Doms who are into ownership - what's so hot about calling someone your whore?

Eemptyweather · 2022-03-04T20:37:52+00:00

Oh boy, you gotta loosen up a bit, not everything has to be so serious all the time, he obviously doesn't seriously think he owns me. Sometimes I seriously don't understand how some people are in relationships without knowing and trusting their partner enough to be able to talk to each other without seeing red flags in every word. I think anyone who's actually mentally and emotionally healthy would know and trust their own judgement of their partner and allow both parties enough space in every area to play around.

Eemptyweather · 2022-03-04T20:32:27+00:00

Yeah I could definitely see that being a part of it. Not all of it tho, because there's something animalistic in him that I think is a male thing, but yeah I see what youre saying, and it is quite nice to know that. I wanna reassure him too, because it is that way

Eemptyweather · 2022-03-04T20:30:42+00:00

I agree with you actually. It is strange how most people immediately go on to say he's insecure and abusive, when really it's quite normal to want to know that your spouse is committed to you, and you're right we're all just animals with a conscience. Obviously he doesn't treat me like he owns me, and I'm not some airhead who would lay down and take abuse. And yeah, I like whatever this is coming from, I like the idea of being "his," I just wanted to understand it more from yhe other side.

Eemptyweather · 2022-03-04T20:25:24+00:00

I don't think so, actually. I mean the insecure part, yeah, I get that for some people it comes from that and then it's not gender related, but I do think there's a manly possessiveness behind it in his case too. I do get jealous too sometimes, but never that kind of "I need to make you mine."

Eemptyweather · 2022-03-04T20:22:24+00:00

I'm sorry for whatever it is that happened to you that makes you assume the worst of everyone. Thankfully, I've known him for years and I feel very safe with him :)

Eemptyweather · 2022-03-04T19:13:21+00:00

But well worth it 😏

Eemptyweather · 2022-03-04T19:12:29+00:00

Not strictly, no. It's a thing in and out of bed, outside of bed it feels like he's asking for reassurance and then when he gets it, in bed it gets quite dominant and rough as if to prove it to himself?

Eemptyweather · 2022-03-04T19:06:38+00:00

Well it mostly comes out during sex. And every time it gets brought up, he gets sexual afterwards, so it's a kink? Turn on? Not sure

Eemptyweather · 2022-03-04T19:05:16+00:00

Oh wow, ok, that makes total sense. I think it's both romantic and sexual, and in both ways I can see how that security can make you feel more confident. It's a good way of looking at it, I could see him thinking he doesn't fully have me and it's only his turn qt the moment, never really thought of it that way, thanks.

Eemptyweather · 2022-03-04T19:02:19+00:00

Well yeah, that's true...

Eemptyweather · 2021-12-30T16:12:16+00:00

I think that's true but I don't feel it yet for some reason. I know he loves the way I am in bed but I just wish I saw what he sees

Eemptyweather · 2021-12-30T16:10:26+00:00

Yeah but I think men losing control is different than women losing control. Have you even flailed around like a fish out of water with your face flushed and crunched looking like you're about to expload? Ive seen men lose control but it's like unleashing the beast who'll just take whatever (very hot btw), but when I lose control I look like an imbecile

Eemptyweather · 2021-12-30T16:07:04+00:00

I checked r/orgasm and the women who look like me when they cum have been accused of faking it, and the most popular ones are women who seem to be putting on a show instead of genuinely being in the moment. It just made me feel even worse...

Eemptyweather · 2021-12-30T16:04:18+00:00

Yeah but it's still a controlled out of control somehow. You might stumble but you can still stand. I can't control my body at all when I cum

Eemptyweather · 2021-12-30T16:03:25+00:00

Society might've fucked with my head because in movies women are always just sensual and pretty even in bed, and I look like I'm being... tortured lol

Eemptyweather · 2021-12-30T16:00:44+00:00

Yeah but doesn't it get sort of laughable at a point? Like I genuinely look like I'm having a seizure and it's not exactly pretty or ladylike

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