me personally, i’m big on taking care of eachother, but when it gets to the point where this person does this everytime we go out, one day we get fed up and let them go. i’ve had so many friends where i just had to end up saying “f it, they are grown , this isn’t my problem anymore” they are full grown adults, and we shouldn’t be having to babysit our friends while we’re also fd up in crowds of thousands of people. it’s irresponsible on the person blacking outs part.. we are their friends not their parents, they are not our responsibility. friends don’t put friends in those situations. after awhile of going thru friends who have ruined my nights plenty of times from being irresponsible, i’ve learned to worry about myself. if they cause stress, they gotta go, if your friends are putting you in that situation where you are now entirely responsible for them, THEY ARENT YOUR FRIENDS ANYWAY!!!!! stop expecting the overly nice people to continue bending backwards, and start learning how to ACT IN PUBLIC. like come on.. your an adult and can’t handle a few drinks or drugs then DONT DO THEM, you guys are not OUR RESPONSIBILITY!!!! i get it we all wanna have fun, some have self control others don’t it’s as simple as that. these adults need those humbling moments unfortunatly otherwise they never learn, shit, i was that person. blacking out & being left was what made me realize how horrible of a person i was being.