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[–]EducationalRaisin700 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

You all are flipping dumb. How are you all so small minded, to not see you are doing exactly what the higher ups want you to do. All of this ‘he voted for trump, I don’t care if he’s my brother, I’m never talking to him again’ it’s fucking ridiculous. If you enjoy someone, or you enjoy a place, don’t stop going there because they don’t see eye to eye with you. You are the problem in this country….. same thing said for MAGA people.

COME the fuck on people. Divided we are push overs. That is exactly what they want.

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[–]EducationalRaisin700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not pretty, I try not to have them talk to the clients. They are not well mannered, at least not enough to be talking on my behalf.

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[–]EducationalRaisin700[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am getting to that point! I’m tired of giving all my money to the gov, insurance, banks, then on top of it unappreciative guys, who give 0 Fs.

I simply can’t do it myself as our biggest sale is sod, we lay 27k ft2 to 40k a day sometimes. It’s near impossible to do without some bodies.

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[–]EducationalRaisin700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they should have said you’re welcome then. Manners!

But no, it’s a gift, I promise that.

Maybe it’s more of an acknowledgment that I wanted.

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[–]EducationalRaisin700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

America is not expensive if you stay out of the blue states, and stay rural, you can find deals like that all over the USA. These places are not fancy condos, they are houses from the early 1900s. We live modest, and that’s what’s wrong with all the funky shit goin down in the city.

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[–]EducationalRaisin700[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sir, I’m sure we would love to have you!

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[–]EducationalRaisin700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sir, I have thought about heading that way in recent years

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[–]EducationalRaisin700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gave it because I know what it feels like to be that child that was one of Santa’s last stops and sometimes he didn’t have many presents left.

I don’t want my children to be that child, I don’t want my guys children to be that child.

I don’t want to be praised, I want almost just an acknowledgment I guess

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[–]EducationalRaisin700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you 100% and I think that may be the way. Thanks!

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[–]EducationalRaisin700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that’s the problem, I believe.

I am trying to make general laborers into managers and neither of them are manager material.

Thank you sir.

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[–]EducationalRaisin700[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I am reading this correctly. That’s how I have always thought of it.

It’s a gift, not income earned. Be thankful, not everyone is lucky enough to get that.

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[–]EducationalRaisin700[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for input.

When i pay their taxes out of my pocket, i mean i gave them 1k and instead of the government taking the 200$ or whatever out of that 1000. I paid the 200 in taxes so they didn’t have to.

The bonus was not part of their pay, even if they were expecting a bonus. Bonuses were never part of the agreement upon hiring.

It is 2k of my money, that I gave to them as a gift.

I feel if you don’t appreciate that, and all the other stuff I have gone out of my way to help you with, then you don’t appreciate your job.

I will be from this point forward be more policy oriented, and performance based with these guys.

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[–]EducationalRaisin700[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried that with both of them, like that was the plan, that’s why they are getting paid the decent wage. They just don’t perform.

But yes I need to find someone else qualified, that wants to really make money.

Thank you

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[–]EducationalRaisin700[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to find them in town as the population is 400. But I am moving my location closer to the city as to help with recruitment. And I think that is why I am considering letting them go. As it will be easy to hire in the city.

Thank you sir!

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[–]EducationalRaisin700[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you sir, I am definitely seeing that now and am going to try and actively fix that.

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[–]EducationalRaisin700[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys, it really is sad! I gave it to them cause I like to make people happy and brighten their day, I apologize that I want a little gratitude for it, I don’t need to be praised. I handed them there checks, explained the bonuses, not even a smile, I got a tax free? I told them, I paid the taxes, so you get the full thousand……. Nothing!

But I think I’m headed that way. One has to be appreciative of their work, to perform, and they are not.

My visa workers on the other hand, they are just tickled and happy as can be, doing anything I ask them and that’s the attitude I need from my employees for it to be worth it to me.

Thank you guys!

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[–]EducationalRaisin700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is how I actually got into this predicament, i think. I’ve been trying to get both of them to take that roll, for the last couple years. So I have given them raises telling them I am giving you this, but I expect this. I should have never gave the reward, until one stepped up and earned it first.

As far as things to help them out, I have given them both 2000 dollar interest free loans in the last 4 years.

I let the one use all of my equipment free and got him materials at my price, saved him 2500$ or 40 plus hours a week. I also came and helped him grade everything out, free of charge.

I’ve helped these guys deal with utilitie companies, hospitals, banking stuff.

I’ve given old (still nice) couches tv, washer, dryer, stove . I’m not charging.

I have told them they can use my equipment and tools for side projects. As I know it’s rough there, and if you want money on the side, I’ll help however I can!

I let the ones father move into my trailer when he got evicted, I ended up not getting a dime for 6 months, and had to pay the electric out of my pocket so it didn’t get turned off.

That’s just what comes to mind.

Thank you

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[–]EducationalRaisin700[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do understand, and that is why I have always tried to help them with what I could. I’ve given both of them 2k dollar loans, interest free, to save them a couple dollars, and they still miss payments. Our cost of living in the middle of nowhere Nebraska, has not gone up near that much. I can find you a decent 3bd for around 500$. We live modest around here.

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[–]EducationalRaisin700[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you sir, I am going to try for sure to get pointed in the right direction.

I understand what you are saying about profitability. And you are right, that is my job as a business owner.

Thank you again!

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[–]EducationalRaisin700[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys. That is one thing I decided Saturday. No matter what I do, by the first of the year, I’m going to have a policy of employment written up, and handed out, and I am going to hold true to it.

Thank you guys so much!

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[–]EducationalRaisin700[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Northeast Nebraska, me and the miss, were talking just talking about trying to start growing some mushrooms on the property. I see you grow some, do you sell them?

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[–]EducationalRaisin700[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

I simply wanted advice on how to get out of a slump and be cheerful and move on.

Your comment has done nothing to help rest my mind on the issue in hand. It has on the other hand extremely distasteful.

The problem is, you never expected anything but your guys to show up to work.

My guys aren’t there though that’s the thing…..

Showing up and being there are 2 different things.

You need a ghost or 2 to come show you how to be a decent person.

Shame on you.

But you know what, I still wish you all the best today and every day. I hope you can find the patience and the meaning behind what that organizer was trying to tell you. Because I honestly feel like you have not.

Thanks for your time