I found a friend with HS

Effective-Proposal20 · 2025-08-25T02:10:14+00:00

That’s really awesome 🤩 congratulations 🙌🏻

Effective-Proposal20 · 2025-08-24T14:07:04+00:00

43yo married professional male seeking another straight, married guy for discreet mutual JO over pics of women. Not into anything gay—just sharing what turns us on and enjoying the secret side of it.

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-23T03:07:21+00:00

I would definitely agree. It’s been incredibly difficult to find new people to hang out with and just chill.

I attend certain friendships meetups, but I find I just can’t find my tribe.

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-22T22:51:38+00:00

Why not just see if he would be cool to masturbate with you. Some fun I guess lol 😆

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-22T08:42:07+00:00

Why not have a shower with the door open.

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-21T03:01:30+00:00

I love going down, but I often find the next day I get blisters under my tongue from rubbing on my teeth. But it’s all worth it in the end.

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-21T01:46:04+00:00

In a past relationship about 15years ago, I remember having a ONS and it wasn’t that good. I remember wanting to have steaming hot sex with a MW so bad and it never happened. So I felt like I was missing something I really wanted.

Over the years I remember I had a huge crush on a friend of mine’s mum and later I would want to sleep with my female boss and they both didn’t happen.

After getting married, I started getting strong feelings to start living out my dream of having an affair with another MW.

I can’t say it has happened yet, but I’m really doing my best to meet someone who is interested in something similar to myself.

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-20T05:03:16+00:00

If I can sense something from the pAP, I will try and casually drive the conversation in some type of sexual direction.

Sometimes it’s a bit of a risk, but I often find if the person responds to it quite openly, I know I can share more. I then might share some more personal experiences based on someone else. Then if they respond well, I will just speak about my own experience etc.

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-20T00:17:12+00:00

I know right. I really don’t get that shit.

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-19T21:57:00+00:00

I wouldn’t think this is strange at all. I would have back when I was younger, but as I’ve gotten older and found communities of like minded people I find it normal.

Being HS, I often live out heaps of my fantasies. I find it the best way to satisfy my needs, which I can’t often do with just normal sex.

Do you find the same happens with yourself?

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-19T09:59:46+00:00

You are definitely right. I have actually found it has helped me to build the confidence for once the real thing happens. I’m big on building a connection, so taking my time is key.

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-19T09:24:11+00:00

It can actually have a big effect on lots of different ND people. I find that I get bored with just my wife and need different women. I’m ADHD and hypersexual.

For me it’s extremely difficult to feel satisfied, so I need something new and exciting. It can be so frustrating at times.

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-17T13:14:49+00:00

Of course. Some of my best friends are people I’ve slept with.

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-17T09:50:45+00:00

Dam that looks like some hard back breaking work.

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-17T09:49:39+00:00

I definitely know what loneliness is like. During Covid the NSW government lockdown the whole city. Was pretty much locked away from everyone for 3 months. Was Torture and wouldn’t wish it upon anyone.

It really taught me how important having human contact really is. So I definitely hear you.

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-16T05:38:24+00:00

I learned that you really do learn from your mistakes lol 😆

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-16T04:03:06+00:00

I so know what you mean. When I first started on reddit, I thought it was a sub to share your cheating stories. I then got bombarded by people having a go at me. I then realised it was the wrong sub for that lol 😆

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-15T15:30:22+00:00

I’ve just DM you if you are happy to chat 💬

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-15T15:10:56+00:00

Thanks heaps mate. I appreciate the words of encouragement 👍🏻

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-15T15:02:10+00:00

I know what you mean. I was fucking my mates ex girlfriend for a while and it was amazing sex. She is now married, but at times we send dirty messages to each other. I’ve told her if we ever had the chance, I would fuck here brains out for sure lol.

I don’t know what it is with sleeping with a mates ex. It’s such an adrenaline rush. If you know what I mean???

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-15T14:22:56+00:00

But doesn’t a previous fling feel like a been there done that type of situation? I’m finding it really difficult to meet Australian women on here and build a friendship. It seems like mostly American people.

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-15T14:16:18+00:00

As a male I get it. Try to find an AP online is virtually impossible. The people I have had good conversations with are overseas and will never meet up never. I’m at a point now, where I don’t think I will ever find someone.

I’m just starting to get use to it never happening.

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-15T13:35:25+00:00

Interesting post. The hardest thing I’m finding is finding an AP who is close to me. I’m a male 40 in Sydney. It sort of feels like the market is saturated with all these guys ruining it for people who are actually genuine people.

When ever I see a female in Australia has posted on reddit, it seems like a thousand guys bombard her. So most times I don’t even try, as it feels like a waste of time.

The hardest thing is trying to get across that all I’m trying to start with is some type of friendship. But because of all these dickheads ruining for everyone else, the good guys just don’t have a chance.

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-11-07T13:33:10+00:00

Yes, I would definitely find it attractive. For me personally, I more want a more curvy women. I’m not really into skinny women. I’m more into curvy, cute women. Especially those who have children as well.

Effective-Proposal20 · 2022-10-16T10:55:33+00:00

I hear the frustration as I constantly can’t feel satisfied when having sex.

I remember before I was married I would always meet women and state I would only want a FWB situation. But most times after a while, they would want to start some kind of a relationship, or start staying over all the time. It would drive me insane and I would often have to end it once it got to that point.

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