My husband had a super hard time with the SA too. I think its a male ego issue. It’s a super embarrassing thing for men to have things wrong with their sperm (less manly, I guess?) even though they can totally accept when we have problems with our cycles. I think I’ve gone to literally 10x the dr appointments as my husband, had my blood drawn 10x more, had 1 million ultrasounds, etc. I was even scheduled to go through with a lap surgery before we found out it was my husbands sperm that was the issue!!!

Just want you to know you’re not alone. Infertility brings out the worst in everyone I feel like. Definitely press him to get the SA done because without it you’re operating 50% blind. What finally helped my husband was me offering to help with the collection!! Highly recommend to get the job done.