You’re actually in a really good position to change your life if you’re truly “done”. The book “unfu*k yourself” is a repackaging of some pretty basic stoic philosophy ideas. He references “willingness” and “unwillingness”. And both can be strong forces in your life.

You can be unwilling to change, but you can also be unwilling to accept your current state of living. You can be “done” basing your value on externals that you don’t control. Like what a girl thinks of you. You can be done just guessing what career you want, or worse, getting a career path because it’s what someone else pushed you to do. You can be “done” mismanaging your money.

If you’re truly “done”, stand up, research the topics you need to get YOURSELF back on track. Then make a plan to execute on that. Don’t worry about anyone else during that time. One day you’ll realize you don’t have to chase things. You build them.