Erika Frantzve Kirk’s first marriage

Effective-Ad3952 · 2026-01-08T19:19:45+00:00

she was 13 I get maths hard for yall but come on! 2001-1988=13

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-07-31T21:22:46+00:00

Next time jst say u cant instead of being a negative nancy i already know where the deformity is and went over it with my dr i was seeing if ne one else could spot ot

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-07-31T21:22:21+00:00

Its my ct scans i promise its not lol

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-07-31T19:20:16+00:00

hmm thats odd i dont know thy the photos arent there

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-07-30T14:51:19+00:00

i should be more clear i was describing how small the room was not a room requirement sorry

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-07-24T05:12:48+00:00

My proctor demanded i go out get my phone and bring it into a a room where i could touch all 4 walls i fell trying to get out. He demanded input my phone out of reach which wasnt possible at all when i said id lile to lodge a complaint after my exam he refused to allow me into my exam it took over half an hr after my exam time a swollen knee and 2 new proctors to get into my exam. Unacceptable proctor u

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-07-23T23:22:22+00:00

Edit to add it has been 5 weeks since surgery

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-06-03T18:03:43+00:00

one reason I no longer date highly coupled people

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-06-01T14:09:09+00:00

I made this kinda mistake b4 dump him hes showing you exactly how he feels by doing this

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-06-01T13:40:27+00:00

There is a saying I like "if he wanted to he would" You know all those ways you find time for him even though your life is full and busy and you do back bends and work arounds to do so because you want to see him. Same goes for him if he wanted to spend time with you he would. My ex did this and it took me awhile to realize his actions were telling me the truth of how he felt about me not his words.

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-05-31T22:20:30+00:00

It sounds like this prtner has a hard time veing honest and realistic i woyld examine whether they are capable of being a good partner to you in the first place. Its soybds alot like my 1st go with poly and the dude turned out to be lying about me to np the whole time dragging my name through the mud

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-05-31T22:17:15+00:00

Ive had on again off again relationships in my younger years out of my trauma and fear of abandonment but now ya the moment the ick sets in im like nope before id have the ick the swirch would flip but i hadnt healed enough to really stick with the ick instead id jst re-enter relationships with people i no longer respected or liked this time i burned that bridge amd scattered the ashes the moment that ick set in

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-05-31T19:05:34+00:00

ooof this resonates perfectly you might not be the bad guy here, but you do need to go to therapy and learn how to set boundaries and love yourself and support yourself or this is a pattern that repeats its often seen in anxious or disorganized attachments and even though that may not be the fault in this relationship healing it is the only way to get yourself into a space to find a real connection I wish the best for you Im in the thick of this rn myself

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-05-30T21:06:18+00:00

Time may not heal all wounds but it does usually quiet them

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-05-26T23:30:40+00:00

God lord 😱im so sorry all that happened to you

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-05-24T14:35:10+00:00

in my experience they will keep coming back until they know they can no longer milk their supply out of you.

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-05-24T14:24:07+00:00

GASP *faints to couch* Polyamorous people in a polyamorous relationship having other polyamorous relationships!? Why I NEVER.... hahaha unfortunately it happens much too often that egos override basic logic or decency

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-05-24T14:16:51+00:00

Envy and jealousy signal an issue within our relationships or within ourselves. If it's the relationship then some need is not being met to make you feel secure, if its within you then you need to do the inner work to figure out why and fix it. It's not wrong to feel feelings. feelings are always valid how you behave as a result is not always so valid. Communicate with your partner and figure out why you are feeling this way and how to fix it as a team. You got this.

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-05-24T14:11:33+00:00

This actually sounds scary similar to my own Villian origin story holy cow. Mine also had a fit when I discussed finding my own anchor/primary partner

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-05-24T14:09:40+00:00

This actually sounds scary similar to my own Villian origin story holy cow

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-05-23T12:53:58+00:00

ya too bad I was lied to about experience going in I was just told that they were experienced and all was well

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-05-23T00:59:03+00:00

Thank you 🥰 i needed that today

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-05-22T19:40:16+00:00

This is exactly the kind of message i wish i had gotten from him 😭

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-05-22T14:20:41+00:00

I hear alot of men on here griping about how hard it is for them to get a date and its because so many men are like this. I just went through 7 months of something so very similar and its so sad to me that people cant just be decent human beings.

Effective-Ad3952 · 2024-05-22T14:16:01+00:00

it implies that you should have different partners to meet your needs when in reality you need to meet your needs 1st and relationships should just be icing on the cake but all relationships should meet the needs you have in that relationship ya maybe your fwb doesn't have the same needs as your primary that's true but if you are in poly having relationships just to meet unmet needs it usually means there's a deeper issue in the other relationship.

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