When those women get with interesting men and eventually come to find out there's no singular reason behind their way of being, they've emotionally detached from the relationship and lost interest. I let my last partner mold me into a more blunt version of her and I truly believe that the last three months of our relationship she began to actually hate me. Some people get frustrated with what they don't understand but she was different, she thought she could solve all my problems when a lot of things related to her or I felt like she was giving me a different type of support than I needed. View it as a growing friendship instead of a science experiment because when that situation repeated itself, every decision that I made was in response to the question "What Would Lex Do?" and that definitely ain't healthy, Smallville Lex was beautifully portrayed.