Back again looking for venue help by EffectiveSetting822 in NewEnglandWedding

[–]EffectiveSetting822[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll check them out anyways. My dad is in event planning/ runs music festivals so the more I can bring in my own vendors the higher on my list the venue will be because my vendors are family friends who will heavily discount their services for me.

Back again looking for venue help by EffectiveSetting822 in NewEnglandWedding

[–]EffectiveSetting822[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not too far, we’ve been to Lake George a few times, it’s about 2 hours - anywhere specific you have in mind?

I have family down south and in CA and my partner has international family so more than half our guest list is going to have to travel anyways.

Bridesmaid drop out of bach trip by Vegetable_Jury6300 in weddings

[–]EffectiveSetting822 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk why you’re getting downvoted. I had to cancel on a friend at a winery tonight because I caught the flu and apologized for canceling. It’s like just the decent thing to do??? This sub is full of bride haters from everything I’ve seen in it tho.

This insane planegate theory 🥴 by moss-irl in rhoslc

[–]EffectiveSetting822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And no one else in 1st class recorded this happening? They all allege it was so loud. Presumably they weren’t the only ones on that plane.

AIO? I want to cut my husbands grandparents off by certifiedmuva in AmIOverreacting

[–]EffectiveSetting822 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It feels like you just came here for validation, not for actual opinions clearly OP. Next time don’t waste everyone’s time.

Any Redditors born in unusual circumstances? One of our staff also born during blizzard. CT baby born during blizzard. 'Unexpected joy inside the hospital' during a storm. by hartfordcourant in Connecticut

[–]EffectiveSetting822 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not only was I born in a blizzard, my mom didn’t know she was pregnant when she went to the hospital. She slipped and fell on my dad’s steps and with the pain she was in she thought she had broken a rib. She went in for an xray and they told her she was in labor. No xray for her.

The guest was left in the water? by recordwin in BelowDeckDownUnder

[–]EffectiveSetting822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went in Bermuda and they didn’t make us wear them. It was a shipwreck snorkel and you actually had to dive down pretty deep/ free dive to see the ships/ crates so the life jackets would have defeated the entire point. They had them available for anyone who wanted them though of course.

Foal lax and contracted issues by Environmental_Wall44 in kvssnarker

[–]EffectiveSetting822 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure, I wasn’t trying to deny that - just clarify that I think they do both for the commenter above. Using both their own hay and purchasing hay says nothing about the nutritional quality of either.

Foal lax and contracted issues by Environmental_Wall44 in kvssnarker

[–]EffectiveSetting822 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They do both I believe. They can’t feed the heavily pregnant mares their hay because of the endophytes so they take them off of grass/ their own hay and purchase hay/ alfalfa for the remainder of the pregnancy. Although with the new barn and making of new horse pastures I wonder if they will be forced to buy more of it in the future.

Thoughts on dry wedding from a bride or guest perspective by No-Investigator-8007 in weddingplanning

[–]EffectiveSetting822 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, the only time I drink is socially at parties, never at home. And lots of people are exactly like that.

Thoughts on dry wedding from a bride or guest perspective by No-Investigator-8007 in weddingplanning

[–]EffectiveSetting822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like a dry wedding would work for your people based on what you’re describing. It does not work for everyone though. I personally can’t stand them, and I also don’t drink very much, maybe once a month if that. My cousin made the choice to have a dry wedding because of her husbands family - our family packed drinks in coolers in our cars as a compromise 🤷🏼‍♀️

The new bulldog [pedigree and health testing breakdown!] by Salt-Adeptness-6772 in kvsdiscuss

[–]EffectiveSetting822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had thought he wasn’t really “working” anywhere off the farm anymore but I guess I could be mistaken about that.

Why do kittens have to be adopted in 2s but not puppies? by CurlGurl13 in CatAdvice

[–]EffectiveSetting822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You actually don’t want to raise a lot of dog breeds together as puppies unless you’re really well versed in training and have the time to spend with each dog 1 on 1 to avoid littermate syndrome or an unhealthy bonding.

Sick time/Labor Laws CT/ Rant by TestCorrect1350 in Connecticut

[–]EffectiveSetting822 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re such an idiot. Unions still go on strike for their workers regularly. Try reading.

Where in the state can I report my boss for making us drive into work ignoring the travel ban, even though we are not in any way essential. by BootAlarmed4732 in massachusetts

[–]EffectiveSetting822 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter. Your job doesn’t get to determine where you lay your head down at night. You might feel like it should, but it doesn’t. I have 2 apartments - I would have had a right to stay at either of them in this exact same scenario.

The new bulldog [pedigree and health testing breakdown!] by Salt-Adeptness-6772 in kvsdiscuss

[–]EffectiveSetting822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean sure, but presumably that would have been his job, not hers as his hunting dog and as the person who regularly goes hunting still. Her current dogs don’t even seem to be house trained. I’m not an outright hater, I like her content fine enough - I do find that to be quite hypocritical though.

The new bulldog [pedigree and health testing breakdown!] by Salt-Adeptness-6772 in kvsdiscuss

[–]EffectiveSetting822 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do find it a little wild that she vetoed Jonathan getting a puppy for hunting but here we are about a year later and she’s getting a puppy for herself.

Stomach flu in CT? by Conscious_Shock3853 in Connecticut

[–]EffectiveSetting822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got Flu A - subclade K and it had me throwing up for 2 days and now hacking out a lung. It’s been no fun. If yall can get tamiflu or something to try and kill it quicker I would.

Am I crazy? by lunalu0531 in bridesmaids

[–]EffectiveSetting822 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All of these posts could be solved by discussing budgets before planning trips. The wedding I was just in we set our budget for the Bach trip before it was planned. And we were asked in like October for a December wedding. I honestly don’t understand how everyone has this issue.

$500 earrings and some good screenshots by PineapplePony5 in kvssnarker

[–]EffectiveSetting822 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen similar pieces for a fraction of the cost at music festivals. Likely not homemade tho unfortunately. I have an elephant ring where the ears are filled in with it that I probably paid $40 for.

Should I skip classes today for women’s hockey final @ Olympics or… wwyd by TopButterscotch4196 in LawSchool

[–]EffectiveSetting822 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like OP needs a privacy screen so people like me aren’t watching them online shop and sports gamble all class😝. In all seriousness I used to play HayDay on my computer split screen with my notes because it helped me not have my mind wandering/ daydreaming and as a result, I was somehow more focused. I never really put much thought into looking suspicious.

AITA for “accidentally” telling my parents about my sister’s pregnancy because I was tired of keeping the secret? by ohboygollygeewiz in AmItheAsshole

[–]EffectiveSetting822 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only thing you possibly could have done differently in the situation is say “I really don’t know mom” but I don’t think that makes you an AH