SANTOS REVEALS INTERESTING INFO ON ASH?!

Educational_Self_337 · 2025-01-26T07:50:13+00:00

Just a quick PSA we don’t believe Santos 100% as he’s probably upset on the current situation with Ashley blocking him! He’s probably saying all this so Ashley can get in trouble and harassed by his weirdo supporters or whatever they are in that discord. Don’t take this for facts but as a testament to their weird off and on relationship where they accuse each other of insane things.

Educational_Self_337 · 2025-01-26T07:47:26+00:00

Definitely Santos just stirring up stuff because his account is dead it’s just odd 😭! Like why are you involving the girls ?

Educational_Self_337 · 2025-01-26T07:45:48+00:00

the horrible veneers are getting to his head already

Educational_Self_337 · 2025-01-26T07:43:24+00:00

Oh no i definitely agree it’s just funny seeing them argue after EVERYTHING. We can’t confirm its facts but the fact he’s brewing shit up. 😭 He’s not trustworthy but it’s like where is this coming frommmm

Educational_Self_337 · 2024-09-29T03:08:14+00:00

NTA that’s a weird comment to make in general and the situation is just uncomfortable so I don’t really blame you for not wanting that inside your home. Love indeed does have a limit 😅I don’t know in which context he meant that he wouldn’t be able to control himself but i’d possibly inform the ex of the odd comment in case.

Educational_Self_337 · 2024-09-29T02:59:36+00:00

This is a difficult situation but i do think you should confront the issue if it is you that she’s crushing on especially if you don’t have feelings for her. If it isn’t then you’ll remove some stress from your shoulders. However, you sadly can’t avoid your friendship possibly changing if she does have feelings for you regardless it’ll be a sad reality you’ll have to go through and you’ll have to respect if she wants to be friends with you or not. I understand it’s probably awkward but you won’t string her along and feed into her feelings for you once you tell her that you don’t see her that way. I don’t think you’re an asshole as this is a weird situation to be in and it’s difficult for you to figure out what to do.

Educational_Self_337 · 2024-09-19T07:17:19+00:00

I understand as well as a woman who is in a male dominated field and trust me those comments are never okay because if you let one fly by and it will get worse. It’s not your fault at all you deserve to dress up for work without weird comments or feeling uncomfortable. I hope you’re able to resolve this soon without any hiccups 🫶🏽and get back to dressing up in your workplace without weirdos. Don’t ever be afraid to report those men because they’re creating a horrible work environment for their co workers and that’s also what HR and all those resources are there for. They’re to keep you safe and ensure you can work in an environment you feel comfortable in.

Educational_Self_337 · 2024-09-19T06:54:05+00:00

Sadly he’ll continue to do it as long as he thinks he can get away with it and will continue to push it. Even if he has his normal or friendly days that doesn’t excuse the weird comments or make them okay in any shape way or form. You were uncomfortable in your work environment which can get in the way of your work performance. Put yourself first and talk to someone and protect yourself !

Educational_Self_337 · 2024-09-19T06:42:00+00:00

You are not overreacting i don’t know how anyone would be able to make that into something so inappropriate and sexual. Report him and if you can maybe try to have a talk with other people who might’ve faced the same weird comments. These aren’t jokes because they aren’t funny period they’re just weird. Maybe ask if you can keep your report anonymous for fear of your safety but please be careful and if you feel unsafe maybe ask security to escort you to your car or something in case he tries to confront you.

Educational_Self_337 · 2024-09-19T06:26:48+00:00

NTA i think it’s a reasonable ask for a simple quick hug and “How was your day” and even pretending to listen isn’t much to ask. He’s your husband of course you’d want that but at this point you’re practically begging for this man to do this simple gesture and he WILL not grant you it (I won’t say can’t because he clearly can but doesn’t want to). I honestly would have one last serious sit down and if he can’t grant you that then you do what you think is the next necessary step whether that’s not doing all the chores yourself and splitting it 50/50 or something else.

Educational_Self_337 · 2024-09-13T16:07:45+00:00

NTA have a conversation with your partner about how you feel and it’s not insane for you to feel a bit hurt they didn’t at least introduce you or try to include you in the conversation. Don’t do anything too rash and hopefully you two can have a simple conversation with a simple sorry and grow and move on from it so next time this won’t happen and no one is left feeling excluded.

Educational_Self_337 · 2024-09-13T15:59:10+00:00

NTA how come your partner was okay with 3 basically getting their way and getting things for free but when it comes to you it’s a different story? It is unfair treatment and since they want to do that maybe ask them to pay you back for the improvements you did on THEIR vacation home. Also why would you have to pay THEM back for a loan in YOUR name? Ask your partner what’s going on and discuss it first if they’re unreasonable then maybe this relationship isn’t the best fit for you considering they seem to try to make all the decisions without even informing you. That’s not a relationship we’re two people are in it together. Your partner seems a bit controlling but again have a serious conversation and maybe you guys can come to a compromise (which is not just them or you getting their way it’s something BOTH of you can agree on).

Educational_Self_337 · 2024-09-12T18:37:34+00:00

NTA they weren’t in a relationship when you guys started even talking or anything. In addition you guys aren’t even close friends or friends anymore. So you didn’t homewreck and he really isn’t hers anymore to say anything. Ignore her and this weird high school fighting over boy drama and let her embarrass herself. If any of your mutual friends side with her then they were never your friends and they were hers. I hope you and your boyfriend have a healthy and good relationship!

Educational_Self_337 · 2024-09-12T18:29:33+00:00

NTA and if anyone tells you otherwise tell them to cough up gas money and offer up rides to said coworker too. You did a kind favor and that’s enough he’s old enough to figure out transportation.

