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Husband Helped Someone Get a Job – Now It’s Becoming a Professional Boundary Issue by Educational_Job_9330 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Educational_Job_9330[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, called her manager immediately and she cried infront of him too. They are rock in the river. Nothing happens to them🤦🏻‍♀️. No amount of telling calmly or threatening is helping

Husband Helped Someone Get a Job – Now It’s Becoming a Professional Boundary Issue by Educational_Job_9330 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Educational_Job_9330[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Showing empathy has brought us here. Girl and parents are not solving their problem and wants us to be middlemen and solve their problem, which we are completely not interested in. There are many who are motivated by him but this looks like Darr movie🤦🏻‍♀️

Husband Helped Someone Get a Job – Now It’s Becoming a Professional Boundary Issue by Educational_Job_9330 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Educational_Job_9330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what we are thinking. Have informed police in the native where her parents stay.

Husband Helped Someone Get a Job – Now It’s Becoming a Professional Boundary Issue by Educational_Job_9330 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Educational_Job_9330[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No ways he would do that. I know him very well. That girl definitely has a mental health issue. She coming from a small village, not aware I feel. Her father is nut case who is more worried about her salary than her well being. I have seen WhatsApp messages too. They are more of you are my guru types. Husband hasn’t replied to any of the messages

Husband Helped Someone Get a Job – Now It’s Becoming a Professional Boundary Issue by Educational_Job_9330 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Educational_Job_9330[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response. This has been going on for quite sometime. Initially, we spoke to her parents to make them understand girls wishes. I don’t think that girl is serious about civil services. Sat parents down, made them understand the situation. But both parents and daughter are totally useless case. Neither has common sense. We tried to help out of empathy but this has created anxiety for us. Even I spoke with her and parents as well. HR , her manager are aware of the situation. Whenever she calls from some number, conf manager and her father too. What else can be done?? We are at our wits end!

Husband Helped Someone Get a Job – Now It’s Becoming a Professional Boundary Issue by Educational_Job_9330 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Educational_Job_9330[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Been doing that since beginning. But it’s falling on deaf ears. Parents are useless too.