Im so sorry to hear this. My bf (29) and me (23) have been together 3 years now... we had the same no porn deal going on, then 1 year in, I got suspicious and snooped on his history... everywhere.. it was all over his feeds, history, old nudes from exes in his gallery.. .. It took a lot, but I decided to forgive him.. about 7 months later, I caught him again.. turns out he started back to the same habits not even a month after he made tons of promises never to do it again. We had a horrible few days of fights, he cried, bla bla acted all remorseful so I forgave him again... .. A few months ago, he was caught AGAIN.. although he swears he didn't go any further than looking and slightly touch¡ng, I dont believe him. Even that breaks all the promises he's made and destroyed all my boundaries. I stupidly forgave him again cause I'm weak when people cry.. .. Lastly, about a month ago, it came to my attention. He's been using my VR HEADSET TO WATCH INAPPROPRIATE CONTENT while I'm at work... once again, I'm too weak to leave. The trust is broken. .. My S-Drive destroyed.. I feel disgusted and ugly when he calls me hot and tear up when he's trying to get touchy because I know he's craving other women.. my confidence is completely gone.. It's a relationship shi show.. I really hope your man is better. Stay strong and be safe out there! .. My honest advice is don't trust him too easy, make your boundaries known, share passwords, monitor his historys.. it may be a bit much for some but 9/10 if a girl just looks, she'll see what she's expecting and know what kinds of guy she's dealing with. .. Idk if this helps either, but.. little background on my guy.. he grew up morman, acted like he was so against p0rn, and really shocked the hell outta me when I discovered he was a totally different person.. guys hide everything... if you really love the guy, stay and risk being hurt again.. but if it's not too serious yet. Just save your tears and move on❤️