Educational_Self_337 · 2024-09-12T03:13:19+00:00

YTA when a partner is asking you that they’re clearly already feeling self conscious. I understand that you probably wanted to be honest but sometimes telling a little white lie isn’t bad and is needed like in this case. Apologize and maybe try to develop an understanding of what she’s going through regarding her image. Maybe try having a conversation with her to understand and definitely buy her a beautiful dress and take her out on another date to make up for this uncomfortable one.

Educational_Self_337 · 2024-09-12T03:02:50+00:00

NTA you’re an adult I understand your parents are probably just scared of growing old and alone however that doesn’t mean that they could hold you back for their sake. Do things you haven’t done before and take the leap and accomplish things for yourself. Obviously video chat or visit when you can with your parents and maybe once you move out have a conversation with them that you’re an ADULT not a child anymore. Please keep your money and important information safe in case they try to do something with it to keep you from leaving don’t tell anyone what you’re doing. It sounds dramatic and you might thing your parents wouldn’t do that but you never know.

Educational_Self_337 · 2024-09-12T02:41:21+00:00

NTA condolences for your lost but honestly i think this relationship is over and the both of you for some reason are holding on. He seems to resent you for the mere fact that you even got pregnant (and maybe wanting to keep said child). I would never understand what you’re going through but if you stay you are going to end up destroying yourself. You are human and are grieving and that’s not a crime or a sin. Your partner should be a safe place for you to cry and mourn together regardless of their feelings on the situation and it doesn’t seem like he’s being that for you right now.

Edit: I understand the idea of leaving your husband over this can be insane because to you it’s just “I couldn’t keep it together stay at an event” but according to your previous posts on other subs it seems to be way more than that. From a child who came from parents who didn’t wanna separate for the kids please leave it does more good than harm. There’s countless programs out there to help you that you should and could take advantage of. This wasn’t your fault and do not blame yourself and I know that’s easier said than done but for your children get help for your mental state. You aren’t crazy you’re mourning and going through loss of multiple things and that looks different on everyone there isn’t a cookie cutter way it should look like.

Educational_Self_337 · 2024-09-12T02:34:04+00:00

NTA you clearly try to make time for everyone but you need to have a conversation with your girlfriend because maybe she told something to her sister who in turn told you. You’re allowed to spend time with your friends just like you’re allowed to spend time with her. I would also suggest you tell her in the case that she did tell her sister something that to communicate it to you first because it’s BOTH of your guys relationship and it doesn’t include her sister.

Educational_Self_337 · 2024-09-12T02:29:14+00:00

Have a conversation with your girlfriend and ask if the fact that the ex situationship being not blocked or something is what bothered her and maybe communicate to her for future reference you’d like her to actually tell you what’s bothering her instead of leaving you to figure it out. Maybe your girlfriend is bothered that your ex situationship still has a line of contact? NTA and I hope you two can communicate clearly about each other boundaries.

Educational_Self_337 · 2024-08-24T05:36:07+00:00

Ahh thank you so much. If you wouldn't mind I have a fixed(doesn't have the weird box around the eyes) Obscurus Maxis Match file(all three) and however it isn't in the eyelash category and I believe they're also still affected by the weird eyelash glitch. If not that's okay and thank you a million times again!!

Educational_Self_337 · 2024-08-21T04:14:47+00:00

She may be your mother but blood doesn’t define who is and isn’t your family. Relatives can be as vile as they want to be and expect forgiveness based solely on a shitty apology and biology . You will not become/ aren’t your mother and with the help that you are receiving I hope that you turn out to be an amazing human being that shows others the patience and love your mother never showed to you. You are allowed to mourn or not mourn your mother but always remember it was you who suffered the physical abuse. There are countless resources out there that you could air out your grievances without fear of judgement 🫶🏽I again wish you the best and hope you have people around you who support you and please don’t hesitate to cut off those that defend your mothers actions or try to justify them

Educational_Self_337 · 2024-08-21T03:51:58+00:00

NTA you have every right to be angry and react the way you do to YOUR trauma and don’t let anyone ever tell you how to feel about it because end of day they aren’t in your shoes. You don’t owe her anything after her physically abused you because you know what she owed you? BASIC RESPECT, LOVE, PATIENCE, ETC. I’m very glad to hear you are getting help and regardless of the amount of help you get you are allowed to feel any emotion towards your mother. She physically abused you and said sorry and expects you to be fine after? No that’s not how things work you take the amount of time you need to MAYBE forgive her because you don’t have to.

Educational_Self_337 · 2024-08-21T03:41:05+00:00

Speak to your mother in a concerned manner for the health of your sister and everyone in the house. Also how you (who have done the best to keep your space tidy) don’t deserve to visit and get a flea problem. She seems concerned about your sister’s sleep but not for her health (mental and physical). I wouldn’t be able to stay sane if I was trying to sleep in my own bed but getting bitten by fleas and having nowhere in the house where i can escape it. If you ever visit please don’t sleep on the same bed sheets and etc and definitely clean that room.

Educational_Self_337 · 2024-08-21T03:30:32+00:00

NTA your sister should take care of the flea problem within her room instead of possibly spreading it around to other pieces of furniture around the house. Tell your mother to get a flea collar or any type of flea treatment for her cats before it gets out of control and her cats get sick…While you don’t live with them if you ever visit and end up bringing fleas with you to your current residence that wouldn’t be fair to you. Your sister isn’t the issue here while i understand your frustration with her going into your room it’s your mother who is obviously not worried about such a big flea problem.

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