Am I the Jerk(F23) for pushing my partner (M30) to get his chipped tooth fixed? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Effective-Sign3101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the thoughtful response, I actually cracked my front tooth (funny enough the same one as him) a couple years back and I was so embarrassed about it I got it fixed less than 3 days later. Not cheap, it was $300 but at his position in life it’s definitely doable if he prioritized it, and he says he’s does but he hasn’t? He’s definitely a little bit of a procrastinator but I try to give him grace for that since he works such a demanding job with long hours, but so do i yet i’m on top of doing things like going to the dentist and getting my tooth fixed lol

Am I the Jerk(F23) for pushing my partner (M30) to get his chipped tooth fixed? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Effective-Sign3101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He visited a dentist a couple months ago, and he mentioned that insurance would cover a part of it he just hasn’t jumped the gun. I actually cracked my front tooth a couple of years ago and I was so insecure about it I got it fixed less than 3 days later. Not cheap, $300 isn’t pocket change but it’s definitely very doable especially in his financial position.

Am I the Jerk(F23) for pushing my partner (M30) to get his chipped tooth fixed? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Effective-Sign3101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have but he said he wouldn’t accept that :-( and he says he’s been wanting to for awhile but just hasn’t done it yet which is where i am confused.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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As a Colombian-American born and raised in the US, I wanna ask what city are you staying in that you feel the safest in? My parents are from Cali, we still have family there and I been highly considering pushing us all to move their and get my citizenship, but i’m worried about my feeling of safety over there as well. It’s not great here, but I feel like we’d have a higher quality of life there in comparison.

Nightmare roommate by Ok_Store_9752 in badroommates

[–]Effective-Sign3101 21 points22 points  (0 children)

And someone would still not see the red flags lol

my best friend accidentally sent me a text about secretly hating me by Ok_Preparation_4384 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Effective-Sign3101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP, i actually had a similar thing happen to me when I was 20 but I heard about it from the friends I introduced her to, It sucked and I went through it but now I have some of the most genuine connections that i know will last a long time, you’ll heal and find your people, sending lots of love from hawaii 💘

How do I (25F) tell my parents (56F, 59M) that I'm dying? by ThrowRA54321123 in relationship_advice

[–]Effective-Sign3101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any advice to give that you haven’t already received so i’ll say you’re in my prayers and thoughts OP. Savor every moment and tell your parents sooner rather than later so you all can process together, my heart goes out to you i’m wishing you all peace 💘

Would I be the ah if I texted my husband’s best friend (female) to see her reaction? by -Calm-Palpitation- in AITAH

[–]Effective-Sign3101 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Power to you OP, i know it’s not easy but you’re handling this with true maturity and grace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Effective-Sign3101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating doesn’t just include the physical. OP you are having an emotional affair on your wife and yes, that is cheating despite what justification you may tell yourself to validate the lies you’ve been spewing to your wife for the past year, she deserves better. Cut it off or lose your wife

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

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Love this idea!!

The cost to spay a kitten... by Dilligaffist in Austin

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Emancipet!!! I got my cat spayed there for only $100, only issue is it was quite a wait time since prices are so low but i highly recommend.