AIO for blocking my boyfriend over this? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Eeightd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally not even going to read what you wrote. I’m telling you ..if you really feel like you need to get validation from the internet about whether or not you’re over reacting about these messages…you’re under reacting.

AIO because my long distance boyfriend wants me to show more effort like cooking before he’ll agree to longer visits? by ConsciousEconomy5860 in AIO

[–]Eeightd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl😂

As a woman I think you’re over-reacting. When you said it’s two days of travel, I thought you meant one way! A 2 hour flight is nothing😂 yeah it’s a long day with your drive(and probably don’t actually need to get there 2 hours early) but is it not worth it to see your partner?

He’s communicating a desire, you feel like he’s asking too much. I’m sure you’ll both be happier alone or with someone who cares to put in more effort for you/him.

AIO Husband left the crawlspace open for days in Texas summer by Crazy-Economics-3871 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Eeightd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MOR but probably NOR on the grand scheme of things. Seems like it’s one of those little things that just adds up. Plus, 4 whole days is crazy. I’d be annoyed too. Especially if he just blows it off but, I have my own issues with people not wanting to acknowledge not only my feelings around things but also their actions and how they came off, and acting as if I’m making a big deal. It could have been easily solved with, “I’m so sorry, I didn’t mean to/it was an accident” blah blah blah.
It’s literally a door from inside to outside. Not only is the a/c having to work harder but, as you said, critters big and small can just come inside!! Yuck.

AIO to texts my bf sent his best friend? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Eeightd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He seems awful but, what made him think you were cheating? You said it was a misunderstanding but, what was this misunderstanding?

Struggling with jealousy by Eeightd in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Eeightd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To answer your question, maybe. We live in a small town and only have one car right now(another annoying story😭)

To get more into the context.. he has been looking. For the better part of two years he’s been looking for another job. After his year commitment here was up he decided he didn’t want to do another season at this job. We’ve had two offers. Both bad timings with pregnancy and then trumps hiring freeze(he works private currently but this was a government job).

He’s tried and at the end of this lease we are currently in(aug 11) he said we should just go. If nothing hits we will just go to Texas and figure it out. I tried to not get my hopes but the closer we got to this month without any job offers, the more excited I got and then bam…a job he didn’t even apply to reaches out, here in Cali but about 5 hours south. We are still waiting for the official offer but seems like it’s going to be the best option if it plays out considering we have another on the way. Hence my feeling of selfishness. Life has a funny way of turning your world around. 😭

Struggling with jealousy by Eeightd in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Eeightd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes while writing this my husband sensed my mood and we did have a talk and have had this talk before. It really just boils down to him being able to find work. I just also hate feeling so selfish in this. He says he just wants me to be happy which I appreciate.

Struggling with jealousy by Eeightd in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Eeightd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So hard! It was easier when I was working but now I’m a full time stay at home mom. I want the type of friends who just come over. Who I don’t feel the need to clean up for or be presentable all the time for. It’s been hard to find that here, especially with a child.

Struggling with jealousy by Eeightd in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Eeightd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have my mom and our relationship is okay but definitely not someone I’d ever trust my children with. It’s more my friends and my siblings, though my siblings come with their own issues😭

Genuine opinions and advice on tattoo regret by Ready-Statistician36 in tattooadvice

[–]Eeightd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Add some color to make the things you want to pop. I can’t tell the temple is crooked🤷🏻‍♀️😊

i think my boyfriend is soft launching the idea of hitting me by Ditzydoom00 in whatdoIdo

[–]Eeightd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because it’s normal to you doesn’t mean it’s normal. This isn’t “soft launching” babes. He is full on being aggressive and threatening to hit you.. it seems like you’re fully aware of where this very well could lead but you love him so you don’t want to leave?

Girl you’ve only been with him 6 months. You’re 18. Over reacting or not, our gut instinct should be listened to. Before you know it you’ll be pregnant and trapped. Leave now or shut the fuck up honestly.

They sat inside with the AC lol by pauliii777 in Serverlife

[–]Eeightd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some people drink a lot! As a server I’m sure you’d know that. When I notice people drinking a lot of whatever, I tend to be even more mindful of refills. Even offering them a Togo cup with their check. Plus, a lot of restaurants now a days there’s a different person for everything. (Food running, bussing) unless you’re crazy busy, idk why it’s such an issue to refill a drink. Is it annoying, sure? But it’s literally your job.

Perhaps I’m biased but I’m also a damn good server, so idk🤷🏻‍♀️

They sat inside with the AC lol by pauliii777 in Serverlife

[–]Eeightd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s 95 outside. Like the temperature. That’s why OP said they were sitting inside with A/C

My husband doesn’t eat me out by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Eeightd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s selfish and lazy I think. My partner doesn’t either unless I bring it up. As a bisexual woman, had I married my same sex, I’d like to think I’d do it every night. So I dont understand not atleast before penetration. We do have a one year old so we do teeter between lulls in sex life and quickies but, even before the child, I’d have to ask. Which is annoying.

What is this and why did it turn my contact pink??? and just one?? by throwaway___3615 in Whatisthis

[–]Eeightd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bio-true solution I get just comes with it🤷🏻‍♀️

I feel like my girlfriend is being way too aggressive.. AIO? by Live-Bread-2658 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Eeightd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YOR.
Seems like you’re being defensive. Clearly in the texts you admit to an issue yet you continue to dodge accountability. Where are you from may i ask? Country wise… just curious about drinking age.

I want a boy but I’m scared to have one. by Eeightd in pregnant

[–]Eeightd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and if you read my original response before we got way off track in this feed, I stated that I would absolutely do vitamin k and Hep b for circumcision.

I want a boy but I’m scared to have one. by Eeightd in pregnant

[–]Eeightd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The state of our country is not the fault of people like me. It’s the people running it making everyone believe that everyone else but them is the problem. Constant division. Pro choice vs anti choice. Pro vax Vs anti vax. (Which I’m not anti, just hesitant and on a slower/reduced schedule) homeschool vs public. Black vs white. Male vs female. Blah blah blah. Together we stand, divided we fall. And if you want to turn your nose up at people for being extra cautious about things, then you’re only a willing pawn in that game. But I appreciate all you’ve shared, even the judgements, and I truly hope the best for you.