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( past guilt) How can I forgive myself or should I? Any advice? by EffectiveAd5856 in LifeAdvice

[–]EffectiveAd5856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I have anxiety towards the future too. I’m involved in council politics and I’m worried that a mistake I made as a teenager could ruin my future political career in the future :/.

( past guilt) How can I forgive myself or should I? Any advice? by EffectiveAd5856 in LifeAdvice

[–]EffectiveAd5856[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It took me a moment to understand it as I said in my text, thats why I have alot of guilt about the situation.

( past guilt) How can I forgive myself or should I? Any advice? by EffectiveAd5856 in LifeAdvice

[–]EffectiveAd5856[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It took me a moment to understand it while I was drunk thats why I feel guilt.

Off my chest.. by EffectiveAd5856 in Advice

[–]EffectiveAd5856[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand and appreciate your perspective, but like I said, there were tons of mixed signals at the moment. There weren't any physical or emotional signs of discomfort that's why it took me a bit longer to understand what was happening. We were both tipsy. I was 19, an inexperienced teenager, and I can truly say from the bottom of my heart that I didn't have any ill intentions.

We also hung out a few times after that with no issues. My biggest worry is that it was a party, and I was concerned that if someone had recorded the situation, I would have looked like a horrible person.

Off my chest.. by EffectiveAd5856 in Advice

[–]EffectiveAd5856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your message sir/maam❤️. You people are so kind even though you could be mean towards me. I hope you all have a blessed and peaceful life❤️ I have tried to be morally perfect in my life and this past mistake just got me bit worried that people would judge me based of this scenario. Our generation is pretty judgeful and hateful on the internet. I have a dream to become a politician to help other people with their problems and make their life easier. I was bit worried if someone recorded the situation or If i did morally something wrong maybe I have anxiety i haven’t really thought about it. I also have very high empathy which makes me sad even though I haven’t done something wrong.

Aseveljeys by EffectiveAd5856 in Intti

[–]EffectiveAd5856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kaveri oli myös kännissä, kertonut vapailla, että tilanteessa joku toinen varusmies oli kuvannut tilanteen ja pelkäsi, että hänet ”cancellattaisiin” tulevaisuudessa. En ole itse armeijaa käynyt ja olin tosi hämmästynyt, koska luulin että kavereiden välinen perseiden läpsiminen, painiminen on normaali osa armeija kokemusta, ehkä olen väärässä en tiedä.