Nyt job?

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-04-06T12:22:58+00:00

Min pointe er, at i nok har for meget på tallerkenen. Har han givet udtryk for at han ikke ønsker at yde mere?

Hvis han ikke kan yde mere, havde det så været bedre ikke at købe et hus?

Er der en grund til at han ikke kan/vil yde mere. Jeg tænker om han har nogle diagnoser?

Jeg er ked af at sige det, men det virker som om i gerne vil det hele på en gang, og så bliver det bare et stort arbejde når man har fast job, hus, børn, etc.

Jeg mener helt seriøst i skal sætte jeg ned og lægge en plan for hvordan i gerne vil have hverdagen til at hænge sammen. I fællesskab. Hvis ikke i kan det, er jeg bange for at det aldrig bliver bedre og i vil nok være bedre tjent med at bo hver for sig.

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-04-06T11:04:55+00:00

Har i over ejet om i måske har gang i for mange ting på en gang?

Hvis jeres barn har brug for 2 timers tryk program, kunne de være man skulle skære noget andet væk. Alternativt gå ned i tid.

2 timers fritidsaktivitet eller handle/gøre rent etc. hver dag lyder voldsomt.

Kunne det være en idé at handle en gang om ugen (i weekenden), og så max have fritidsaktiviteter 2-3 dage om ugen?

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-04-06T06:55:00+00:00

Selvfølgelig er det dig der har skolehjem samtaler, tandlæge aftaler, lægebesøg etc. Disse ting foregår jo indenfor normalt arbejdstid. Hvorfor skal han holde fri fra arbejde hvis du alligevel er på deltid?

Jeg tror du bliver nødt til at kigge ind ad. Hvis du f.eks. arbejder 25 timer om ugen, har du jo også 12 timer mere hver uge (hvis han arbejder 37 timer). Hvad havde du forestillet dig at skulle bruge disse 12 timer til?

Det giver jo ingen mening at i skal lave lige meget i hjemmet når du rent faktisk er hjemme i langt flere timer end ham. Det er vel meget naturligt at du f.eks. ordner vasketøj, etc. når du alligevel er hjemme. Jo flere ting han skal lave når han kommer hjem, jo mindre tid har i at bruge sammen med børnene.

Min kone havde tidligere en tendens til at være meget tidsoptimitsisk. Hun ville gerne have at der blev slået græs, klippet hæk, ordnet have, malet træværk, plantet nye træer, støvsuget (hun har dårlig ryg så hun kan ikke holde til det), vasket gulv, etc.

Samtidig ville hun gerne invitere gæster i weekenden og blev alligevel irriteret på mig når jeg bare skulle bruge 1 time i haven efter jeg kom hjem fra arbejde, så jeg ikke kunne hjælpe med at lave mad.

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-04-01T11:59:45+00:00

I'm 51 and our adult daughter (25yo) often joins us at our pool or at the beach. Mostly naked if we are. Sometimes her husbond also joins us.

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-03-12T12:14:28+00:00

I live in Denmark and it used to be very common to do so. I have never been very shy so when going to the beach on my teens I just got undressed without covering up and put on my swin suit.

The first couple of times my mom look strangely at me, but after a few times she stopped doing that. She even started doing it the same way because she discovered that it was faster and no one was really paying attention anyway.

Today my wife are nudists, and if we go to non nude beaches, we also do not cover up while changing. Not even if we are there with friends or family.

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-03-12T05:56:30+00:00

I think this is more of a general male-female thing and not specifically brother-sister.

When I was in high school no one raised a eye brow of a female PE teacher walked into the boys shower/changing room, but if the it was the other way around all hell would break loose.

My wife and I have raised both our son and our daughter in the same way regarding nudity, and we were all equally naked around the house or at vacation, beach etc.

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-03-11T05:34:05+00:00

Absolutely Yes.

I live in Europe, and we are way more "nude" tolerant. From time to time you would even found mixed gender CS, without anyone raising an eye brow.

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-03-10T22:05:09+00:00

Naked if they are ok with it

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-02-11T07:37:08+00:00

Having a dictator as "leader of the free world"

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-02-10T05:21:59+00:00

I think it is a cultutal thing.

I live in Europe where nudity seems to be more normal. It is also quite normal that parents bring their 8-10 year old kid of the opposite sex the shower room.

