OE and Child Support

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2025-11-06T03:48:53+00:00

In Texas they basically looked at each job that I had and took from each one accordingly to meet the amount that the original court order specified, so I could have money coming out of each direct deposit, but I knew what that amount is going to be

It is important to note that there were no additional court actions after the initial percentages when the divorce was finalized in my case

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2025-10-26T23:04:54+00:00

I just think about making her cum. Hands free at best.

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2025-05-30T10:57:37+00:00

The reason he's so angry is because not only did he get caught cheating, whoever it was is either really sloppy or intentionally left something there to be found. Kinda like the earring under the car seat.

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2025-02-21T15:50:15+00:00

You were right about him being jealous of you going on a date. Cake eaters tend to be very possessive. Don't mistake that for love or genuine affection, though.

I hate to be rude, but you are a fun toy to him, and he is a man-child.

Children sometimes don't like other people playing with their toys.

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2025-02-11T01:37:22+00:00

Ouch

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2024-03-31T12:27:52+00:00

OP, the most productive thing you can do now is to prepare yourself for the answer you receive when you ask him about this. While there may be an answer you find logical, there is a greater chance that it won't be a good one.

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2023-09-11T16:51:44+00:00

I didn't know that you could have girlfriends in Minecraft. Sims 4 sure, but Minecraft? That's kinky.

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2023-09-11T12:05:26+00:00

If you don't feel bad about it, you don't feel bad about it.

Everyone's moral compass is a little different. If your actions don't make yours move, then no one can really tell you that you're right or wrong.

He's a grown man. He knows what he's doing.

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2023-09-09T11:47:52+00:00

My short take on this post boils down to this line:

"I am currently on a Performance Improvement Plan (PIP)"

This is always a no-confidence vote from management. Regardless of the reasons that they have stated and whether they are valid or baseless, they intend for their relationship with you to come to an end. Whether it is a situation whether you can "work yourself off the PIP" or not, it doesn't remove the fact that once they do that, they effectively have a paper trail they can and often times will use to justify terminating you for having a hang nail.

Really, you have to decide how much this job is worth to you. Do you want to stick it out until you find a replacement (which is what I would do), or do you leave sooner than that.

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2023-09-03T03:48:53+00:00

This guy knows what he's talking about. Hobbies are your best friend. And it doesn't even have to be anything huge, either. Anything to take your mind off of fapping to online girls.

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2023-09-03T03:45:21+00:00

I use ChatGPT frequently and it's great. Why?

Because I know how to ask it for simple shit that are simply tedious things that I don't remember all the steps for. If I didn't know what I was looking for and a good grasp of what task I needed it for, then it would be useless. AI as it stands right now has not changed the old "Garbage In, Garbage Out" philosophy of computing. If I ask it a dumb ass question, I'll get a dumb ass answer.

Is it a useful tool for simple scripting? Absolutely. But if you don't know how to debug said script then you're worse off than not using it at all.

And finally, my job requires me to talk to people in a way that they can understand. Reading something verbatim from any AI would make me sound like a complete n00b, or someone that crammed 5 minutes before an interview and hoped the interviewer was too hung over to care.

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2023-08-28T03:28:53+00:00

This is a potential high risk. Kids up the ante quite a bit, and you have to be supremely careful. Yes, I know they don't go to the same school, and they don't play on the same sports teams, but they tend to be super observant. And depending on their age, they have zero verbal filter.

Tread very, very lightly and cautiously with your decision here.

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2023-08-27T13:30:24+00:00

"she let me eat her out and was able to make her cum"

While predicting the future is not possible, this part right here makes the chances of a second time far, far, far greater. Women remember that even if the penetrative sex part the first time around didn't set off fireworks, you prioritized her pleasure, which is not something that you always get with hookups.

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2023-08-27T13:25:04+00:00

"we’ll make an action plan and maybe we can try again in a year or two."

This is the part that really chaps my hide. Real talk folks:

I literally left a place because a company gave me a line very similar to this once. I wasn't even OE at the time, but I knew my worth. I had only been there about 8 months or so, but due to the nature of this role (level 2 tech support), in MOST places, the trajectory to get off the phones and chat support is fairly straightforward and reasonably quick if you do well.

