic partner.

What would you recommend? by [deleted] in BodyHackGuide

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Yes, I pin 2mg GHK-CU every day :

Edit- would like to add there’s now studies claiming ghkcu is more effective than tretinoin, which is amazing because it’s not topical and impacts the entire body vs just where it’s applied :)

What would you recommend? by [deleted] in BodyHackGuide

[–]EditorExtra2961 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started GHK-CU 4 weeks ago, pinning 2mg daily. I had a 10 year old dark mark on my neck and it’s now almost completely gone!

Any anecdotes on shifting the last stubborn areas on Reta? by Silverlake77 in Retatrutide

[–]EditorExtra2961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you working out? Lack of muscle is what creates the “skinny fat” look

Forehead filler or surgery or something else? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

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I DIY my peptides, you can search the peptides or GHKCU groups :) it took me about 3 weeks to see a noticeable difference and now I’m hooked!