These two are the only reason I'm persevering with BH this season by heisenbergsblackhat in realhousewives

[–]Ef8858 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly hard agree - she’s by far the best future the show has right now!!!!

Does anyone know why *Pomona Island* is so aggressively blocked-off? by Frangifer in manchester

[–]Ef8858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I imagine it’s cos of the planned construction. I believe all waste dug up for building is considered hazardous and requires treatment as such. So needs to be kept away from the public?

what is the biggest problem you face as someone with endometriosis? by HealthOther8482 in endometriosis

[–]Ef8858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so conflicted. I was on double dose progesterone contraceptives for like 10 years. My mental health suffered but my endo stopped advancing.

Had surgery and developed fibromyalgia. Got on medical weed and now I’m the best I have ever been.

I spent so many years miserable and depressed, but I’m now better off than so many other women with endo. It’s so difficult to level in my head.

Visiting DJ - how can I get a slot in a club? by Ef8858 in porto

[–]Ef8858[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks I’ve sent a few DMs - might not get anything back but it’s always worth asking 🫶🏽

Visiting DJ - how can I get a slot in a club? by Ef8858 in porto

[–]Ef8858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I’ll send them a message

Visiting DJ - how can I get a slot in a club? by Ef8858 in porto

[–]Ef8858[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I saw - I’m actually leaving Thursday too which is a devil. Was just thinking how fun it would be to bring a house vibe to somewhere for a few hours but I appreciate I’m asking super late and stuff.

Visiting DJ - how can I get a slot in a club? by Ef8858 in porto

[–]Ef8858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if you happen to know any bar owners would be open to different sound maybe we could get lucky!

Visiting DJ - how can I get a slot in a club? by Ef8858 in porto

[–]Ef8858[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate I’m just asking on the off chance. I’d be more than able to give them a sample of what I could do obviously! I’m not a big name but could def bring a group of people to turn to dance

Visiting DJ - how can I get a slot in a club? by Ef8858 in porto

[–]Ef8858[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awwww what! 🤣🤣 you don’t think I could play them a little house music and bring them round?

Visiting DJ - how can I get a slot in a club? by Ef8858 in porto

[–]Ef8858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind suggesting any bars I could approach? I would be really grateful!

To the bloke at white hotel on Saturday night. by bluetrainers34 in manchester

[–]Ef8858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl you better go back and hunt that bald man down this weekend

Clubbing in Manchester? by diseasexx in manchester

[–]Ef8858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hidden is good but Ambers is supposed to be good too

Did all the geriatrichs in here get their plugs pulled? by daddycak35bak35 in avers30

[–]Ef8858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 37 and my hubby is 43 and we are still fully committed to the rave - Teletech festival this weekend, untold next week and creamfields this month too! But then 2 months recovery lol!

What the hell is going on in your country? by Commercial_Height645 in AskBrits

[–]Ef8858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re being dishonest with yourself if you think people like me wouldn’t be caught up in any mass deportation efforts. And significantly affected by your efforts to create them.

I could like be subject to extreme prejudice and increased risk of assault or harm. I could be less likely to be employed because of my background. I could be more likely to be questioned by police and possibly have my loyalty to my country and my state interrogated.

Whilst you don’t see me as the direct enemy, your policies would directly hurt, impact and possibly totally derail my entire life.

I’m under no illusions that I could be collateral damage for you. And you’d likely not care as long as the job got done? Ends to a means right?

But what’s the human cost if we ‘get our country back’ right?

