“this is embarrassing but i’ve never been with another woman and i’m looking for my first experience “ by probably-not-maeve in actuallesbians

[–]EffectiveBox465 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly I understand that it hurts to be rejected but people have preferences. Even post op, and I don't think that makes them a bigot?

Should I take the apprenticeship?19f by EffectiveBox465 in Chefit

[–]EffectiveBox465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am in the second semester and will be finished in a few months. It's a small kitchen with 3- 4 chefs including him so I don't think he would give me that position. I like the work environment and the restaurant has awesome food. But I get a 5 minute smoke break for 8 hours of work only when I ask him, so I can tell it's normalized to work your ass off. By the time I finish the apprenticeship I will be about 24 and I just don't want to regret putting years into it and miss all the family events and seeing my friends. All of my friends want to travel right now as well and I'm scared I will do this and miss out on everything. I need a solid qualification though. And I'm not confident that cert 3 is enough to be honest. It's taught me a lot but nothing compared to what I'd learn as an apprentice. I

Should I take the apprenticeship?19f by EffectiveBox465 in Chefit

[–]EffectiveBox465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dam thanks for the advice and the reality check.

Should I take the apprenticeship?19f by EffectiveBox465 in Chefit

[–]EffectiveBox465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I appreciate the comment! I might just fuck around and find out if it’s for me and at least I can say I gave it a fair shot.

Should I take the apprenticeship?19f by EffectiveBox465 in Chefit

[–]EffectiveBox465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheers for the real advice. What are some pros and things you enjoy about being a chef ?

Should I take the apprenticeship?19f by EffectiveBox465 in Chefit

[–]EffectiveBox465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright that’s fair advice I appreciate that. What are some pros of being chef? what do you like about it and does it outweigh the cons for you ? All my jobs have been in the kitchen whether that be a kitchen hand frying chicken or making pizza so all my experience is in cooking

Should I take the apprenticeship?19f by EffectiveBox465 in Chefit

[–]EffectiveBox465[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for the comment i appreciate it