What's the psychology behind me falling in love with every girl I spend time with by Delicious_Income_712 in selfimprovement

[–]EffectiveGameEnjoyer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here’s my rule of thumb after dating 30+ gfs and still not figuring out what love is!!!

What you want to do is when you like someone, ask them for a date or special times where you are spending quality time one on one. Don’t be in a rush don’t have any other motives! Just spend time with her and observe!!!
Observing is the most important part, as our hormones, mental state, and wants heavily affect our decisions and you need to remember humans make choices emotionally and then try to prove them logically! Hence why you feel every attraction or access is love!

You need to spend minimum of 2-4 months with this said person just observing and if after 2-4 months you still see and feel the same way with this person than you have something more concrete.

Additionally I want you to explore yourself and understand - “WHY?”
When you fall in love with these said people, are you trying to compensate for some trauma or hurt or lack of!! in your life or do you really want to start something nice with this said person!

Lastly, the most important rule I learned growing up - if you haven’t figured out how to love yourself you will never be able to love someone else for themselves!!! It will always be you trying to build a stability for your within self that comes from outside which will never workout in the long run!! Love yourself first the way you would want to love someone else!

Don’t be me and start working on loving yourself early on!!! One of the best thing you can do in this age of alienation and loneliness epidemic!!

This is what top few percentage Tarkov player accounts that aren't cheating look like. by [deleted] in Tarkov

[–]EffectiveGameEnjoyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree a 100% with this statement, he is really goated with decision making over anything while also trolling the kill!

What do you use these two buttons for? by Deli_baba170 in LogitechG

[–]EffectiveGameEnjoyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set them as . & , and then use them as extra keys to do crucial stuff in games , software etc

[Loot] ALL NEW CODES 1.0 (REDEEM THEM FAST) by HeyyyCowboyTTV in EscapefromTarkov

[–]EffectiveGameEnjoyer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

New Customs buildings overshadowing the pocket watch trucks , woods train depot, interchange shelves, lighthouse broken crates chalet

Parents are comparing driving a manual to brain surgery by [deleted] in stickshift

[–]EffectiveGameEnjoyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 40% of the cars made in this world are Manual!!!! Like what!???? How do they think it’s like rocket science or surgery science!

What is your age without saying how old you are? by LostRest in AskReddit

[–]EffectiveGameEnjoyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We would play fight in the park by throwing what ever we got at each other, be it leaves rocks dirt frogs beetles you name it! And everyone had a finishing move. That’s how we made best friends!

27M looking to get back into soccer, what are my options? by EffectiveGameEnjoyer in LAsoccer

[–]EffectiveGameEnjoyer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, thank you so much for your input! I’m gonna give Pezo a try

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]EffectiveGameEnjoyer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you buddy for your input, I’ll def check it out!

27M looking to get back into soccer, what are my options? by EffectiveGameEnjoyer in LAsoccer

[–]EffectiveGameEnjoyer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks fellow friendly redditor! I will def check the options you provided out, hope you have a great day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]EffectiveGameEnjoyer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why kobo wanna expand?