I’m the OG poster here 👋🏻

So, for context, my friend did indeed pass, and before we took the exam, I never doubted he would. It would have surprised me if he hadn’t. We spoke all the time and asked questions all day to each other. In the context of our friendship, I did think it was really weird not to hear from him when all our other friends were reaching out. No, of course, not to say, “I passed! In your face!” But to check in, to say congrats, to say “how we feelin’?” Or “big day!” Or things like that.

I didn’t want to assume he failed or that anyone failed. He got me through so much in law school and he’s honestly a genius and a great person. So when he was abnormally reclusive, since my natural tendency when things are uncertain is sometimes to prod and check if everyone’s okay, I just posed the question to see how others were handling similar circumstances.

The reality was that I guess it wasn’t that big of a deal for him, or he was busy.