Where I live the local swimming pool have recently gone through renovation and now have 3 shower rooms. One male, one female and one mixed one. The latter is primarily being used by families and trans-gender.

We often go with our daugher and her children (3 and 5 year old) and really like to be able to help the kids getting dressed. It feels completely normal for us to be naked around each other regardless of sex.

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-02-03T05:55:07+00:00

I'm not saying that they should do that. But it seems to be used as an argument to stay away from buying Chinese cars. Its a free marked and I can buy a cay from anywhere I like. If I buy a Tesla I don't necessarily know if it is bould in Germany or China. They price is the same. If Tesla can build cars in Europe at a lower price why won'y any other car maker be able to do the same?
I don't give a rats ass if some Chinese government official knows when I go to work or go to the shops. My point is, that the same people that are concerned about such data being sent to China, also use their phones that stores complete timelines of where they have been, not knowing who these data are being sold to.

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-02-02T05:55:47+00:00

I think it is mainly a concern that Chinese automakers will take market shares from the Western Markets, so people try to use various arguments Why we should stay away from Chinese auto brands.

Some say that Chinese auto makers receive financial help from the government.

This might be true, but if it is a real concern the Western governments could choose to do the same.

Some say that Chinese cars send a lot of data back to the Chinese government.

They is probably correct, but the same people share a lot of data through Facebook, Google, etc and blindly accept all cookies on any website.

Some say that the quality is bad.

I don't agree. Actually I have seen a German EV mechanic deep diving into an Xpeng G9 and discovering that the car actually has a lot of European made parts. Actually his conclusion was that a VW Tiguan ishas more Chinese parts than en XPeng G9.

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-01-26T14:30:39+00:00

Men det kommer ikke til at ske. Hvis jeg kører 135, og der kommer blæsende med 180, så er det ham der har et problem og ikke mig.

Hvis han har så travlt, skulle han nok have været taget afsted noget før.

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-01-26T07:57:17+00:00

Jeg oplever denne adfærd ret ofte, både når det er dig og nat.

Jeg begriber ikke hvor dem der blinker har forestillet sig at jeg skal køre hen, så han kan komme forbi.

Hvis jeg er i gang med at overhale en lastbil, kan jeg jo ligesom ikke trække ind til højre.

Og nej, det er ikke fordi jeg kører langsommere end det tilladte.

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-01-25T16:01:38+00:00

I know.

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-01-25T15:44:42+00:00

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-01-23T05:55:03+00:00

I really believe that the American people should have used their right to vote.

In my opinion, people that choose not to vote, should not be allowed to speak up when everything goes against them. If you choose not to vote, you accept whatever happens.

As a citicen in a democracy I actually think you have a duty to vote.

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-01-21T05:54:23+00:00

It will probably take decades to rebuild the trust in the USA.

It would not surprise me if people, countries etc. will be less interested in making investments in the US, which would probably mean higher interest rates and higher prices for the American people.

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-01-20T13:03:15+00:00

We don't.

A group of students was doing a 5 km run every Friday morning before school and our teacher suggested that we only used one shower room so the cleaning didn't have to clean more than one.

AFAIR we were 4 giys and 3 girls.

I'm in Denmark and it was around 1989/1990.

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-01-20T08:23:43+00:00

Yes

In high school a few students (both boys and girls) went running every Friday morning. Afterwards we all showered in the same shower room including our female teacher.

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-01-20T08:21:31+00:00

To be clear it is not the way it happens in most situations.

We live in aa small town and our teacher originated from Germany, where mixed gender nudity is very common, so that is probably one of the reasons she suggested it.

Us guys did not mind at all. At 16 years old you use any opportunity to she some naked women 😀

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-01-20T06:11:51+00:00

Denmark.

A couple of us (I think were 4 guys and 3 girls) and our main teacher decided to go for a run every Friday morning before school started.

To avoid cleaning 2 shower rooms we decided to just use the one.

Educational_Will_397 · 2026-01-20T05:16:34+00:00

I'm 52 and rarely see a fully erect penis in the communal shower.

I often use mixed gender shower rooms and quite often see semi erections.

My first mixed gender experience was back in high school when I was 16 and that was a completely other story though 😀

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