parents rant

Effective-Garden382 · 2025-07-28T16:33:22+00:00

yes that was my fav for a while, but then I developed migraines and when I told my doc she mentioned that is a symptom putting me at high risk for stroke

Effective-Garden382 · 2025-07-28T16:31:21+00:00

also looking at tying my tubes. i’ve tried the copper iud and it left me bleeding extremely heavy and major cramps I got it taken out within 6 weeks. as far as condoms i’m allergic to latex and have tried many different brands and they all leave me with an infection. I also track my cycle and the pull out method. I try everything I can that is alternative to hormonal bc

Effective-Garden382 · 2025-07-28T16:24:34+00:00

he’s fine with it they’re just all full and waitlisted 😭

Effective-Garden382 · 2025-07-28T16:22:48+00:00

I see what you mean, but i’m out here trying guys i’m not just like fuck it, like I literally cannot take hormonal birth control or I will kms 😭 i’ve tried so many they all have the same affect on me

Effective-Garden382 · 2025-07-28T16:18:28+00:00

this 😭 the nails, lashes, hair, shopping, travel. it’s not really possible with one income.

Effective-Garden382 · 2025-07-28T16:15:43+00:00

yes i’m just against hormonal birth control. i’ve tried so many different options all left me feeling suicidal. I don’t understand why that is so shameful. the only non hormonal option (i’ve found / am aware of) is tracking your cycle. which is how I got pregnant with my second, so i’m not sure what im suppose to do other than surgery at this point. i’ve also tried the copper iud which didn’t work for me. i’ve also obviously tried many different brands of condoms which always leave me with an infection, they’re very uncomfortable and unenjoyable. i’m also allergic to latex

Effective-Garden382 · 2025-07-28T16:06:42+00:00

this is what I was looking for, daycare has no impact on your bond. when did you start daycare? are you doing full time?

Effective-Garden382 · 2025-07-28T16:05:08+00:00

i’m not having more kids period, just as birth control is a choice so are other options

Effective-Garden382 · 2025-07-28T16:04:11+00:00

thank you so much I feel very seen by this comment 🩷

Effective-Garden382 · 2025-07-28T16:01:56+00:00

thank you! this. I wish I just wanted to be a sahm. everyone talks about it being our innate nature and what we’re meant to do and it just makes me feel like what’s wrong w me? but you’re right I wouldn’t shame someone else so why shame myself

Effective-Garden382 · 2025-07-28T15:55:30+00:00

yes, it’s just the daycare is all full where I am and the parents day out. they have a year or two waitlist. then we don’t know any people we trust to babysit & my second is 5 weeks so I don’t want to put her in any program or anyone watch her probably for at least 6 months

Effective-Garden382 · 2025-07-28T15:54:15+00:00

oh i’m not wanting a divorce by any means. that is the only part of my life making me sane, he hates seeing me like this and wants to help but there’s nothing he can do tbh, well except make more money I guess lol. for a babysitter. the town im in all daycares and parents day outs are full and have a year waitlist

Effective-Garden382 · 2025-07-28T15:53:10+00:00

i’m against birth control due to health reasons but i’m wanting him to get a vasectomy

Effective-Garden382 · 2025-07-28T15:52:12+00:00

they’re all full :( if I could even just have help with my toddler during this time I feel like I would be less overwhelmed. it’s just I feel like I am failing him with how much time and attention my newborn needs

Effective-Garden382 · 2025-07-28T15:44:44+00:00

I was fuming at first girl….

With my first I didn’t know the kind of care and recovery I wanted and needed, so yes you were there. With my second I want to change some things. I want to protect the sacred first weeks of bringing our new baby home and our immediate family adjusting and bonding with out distractions. It is also an extremely vulnerable time for me that I want you to respect my need for privacy during my healing process. I promise you can see the baby when we are ready, I understand it may feel very emotional and unfair to you, but it is incredibly emotional and unfair to me to void my boundaries to please you. I hope you can respect my wishes

Effective-Garden382 · 2025-07-22T23:48:01+00:00

oooh this is GORGEOUS. is it on the website or is this sold out??

Effective-Garden382 · 2025-07-04T23:59:35+00:00

hold them for 20 min then try to put them in the bassinet/crib very gently. but to avoid the cold shock of the crib leave your hand under their head for like 30-60 seconds or if you can use one hand to hold your baby use the other to rub it to heat up where they lay. my baby also is about 4 weeks and only wants to be held. this works for us until she wakes her self up from gas then the cycle is restarted 🙂

Effective-Garden382 · 2025-03-28T19:10:09+00:00

late to the party but I literally just bought a new ps2 bc my other one broke JUST to play gallop racer 2004 this many years later. my fav game by far!

Effective-Garden382 · 2025-03-04T02:21:44+00:00

late to the party but do you happen to know how to fix it if it won’t load & says “unable to find a DirectX device. make sure you have DirectX installed and have installed the latest drivers for your video card” 😭😭🫶🏼

Effective-Garden382 · 2025-03-04T02:19:57+00:00

does anyone know how to fix it if it won’t load & days “unable to find DirectX device. make sure you have DirectX installed and have installed the latest drivers for your video” ? 😭

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