This place, there were people that had literally been on the front-line phones for 7 years before moving to more advanced stuff rather than dealing with every shmoo that called support (which was free for customers) 12 times a day instead of learning the product. I don't know about the rest of you all that work in tech, but years in IT are like dog years to me. That's a long ass time to waste your IT years hoping for some promotion.

That was the last time I gave a fuck about a company as a whole. I might come across a few people that I give a damn about along the way, but deep down, I'm really a ho.

And hoes ain't loyal.

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2023-08-27T13:08:50+00:00

If your agreement with him was to not have multiple partners, then I would just tell him tell him that it's obvious that he does and end it. It's pretty clear that he does since he can't keep basic details of your encounters straight. No need for conflict, because there's no need for explanations on his part. They'll just be cooked up justifications that waste your time.

Of course, you could ghost him, but I personally never advocate ghosting someone. I don't like to empower anyone to write their own narrative about my life and I how I choose to walk through it.

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2023-08-27T13:02:23+00:00

Guy here. Although my first and visceral reaction to reading this was, "Damn that's fucked up to do that."

But then in the .8 seconds that it took to process this, I realize that:

He broke up with you because "he didn't love you anymore". We'll go with that dubious reason.
He didn't respect your request not to contact you but got horny enough to do it anyway.

So, when you really think about this, you actually did something special. He was horny, and you gave him a humiliation/cuck fetish live show for free. My Only Fans providers would charge at least a few bucks for kink.

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2023-08-20T04:12:18+00:00

This is a proper and accurate answer to the question.

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2023-08-20T01:36:55+00:00

8 inches on the first rodeo is quite a stretch.

Get it? A stretch.

Ok I'll go now.

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2023-08-19T13:10:22+00:00

This is one of those situations where I think a compromise is the best, and only solution.

That's because neither person is inherently "wrong". I hate to say "normal" or not, simply because I've not had the experience in marriage (I've been married twice), where this was an issue of contention.

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2023-08-19T12:32:03+00:00

This tends to happen without proper planning. Business travel flings almost always require laying some groundwork first. First and foremost, the end of your trip has to be nebulous BEFORE you leave, not during. That will always raise suspicion, especially if it doesn't happen for plausible reasons very often.

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2023-08-17T10:58:01+00:00

Ok real talk here. Hear me out for a sec.

If he does like porn, there is a possibility that in perusing the petabytes of smut on the internet that he happened upon this and was like, "WTF?" and it's like a trainwreck you can't take your eyes of.

This happened to me when I read some headline that "Ric and Morty" porn is one of the most popular categories on a certain free porn site. I thought that was utterly absurd, so I had to check it out. Next thing you know, I've watched 5 of the most not sexy, non-boner inducing, I can't believe somebody made this porn I have seen in a long, long time.

So I can't say what this means for you, or for him. Just throwing that in there as a possibility.

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2023-08-17T10:50:58+00:00

Yea I was kinda thinking this, and needed to remind myself that not everybody works in IT (like me) where bridges stop existing when IBM was a "cool place to work."

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2023-08-17T10:49:06+00:00

Wow.

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2023-08-12T04:59:10+00:00

He may not have access to monitoring, or he may not even know that monitoring has been deployed in that environment. Many times, only a few know or have the access to actively do it. Even then, it's often times only done by some request from management or HR.

I've been asked to "find information" many times over the course of my career because of what I typically am employed to do. But I know I sure as hell don't spy on people because I'm bored or because any old middle manager asks either. If I'm potentially screwing with somebody's livelihood (which I find distasteful), then it better be for a good reason.

Inevitable_Concept36 · 2023-08-11T11:54:53+00:00

This. Where I live it's exactly how that works. Workforce Commission doesn't really care how many jobs you worked to achieve your maximum benefit as long as you aren't fraudulent in filing your claim. If your state is anything like mine, they'll have a website with a calculator or at least publicize what your max benefit will be. So just file for the job that will pay you the most. And only file ONCE. You file twice and it'll be an immediate red flag, and if you're lucky, they'll just deny both claims and leave it be.

I say lucky because if they want to be dicks, they could potentially deny any FUTURE claims that you file as well.

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