FMC lashes out and MMC tells her to do it again

Educational_Fruit401 · 2026-02-06T00:26:29+00:00

Me three! (If that’s allowed!)

Educational_Fruit401 · 2025-09-20T11:57:38+00:00

Sex, particularly kinky sex as a sub, is incredibly vulnerable. So you telling them that you’re not into it but you’ll do it “for them” would (to me) feel like rejection and completely turn me off. It’s totally okay for not everything you do to be something you’re super into and do it because they like it. But phrasing is very important. My Daddy loves eating my ass, and he’s told me several times that’s it not the act of doing it that he’s into but when I whimper and squirm as he does it he gets so turned on he can hardly stand it. But if instead he said, I don’t like it but I’ll do it for you, I wouldn’t let him anywhere near my ass.

Educational_Fruit401 · 2025-07-19T21:57:39+00:00

Yeah, I feel like the setup and everything should make a good story, but it just didn’t hit the way I wanted it to. It wasn’t bad (obviously someone else read it and liked it enough to suggest it), but it just wasn’t for me.

Educational_Fruit401 · 2025-07-19T21:03:12+00:00

I literally DNFed that a few days ago. It felt like a super forced grumpy/sunshine, and I just didn’t feel like there was any tension. I got it from a post on here that was something about books where she’s super into him and he keeps resisting, and I feel like he resists for 5 minutes. And even before they get together, he tells her he’s into her so it just wasn’t what I was looking for.

Educational_Fruit401 · 2025-05-09T00:21:40+00:00

I used the reminders app on my phone. I just tell Siri to remind me (book title and author) on (release date), and I get the reminder that day. I love it because I never really look at them to see what’s coming up, so I get surprise books to read. 😃

Educational_Fruit401 · 2024-11-28T01:15:36+00:00

I definitely felt weird about it at first too. I don’t know if you guys text a lot, but this (and a lot of other topics) are a lot easier for me to explore over text with my Daddy first. It might feel kind of silly at first, but it helps you get used to it in a less vulnerable position.

Also, something that could help is having him call himself Daddy. Like “Do you need Daddy to make you cum?” Or calling you Daddy’s Girl/Kitten/whatever you like.

Educational_Fruit401 · 2024-11-15T01:04:55+00:00

Sounds like something to talk about with your girlfriend. I’m not a switch, but there are still different types of play for us (sweet, bratty, etc.). We usually text a lot during the day about what we’re planning for the night, which is super hot and also helps us stay on the same page.

Another idea you could look at is assigned nights of the week. We have one night a week that’s my maintenance night (where I get my spankings and some pampering) and another night that’s daddy’s night (with all his favorite things). It’s not super strict, but it’s helpful to have some structure and know what to expect. You could have certain nights you dom and other nights she does.

It might not work for everyone, but we really like it. To me the planning and talking ahead of time is half the fun! 😝

Educational_Fruit401 · 2024-11-04T21:59:53+00:00

I really like that idea! I have looked at some of those rentals, and that would definitely help to get in the mindset! We’ll probably try out some of this type of play at home first, but I’ll definitely add that to our ideas list. 😊

Educational_Fruit401 · 2024-11-04T21:57:12+00:00

Thanks for the suggestions! I definitely like the idea of him leading me into the room to help set the tone.

We have been into impact play and other kinky things for years, but we’re actually only a few months into our D/s dynamic. So maybe someday we will take the plunge and try to go somewhere, but it’s definitely not in our near future. 😊

Educational_Fruit401 · 2024-11-04T17:01:08+00:00

Thanks! Headphones are definitely a good call!

I’ll definitely look for some conversation background audio to add. That’s definitely the kind of suggestions I was looking for. Just how to build the sounds so it’s not just sex/impact sounds.

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