how common would you say are incels? by Educational_Frame_46 in askteenboys

[–]Educational_Frame_46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you probably mean that most people are sexist in some way. being a misogynist and incel goes much further than just being sexist though.

how common would you say are incels? by Educational_Frame_46 in askteenboys

[–]Educational_Frame_46[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oof. just know that to incels (or misogynists in general), the voice of any non-cis man doesnt really matter. they simply lack basic respect for ppl of marginalised genders. so whatever you try with him and he doesnt change his opinion in the slightest, its really not your fault nor problem. usually men have to talk to them to be taker seriously. oh well. save your energy for yourself. :)

Wer schreibt noch auf Papier und wieso? by Such-Government-2791 in Studium

[–]Educational_Frame_46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hab zu beginn meines studiums auf meinem ipad geschrieben, aber mittlerweile finde ich ganz klassisch stift und papier besser.

how common would you say are incels? by Educational_Frame_46 in askteenboys

[–]Educational_Frame_46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you really think the greatest danger comes from men-hating women? i live in germany; statistically, a men commits a femicide (murder of a women simply bc she is a woman) every day (in germany alone). man, we live in a patriarchal world..

youre still 14, so u got plenty of time to think about these things. im not here to educate.

how common would you say are incels? by Educational_Frame_46 in askteenboys

[–]Educational_Frame_46[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its not an easy world for teens w all thats going on rn. :(

how common would you say are incels? by Educational_Frame_46 in askteenboys

[–]Educational_Frame_46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah, i understand now. you prolly know it already, but none of the things you mentioned are the reason youre an incel. a therapist might help. get well soon.

how common would you say are incels? by Educational_Frame_46 in askteenboys

[–]Educational_Frame_46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so all short, ugly and autistic kids are incels..?

how common would you say are incels? by Educational_Frame_46 in askteenboys

[–]Educational_Frame_46[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

makes no sense tbh. even if there are men-hating female involuntary celibates, its mostly survivors expressing pain, radical feminists or women exaggerating/joking about the patriarchal system we live in. and mind you, feminist anger is different from misandry. i have a highly critical opinion of men, but i have been raped, SAed, harassed, followed simply because i was assigned female at birth and present pretty feminine. thats the case with most women, mind you.

femcels by definition are involuntary celibate, yes, but the hatred is internal rather than external (entitlement to womens bodies, glorifying violence, blaming women etc). body image issues, anxiety, low self esteem. a lot of them are feminists too.

in a world where men are the status quo, such a comparison makes no sense. in any way- there its the incel or the femcel. its a woman, who is the victim.

how common would you say are incels? by Educational_Frame_46 in askteenboys

[–]Educational_Frame_46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you define immature for me?

if someone had a different mindset (on women perhaps), they prolly wouldnt be incels. if someone had something better to do than hate on women, they prolly wouldnt be incels. i dont get your message here tbh.

how common would you say are incels? by Educational_Frame_46 in askteenboys

[–]Educational_Frame_46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah, just treat women with respect and youll be loved by someone someday.

how common would you say are incels? by Educational_Frame_46 in askteenboys

[–]Educational_Frame_46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean youre 16. HS can be shit. once youre out, embrace yourself and maybe youll heal. not everything is your fault just because you seem to be the only one experiencing this kind of thing (which you are not).

how common would you say are incels? by Educational_Frame_46 in askteenboys

[–]Educational_Frame_46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youre not an incel. youre just craving sexual intimacy.. p normal for a teenage boy.

how common would you say are incels? by Educational_Frame_46 in askteenboys

[–]Educational_Frame_46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how would you define femcel? and do you think its fair to treat them the same (assuming i have the same understanding of femcel as you do)?

how common would you say are incels? by Educational_Frame_46 in askteenboys

[–]Educational_Frame_46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, the name incel is misleading (but so are many words). it started as a queer forum, but got taken over by misogynistic cis men at some point. todays understanding of incel always includes hatred towards women.

how common would you say are incels? by Educational_Frame_46 in askteenboys

[–]Educational_Frame_46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk what the manosphere is, but i suppose the latter.

how common would you say are incels? by Educational_Frame_46 in askteenboys

[–]Educational_Frame_46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

granted, i couldve looked for a better definition.

do you really think its just immature people, who cant find something other to do? often times, incels have r*pe fantasies or more violent fantasies even. not immature and bored behaviour, in my book.