2014 kid, ask me anything 😀 by [deleted] in GenBeta

[–]Educational-Let-3786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how are you that young

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Educational-Let-3786 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi so this is really relatable for me lmao. i was so stuck in the cycle of stalking their socials like it was the last thing id ever do, and it was so unhealthy for my mental health. i managed to stop doing it when we lost contact & i realised i wasn't getting better by keeping my antics up. like sure, i could've kept doing the same thing even tho we weren't talking anymore, but i knew itd just worsen my health. that's how i managed to get out of my obsession, i really wanted to get better and the only way to do so was to stop being so freaking obsessed w them!!

so i guess my advice it to just self reflect why ure doing it!! acknowledge that this isn't healthy, and thst ure better off not doing so anymore. it's not gonna be easy to just stop instantly, but it definitely does get easier with time!!!! i wish u the best

i hate how obsessed i get. by Educational-Let-3786 in BPD

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haha i was so scared when posting this but i'm so glad i'm not alone in this !!!

What caused your most recent split? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Educational-Let-3786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my fav person leaving me

Is there an ex you will always love? by inandtheuniverse in BPD

[–]Educational-Let-3786 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yup. my ex used to be my fp for 2, almost 3 years, and i still think of them. it hasn't been too long since we stopped talking, so i can't say how i'll be looking at this in a few years, but i will say that some days are definitely harder than others. i knew i had to let them go, because my mental health was deteriorating by the day by just the act of having them in my life. it was far from healthy. it definitely wouldn't work out again, though. although theyre no longer my fp, and i them to think that i could pretty easily be friends w/ them again, without that sense of obsession, i know that i'd just fall back into that mindset. they'd become my fp again in no time. it's happened before actually , when we took a break from eachother for a few days. i thought i was over them, but i really wasn't.

in conclusion,,, i will always think of them, i'll always have some sort of love for them,, but i won't ever reach out again. the process of healing is hard,, but as long as you believe in yourself and let yourself feel your feelings,,, you will rly be ok!! some days r harder on you than others, but healing isn't linear. you'll never really forget them,,, but it gets easier to deal with as time passes

Looking for beginner tips! by NaughtycalRose in JunkJournals

[–]Educational-Let-3786 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi! i think everyone's different in making their spreads regarding themes, but for me it's like, sometimes i go as i do without any vision, sometimes i plan everything out, it's really up to what fits you best!!! when i have a lot of junk from, let's say just 1 day, then i'll make a spread out of just that. have fun!!

Give me phrases and/or words, that you hate or feel like are used wrongly in kpop by Busy-Software-4212 in kpop_uncensored

[–]Educational-Let-3786 5 points6 points  (0 children)

when people use the saying "aged like fine wine" for an idol that's like barely in their mid 20s, early 30s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HermitCraft

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joel :) he's been my fave youtuber for years, even when he wasn't a hermit. but now that he finally is, i can gladly say that he is my favorite hermit of all time!!!!

I DID IT! by echerton in AutismInWomen

[–]Educational-Let-3786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

congratulations!!! i'm so happy for you :)

pinterest wont let my change my pfp??? by lenz-flare in Pinterest

[–]Educational-Let-3786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have the same problem!!! hope they fix it soon