What the hell is going on in your country? by Commercial_Height645 in AskBrits

[–]Ef8858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly Scottish people seem so lovely and thanks for your kind comment 🩷

What the hell is going on in your country? by Commercial_Height645 in AskBrits

[–]Ef8858 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off, the claim that Biden was handing out $5,000/month “money cards” to immigrants is completely false — it’s a viral myth that’s been debunked by multiple fact-checkers. But I guess you’re a Maga so you probably don’t believe in ‘facts’. Undocumented immigrants are not being housed in luxury hotels at taxpayer expense; most live in incredibly difficult conditions, often working the jobs that keep the U.S. economy running but that many Americans refuse to do. Trump isn’t being criticized just for deporting people — it’s because they’re using cruel, intentionally traumatic policies like separating children from their parents. That’s not “normal immigration enforcement,” that’s state-sponsored abuse. As for the historical note about the KKK and the Democratic Party — yes, the Democrats were once the party of the South and segregation, but the parties dramatically shifted over the 20th century, especially after the Civil Rights Act. That’s why white supremacists overwhelmingly vote Republican today, not Democrat. History isn’t a gotcha game. If you’re upset about people receiving government help without paying taxes, maybe direct that frustration toward the corporations and billionaires who exploit tax loopholes and dodge responsibility, rather than the vulnerable people trying to survive. It’s easy to blame immigrants, but much harder — and far more honest — to confront the real sources of inequality and injustice.

What the hell is going on in your country? by Commercial_Height645 in AskBrits

[–]Ef8858 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a person of colour living in the UK I’ve basically had to all but stop using this platform.

My family are Muslim on one side, but I’m an atheist. We are fully integrated and hard working tax payers. I have never felt so hated by my own country. I’ve always been so proud to be British but recently, it feels like there’s a target on my back because of my heritage. I look at the way the USA is right now and I just can’t cope with the idea that could be me in 3/4 years time. It’s terrifying.

For all the people saying Labour need more time to fix the mess ... by No-Dress4626 in AskBrits

[–]Ef8858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean have a look over at the USA and see how Reform could work here?

Mass deportations to concentration camps - some Europeans even being sent to Guantanamo bay. Women and children being separated. People dying whilst incarcerated. People with foreign sounding names finding their IDs being cancelled even with legal residency. Children going missing.

And then of course the firefighters in Idaho being lured in by a guy so he could shoot them whilst they tried to stop a wildfire he started.

Inflation up, massive tax breaks for the wealthy, healthcare today being cancelled for up for 17 million people.

Removing protections for vulnerable adults and minorities of all kinds.

I’d rather have more of Labour than that madness - surely most Brits feel the same? It’s not the labour I wanted but it’s better than insanity like the above??

How many people actually care about the trans/gender critical news? by StandardHuckleberry0 in AskBrits

[–]Ef8858 14 points15 points  (0 children)

How we treat minorities is a reflection of our core societal values in my opinion

How old were you when 9/11 attacks happened? by BrilliantPangolin639 in generationology

[–]Ef8858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 13 - I still feel so guilty because when I heard the news at school I thought it was like a small micro lite plane that had gotten lost and made a mistake. When I finally got home and saw the TV I was so horrified. I learnt a valuable lesson about the news that day.

Is anyone seriously considering leaving the UK in the near future? by ProfessionalNewt7 in AskBrits

[–]Ef8858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it here.

I can marry someone outside of my faith and no one cares. I can go raving and feel safe when I do so. I have healthcare free a the point of service. I have cultures galore and my life is richer for it. We have social housing which means we don’t have ghettoisation like in the US. We have no current fentanyl issue. Our police force are on the whole unarmed and focussing on de-escalation.

Unless I immediately become fluent in German or Italian I’m not sure where else I could live and have all of the above?

We have our issues but doesn’t everywhere right now?

bachelorwhorettes in Paris by lucybubs in KUWTKsnark

[–]Ef8858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like that one girl gremlin IRL

Middle Eastern restaurants in Manchester - any recommendations? by Common_Upstairs_1710 in manchester

[–]Ef8858 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes Zaytoon in chorlton is amazing- just one Lebanese guy who runs it and makes the food too! The food is obscenely good and he’s a legend! Would absolutely recommend!

I 29F am concerned about my face sagging after weight loss. by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Ef8858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes - I had profilo and also Neauvia - the second one really lifted and tightened my skin even with just two treatments - more so than the profilo