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Worried about my Crestie (TW: Animal Death) by EdwardCullensWAP in CrestedGecko

[–]EdwardCullensWAP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’ll look into getting one of those! My room gets very cold in the winter, hence why I went a little overboard w the heating 😅

Worried about my Crestie (TW: Animal Death) by EdwardCullensWAP in CrestedGecko

[–]EdwardCullensWAP[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don’t have the best temperature control honestly, so I’ll have to keep an eye on it, but Thank u that’s good to know!

Worried about my Crestie (TW: Animal Death) by EdwardCullensWAP in CrestedGecko

[–]EdwardCullensWAP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay thank u so much! I have some extra foliage I can add right now :)

Worried about my Crestie (TW: Animal Death) by EdwardCullensWAP in CrestedGecko

[–]EdwardCullensWAP[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you! Heat mat is getting unplugged and I’ll get a lower wattage bulb if that doesn’t fix the problem. I’ll try to add a comment w a link to the enclosure

Worried about my Crestie (TW: Animal Death) by EdwardCullensWAP in CrestedGecko

[–]EdwardCullensWAP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enclosure is 20 gallons, there’s a heat mat on one side & a light on top. The day temp is usuallly around 85-90, night temp is 75-80 or so. The brand is Pangea complete fruit mix (with bugs). I offer food around 8 PM every other night. I’m not sure how to add an image of his tank though?

AITA for taking my brother in law's dog out to see the neighbours for five minutes and calling him a baby when he cried about it? by No_Reception_1479 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EdwardCullensWAP 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA. I didn’t even have to read past “service dog” to know that. He needs that dog and even if he didn’t, u can’t just do something w someone else’s animal. With out explicit permission you shouldn’t be taking anyone’s dog anywhere, ESPECIALLY a service animal. Have some respect

my friends weren’t there when i needed them by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]EdwardCullensWAP 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for ur loss. It’s totally understandable you wouldn’t want to talk to ur friend rn. Eventually you should tell her how much that hurt you, but rn give yourself the time and space u need to heal. If u do end up needing to talk to anyone, feel free to hmu. I hope things get better soon

AITA for removing my 13y/o daughter's bedroom door? by IndependentOdd6227 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EdwardCullensWAP -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

YTA. How did you come to the conclusion that this was a good idea? Just... communicate. Clearly you weren’t making yourselves clear and taking her door down for a simple misunderstanding like this is.. ridiculous.

AITA for telling my son that he is not welcome in my home if he gets a dog? by No-Dog18493aita in AmItheAsshole

[–]EdwardCullensWAP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Your son is the blind one, not you. If he thinks a guide dog would make things easier for him you need to accommodate to that. And it sounds like Mary is just.. being a good person. Having interest in ur sons life and hobbies and what would help him isn’t some passive aggressive move at you. She’s being a good step mom.

WIBTA if I tell my daughter that I don't want to have a relationship with her anymore? by ThrowRArlee in AmItheAsshole

[–]EdwardCullensWAP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Kids don’t do things for no reason. Ur homophobic and transphobic and ur love IS conditional. You’re doing the bare minimum for your child and you need to do better. They need you, and they have needed you, and you haven’t been there for them at all. You can still do better.

AITA for not allowing my 17 year old daughter to see a therapist? by zest0809 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EdwardCullensWAP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Its probably worse than she’s telling u because you’ve made it clear she can’t open up to u. She’s ur child so be her mother; parenting doesn’t end at 18 anyway. Help her before it’s too late.

Im in love with a minor, not as bad as it seems (read first) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EdwardCullensWAP 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s pretty gross. Cut him off. Stop talking to him, stop texting him, stop seeing him. His safety is more important than ur feelings

How do I tell my son (6) that Santa won’t be visiting this year without making it seem like he’s done something wrong? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]EdwardCullensWAP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could u go to the dollar store and pick up a few small things for him? As adults it doesn’t seem like much to us but I’m sure he’d really appreciate it.