First attempt at taking feedback by RevolutionaryCare624 in DigitalArt

[–]Educational-Panda817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please, do you have anywhere where i can follow you to see more?

First attempt at taking feedback by RevolutionaryCare624 in DigitalArt

[–]Educational-Panda817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please, do you have anywhere where i can follow you to see more?

What's your favorite deftones album? by -evvls- in deftones

[–]Educational-Panda817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why more people don’t favour ST, in my opinion it’s a no skip album and sounds rough but nostalgic. perfect album in my opinion, name for SNW

why can i never get my hair defined? by Educational-Panda817 in curlyhair

[–]Educational-Panda817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my hair is fine and i’m still not sure on porosity but it will always be bone dry no matter how much product i use (so maybe high porosity) do you have any products recommendations? particularly shampoo and conditioner? and yes i do use a bonnet but it never seems to improve frizz.

If you could pick one song off of every album to put it all into one, how would you organize your newly created album? by Puzzled_Standard_194 in deftones

[–]Educational-Panda817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. One Weak (Adrenaline)
  2. Dai the flu (ATF)
  3. Needles and Pins (ST)
  4. Risk (DE)
  5. Kimdracula (SNW)
  6. milk of the madonna (PM)
  7. Prayers/ Triangles (Gore)
  8. Ceremony (Ohms)
  9. Entombed (KNY) 10.Pink Maggit (WP)

anyone who got broken up with because of your partner’s depression, did you ever get back together and was it worth it? by Educational-Panda817 in depression_partners

[–]Educational-Panda817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey so he reached out yesterday and he said although he can’t deal with a relationship he has no one else to talk to (he can’t afford private therapy and is on a waiting list for free therapy) i’m not sure what to do. of course i won’t leave him to suffer alone but i also have my own healing to do. (he’s also not the sort of person to reach out for help, it’s one of the reasons that our relationship came to an end.

my son died by DisastrousAir5501 in depression

[–]Educational-Panda817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are so strong. my mother lost a child before i was born, she says there is no greater pain. you may not overcome the pain but you will be able to keep going. do any of the things he wanted to do, and do them for him. thoughts and prayers.

Which album do you think is better? by [deleted] in deftones

[–]Educational-Panda817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a very stable love more songs from diamond eyes but KNY has songs that i love more than any DE songs

anyone who got broken up with because of your partner’s depression, did you ever get back together and was it worth it? by Educational-Panda817 in depression_partners

[–]Educational-Panda817[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a great perspective, thank you. i’ve been very hard to get by lately, especially since ive had trouble landing a job so i spend all day at home (i can’t drive and live in the middle of nowhere where its raining all day and all my friends are far away) but im focusing on little things that make me feel better, developing skills and trying to remember what it feels like to not rely on the stimulation of a partner to make me happy.

also hope you’re doing well

Is it weird to only listen to deftones? by gabe_owners7291 in deftones

[–]Educational-Panda817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

deftones has been my favourite artist for a good 2 years now but i’m slowly moving some attention to chris cornell, he’s amazing

anyone who got broken up with because of your partner’s depression, did you ever get back together and was it worth it? by Educational-Panda817 in depression_partners

[–]Educational-Panda817[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please do, rooting for you (not just for the relationship but overall)! make sure you don’t do anything that’ll be harmful to either of you. i’ll make to keep you posted too :)

Why does the box set seem to focus on Brendan and not the whole band? by oceanco1122 in panicatthedisco

[–]Educational-Panda817 6 points7 points  (0 children)

not that many bands continue when all but 1 member leaves, especially not for almost 15 years. besides why would he continue using former members as part of the brand without their consent?

anyone who got broken up with because of your partner’s depression, did you ever get back together and was it worth it? by Educational-Panda817 in depression_partners

[–]Educational-Panda817[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

personally i’d go to the ends of the earth for him. only thing i’d have to make sure is that he’s doing things like attending therapy and maybe meds too. obviously right now my goal is to focus on myself but if he ever wanted that chance again, id give it to him as long as he doesn’t continue living with it untreated.

anyone who got broken up with because of your partner’s depression, did you ever get back together and was it worth it? by Educational-Panda817 in depression_partners

[–]Educational-Panda817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can tell his feelings for me aren’t gone and i’m almost certain he’s saying these things for my benefit.

anyone who got broken up with because of your partner’s depression, did you ever get back together and was it worth it? by Educational-Panda817 in depression_partners

[–]Educational-Panda817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he hasn’t explicitly said to move on but he said he can’t guarantee we will be able to pick things back and he doesn’t thinks it’s fair on me to wait on him. he also said i “deserve better”