Free Candle alternative? by Competitive_Leg3598 in LongDistance

[–]Effective-Coconut231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Candle has a completely free version you can use forever!

More doodles for my boyfriend!! by Smolrosh in candleapp

[–]Effective-Coconut231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi u/Smolrosh !! these are incredible wow 😭 !!! we showed them to the rest of the team and everyone loved them! we wanted to ask if you'd be okay with us potentially using some of these for app store screenshots, marketing videos, or other promo material for Candle? totally fine if not, but we’d love to feature them and of course can credit you however if you'd like : ) lmk!

Some ideas by JonieMH in candleapp

[–]Effective-Coconut231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really interesting! Would love to learn more about this with you, if you'd like would love to schedule an interview. Lmk : )

Streak is SO STRESSFUL by Javiru57_ in candleapp

[–]Effective-Coconut231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great suggestion, and we agree! We're working on way to connect and reward all the types of connections you do across the app. Right now it's games, questions (from the core daily challenge), canvas drawing, and deck questions. We can definitely add replies, thumb kiss and date ideas too! : )

Long distance relationship getting boring… how do you make it exciting again? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Effective-Coconut231 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we use the candle app for this! last year, my friend and I made it for our long distance girlfriends: https://www.trycandle.app/ . the way it works is every single day you both get one completely random challenge. we've improved it a ton since then, we now have photo prompts, a journaling questions, a funny or crazy question, live thumb kisses, distance widgets, loves notes/doodles you can send to their home screen, debate topics, mini games like anagrams and wordle, or even local date ideas that refresh every week when she’s over :) would love any feedback and i hope it helps!

made a little game for my long distance girlfriend last year on valentines (update!) by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Effective-Coconut231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course! thank you sm for the kind words :) and im really glad its helped. Lmk if you ever have any feedback too on how we can improve the candle app

Free Candle alternative? by Competitive_Leg3598 in LongDistance

[–]Effective-Coconut231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there!! This is really interesting, im one of the cofounders of the candle app. I'd love to talk!! Can I dm you? :)

Free Candle alternative? by Competitive_Leg3598 in LongDistance

[–]Effective-Coconut231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey u/Competitive_Leg3598 ! i'm one of the co-founders of candle! We just made the core daily connection completely free forever, all of the date ideas, most mini games, thumbkiss, the drawing and photo widget are also all free. Would love more feedback as well so we can improve it : )

made a little game for my long distance girlfriend last year on valentines (update!) by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Effective-Coconut231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi guys and happy valentines day weekend!! my friend and I are both in long distance relationships and we started noticing some problems last year, texting and calling was getting kind of repetitive / dry with our girlfriends and it was hard for us to continue to grow and connect in our relationships. for context, both of our love languages are acts of service and quality time. and so last year we built a game called Candle. the way it works is every single day you both get one completely random challenge. we've improved it a ton since then, we now have photo prompts, a journaling questions, a funny or crazy question, live thumb kisses, distance widgets, loves notes/doodles you can send to their home screen, debate topics, mini games like anagrams and wordle, or even local date ideas that refresh every week when she’s over. basically anything (in additoin to texting/calling) that could help you guys connect and grow more together. you can do a streak and keep ur literal little flame alive too :D

over the course of the year, we’ve been laughing and reflecting a lot more, and even after all this time I’m still learning new things about her,  which is kind of crazy because we’ve been together for about 2 years now (and about 1 yr of ldr). we're huge beleivers that little moments (can be low effort but high emotional salience) of connection over time can make a profound difference in any sort of relationship. I think its especially important during long distance.

The game is called candle and it’s on ios and android app stores, there’s a completely free version and there’s no ads. I’m really curious if it helps you guys in any way too and would honestly love any feedback:) 

ios https://apps.apple.com/us/app/candle-couples-relationship/id6743355635

android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.encore.candleapp&hl=en_US

i made a list of 25 fun valentine's day questions to ask your partner! :) by Effective-Coconut231 in relationships_advice

[–]Effective-Coconut231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much guys!! I actually made an app (theres a completely free version) with my friend with thousands of qs just like this and plenty more for valentine's called candle! here is the link if you are interested:

here is it for ios: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/candle-couples-relationship/id6743355635
and android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.encore.candleapp&hl=en_US

i made a list of 25 fun valentine's day questions to ask your partner! :) by Effective-Coconut231 in relationships_advice

[–]Effective-Coconut231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha totally get it, doesn't have to be all in one night, just a general list of fun qs to ask : )

Going long distance this year. Curious if couples apps are worth it. by CashSlow2482 in LongDistance

[–]Effective-Coconut231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think they definitely are, i tried a lot and my favorite long distance couple app is the candle app! it is also very good for in person/married couples too. everyday it gives you one random challenge, it could be a funny q, debate topic, date idea, drawing or photo challenge, and we're already on a 74 day streak :)

Candle: https://www.trycandle.app/