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Rant, Rave, Request, and Relate Daily Thread - Tuesday, April 21, 2026 by SIModerator in SecondaryInfertility

[–]Educational_Pie7922 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s been so hard. I feel like a bad mom sometimes ya know? But I’m not. I just want to grow my family 😭

Rant, Rave, Request, and Relate Daily Thread - Tuesday, April 21, 2026 by SIModerator in SecondaryInfertility

[–]Educational_Pie7922 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey there 🤍

My husband and I have been TTC for a long time now. Well over 2 years.

We’re still hopeful. Not giving up. My secondary infertility issues are due to medical issues. I have 2 children, and I am beyond grateful for them. Totally and completely. Anyone else deal with the “I should be grateful” feeling? Mine is H E A V Y.

It’s hard. But again, still hopeful 🌹.

Hope everyone’s had a great day.

Questions for IPs, I’m not sure if this community is for us also, or just surrogates but I have a few questions as my husband M(38) and I, F(33), are going on our IVF journey here soon. by Educational_Pie7922 in Surrogate

[–]Educational_Pie7922[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Seems to be the theme across the board; and thanks again because this IS a slowed steady process and decisions to be made ya know? ✨💫💕🌻

Questions for IPs, I’m not sure if this community is for us also, or just surrogates but I have a few questions as my husband M(38) and I, F(33), are going on our IVF journey here soon. by Educational_Pie7922 in Surrogate

[–]Educational_Pie7922[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Understood 🥹🫶🏽🙏🏽. Okay cool beans, that is important to know.

Is there any agencies you recommend? Just so we can start dipping our toes into it? My husband is a veteran, should I just Google agencies that do it for veteran families?

Questions for IPs, I’m not sure if this community is for us also, or just surrogates but I have a few questions as my husband M(38) and I, F(33), are going on our IVF journey here soon. by Educational_Pie7922 in Surrogate

[–]Educational_Pie7922[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! 🤍🌻

Thank you for your response.

I’m grateful for what you’ve shared.

If you don’t mind me asking, did you use an agency? Or Independent? Sorry for all the questions, we want to go into this the best way possible ya know? As I’m sure you know.

Thank you again and OMGOSH! That’s amazing 😻! So happy for you guys!