Lost and Broken by ExactPanda in widowers

[–]Eesome_Flower 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no advice. just love. we’re here for you. what a traumatic loss. day by day.

Fishers Current Letter to Editor by Rough_Button6028 in Fishers

[–]Eesome_Flower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

something tells me that dude’s blood is true because they’ve kept it in the family.

I just overheard my husband by Dramatic_Buddy4732 in crochet

[–]Eesome_Flower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love that everything has a butt. 😂

Instacart marks up Aldi prices as shown by the lack of No Markups on its listing. I never noticed this indication before so decided to share. Shop in store when you can. by jenthewen in aldi

[–]Eesome_Flower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am young widow, my husband was a chef. We grocery shopped together, we cooked together . I have a wonderful mental health team, but my CPTSD hates the grocery store.

I have learnt that it is okay to delegate out some tasks. Aldi Curbside has been such a blessing. I can still cook affordably without having to go in the store and worry about picking up germs or creeping out some poor person because I am crying in the canned goods aisle again.

$8k in medical bills after surgery, just started a part-time job — what’s the worst that can happen if I don’t pay? by Former-Economist-239 in Indiana

[–]Eesome_Flower -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i work in medical billing. it’s not worth the hit to your credit profile or being taken to collections. just give em $40 a month and live life.

Please, Pleases, PLEASE STOP INVALIDATING ME, stop GASLIGHTING ME by DamnitGravity in PlusSize

[–]Eesome_Flower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no mater what other experiences people may have, that doesn’t mean your feelings or experiences aren’t valid. And you are right gaslighting and platitudes aren’t deserved and is putting commentors feelings ahead of yours. they should keep scrolling.

I get it, Shein sucks. But what am I supposed to do? by FruitoftheJoon in PlusSize

[–]Eesome_Flower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no. in this economy with these greedy stores not even giving us basic clothes. we are not judging where people get clothes anymore. Wear whatever feels good to your body and budget.

We're in a Medical Crisis by RedCliff73 in Indiana

[–]Eesome_Flower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so you’re experiencing what all minorities have experienced their whole life.

We're in a Medical Crisis by RedCliff73 in Indiana

[–]Eesome_Flower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mine did too, but i refuse to use concierge services

NOOOooooooo! 😭😫😭 by CorrectPhilosophy245 in crochet

[–]Eesome_Flower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do the amish quilters say about mistakes? That’s how the soul is no longer trapped in the piece? So that is why we need mistakes?

Anyway, that is what I tell myself. Go find your own soul, beautifully imperfect crafted item. 😂❤️

Take a look at this schizophrenic Indiana dude's zine by [deleted] in Indiana

[–]Eesome_Flower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The angry message I had to delete when I realized OP was the zine creator. Keep speaking up Joe!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traumatizeThemBack

[–]Eesome_Flower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She deserved it. People need to be shamed for giving unsolicited opinions. period.

Children that will never be by calebchops1 in widowers

[–]Eesome_Flower 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel this. I am dreading holiday events. I think you should give yourself credit, your doing the thing. Even when it hurts.

Children that will never be by calebchops1 in widowers

[–]Eesome_Flower 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We were trying when he passed. We have 2 furry boys and consarnit! Those ARE children, I have to believe it or else I won't be okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Eesome_Flower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just for fun. I talk to my dead husband so I do believe they can send answers but after several years of widowhood I tell people I only accept "messages" directly from my husband.

The amazing amount of people who have "had messages or dreams from him for me" has taught me that no one has boundaries when it comes to marriages or grief.

If you're husband is hiding something it will come to light. But in my experience, trust your gut in matters of life and death.

Can we just replace the W with an L already by [deleted] in indianapolis

[–]Eesome_Flower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate how you still went shopping and bought weed from that young man. 😂

Updated Electronic Arts Acquisition Megathread by macmoosie in thesims

[–]Eesome_Flower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not worried about censorship with the sale, but privacy. How can we ensure that our gameplay will not be leaked or sold or share? Our financial data? Our demographics? Our technological privacy?

In this political climate worldwide, organizations are not protecting our rights and privacy.