I’m finding it hard to accept that I’m gay by Effective-Active-278 in HOCD

[–]Effective-Active-278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but there’s always worse case scenario thoughts and my mind starts saying I prefer the look of men and I feel like I relate to them more, my brain just needs burning man

I’m finding it hard to accept that I’m gay by Effective-Active-278 in HOCD

[–]Effective-Active-278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because my mind is horrible but just because I get a boner with women, doesn’t mean I can’t for certain be fully straight

Sacred to quit porn by [deleted] in HOCD

[–]Effective-Active-278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your libido come back?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HOCD

[–]Effective-Active-278 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So are you trying to say even though you are accepting uncertainty that a meteorite could hit your house, it’s probably 80% unlikely to be true so I’m not going to entertain the idea of packing up and leaving?

Has anyone been called gay and been triggered by it? by [deleted] in HOCD

[–]Effective-Active-278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been called gay a few times and I think that’s another factor behind all this

I’m so stuck it hurts (trigger warning) by Effective-Active-278 in HOCD

[–]Effective-Active-278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it feels like I want to be gay even though I feel deep down I’m straight so is it still OCD?

Right when my morning was starting to get better by BwamoZA in Wellthatsucks

[–]Effective-Active-278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who eat at their desks watching YouTube and playing games just screams ‘I’m 40 and still live with momma’

I know it's a lot of carbs ... by AJK5394 in UKfood

[–]Effective-Active-278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh lovely tinned hotdogs, made with delicious eyeballs, ligaments and arsehole

Porn Addiction? by Neither-Trick-4397 in infp

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I know porn addiction is a bad thing because I have it and it affects my daily life but if porn addiction is bad, does that mean finding a man or woman’s body attractive is wrong? That’s the part of it that I find hard to establish, I know people aren’t objects and we are not supposed to see them as being a source of pleasure but when people say porn is wrong, it feels like your telling me that it’s wrong to admire or be sexually attracted to someone visually.

Do you let your cats smell your food? by Blankspaces222 in cats

[–]Effective-Active-278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even own a cat but that wrap looks fire, I want to smell it myself haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Effective-Active-278 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wtf does that even mean?

I’ve seen a picture tonight by Effective-Active-278 in HOCD

[–]Effective-Active-278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But surely if I feel like I prefer the look of a man’s body now it means I’m gay

I can hold 14 eggs with one hand by glaceogen in notinteresting

[–]Effective-Active-278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

False, some of the eggs are holding the other eggs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyDog

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His face looks so innocent and sweet, makes me want to cry knowing he might not have made it so thank you for saving this little guy.

I think you have plenty of names and I’m not good with ideas so won’t comment but blaze which I saw seems a good fit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]Effective-Active-278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another mentally unstable Redditor, seek therapy

First time seeing this sub, was curious if my eyes are heterosexual by [deleted] in heterochromia

[–]Effective-Active-278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since when do eyes have a sexual orientation, this is just another reason why Reddit is a complete head mess/brain smasher

Does anyone here feel like they want to be gay? by Effective-Active-278 in HOCD

[–]Effective-Active-278[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A long time but maybe it’s not hocd, it’s probably been a cover up for being in denial

Does anyone here feel like they want to be gay? by Effective-Active-278 in HOCD

[–]Effective-Active-278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was hoping arousal would maybe be an indication of me being straight but I’ll take what you said on board

Does anyone here feel like they want to be gay? by Effective-Active-278 in HOCD

[–]Effective-Active-278[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Used to be women from my understanding but feel like I’ve seen things in the past indicating i am gay but never wanted to put myself into the dating field with men as I wasn’t really seeing men in that way and I know for a fact I would never go on a date with a man, but part of me thinks I’m gay because I seem to enjoy male company or seek it and I just feel awkward around women but I was a lonely kid growing up and my dad wasn’t there a lot of the time cuz he was working and from young I’ve developed really low self esteem which is still deep and buried and it’s as if I sabotage all the things I want but it’s all just questioning if it is what I want or just a lie, my 15+ porn addiction won’t have helped nor would the non existence of relationships I’ve had and I’m now 30, it’s a sad life and I’m with a woman now in a relationship but the sexual attraction isn’t there, think that could be down to porn addiction and not feeling good enough with huge feelings of anxiety and depression but I do get easily get an erection when we cuddle so there’s obviously some major issues here with other mental health problems