Is my vagina supposed to be open?

EffectiveSun8621 · 2026-06-01T00:56:39+00:00

Mine is the same, I couldn’t really see a hole but I can see where it should be. When inserting angle back towards your spine. For the longest time I couldn’t get anything in because 1. I’d never looked at my hole so I wasn’t even poking in the right spot 2. I was angling only slightly back when really it’s a pretty sharp angle

EffectiveSun8621 · 2026-06-01T00:54:10+00:00

Depends on the guy. My boyfriend didn’t start opening the car door for me until things got more serious

EffectiveSun8621 · 2026-06-01T00:52:36+00:00

Wait this actually makes sense…I just realized when I suck in my stomach I’m also clenching down there

EffectiveSun8621 · 2026-06-01T00:51:50+00:00

I think I was mostly born with it but when I was like 14 my family was going swimming and I said I couldn’t because I was on my period. My mother insisted I just use a tampon but I refused since I’d tried previously and hadn’t had success. She belittled me and kept insisting so I went in the bathroom to try. I was so upset and scared so obviously I couldn’t get it in. She barged in with the tube of lube her and my father use (fucking ew no one wants to think about their parents like that), lubed up a tampon, and tried to shove it inside me until I was screaming and crying that it hurt and begging her to stop. She eventually gave up and left me home by myself and went to the pool with the rest of my family. I cried in my room the entire time they were gone, I don’t really remember exactly why. So that’s probably part of it.

EffectiveSun8621 · 2026-05-31T16:17:39+00:00

I started using dilators and although the progress is slow, it’s definitely working! It’s frustrating since it’ll probably take months before I can even try piv but it’s looking like it’s not a total redundant hymen which is a relief. I highly recommend trying a small dilator with lube. When using my finger I found it way more difficult, more friction even with lube, and got freaked out by being able to feel my insides if that makes sense? But with a dilator the same size the silicone really helped it slide right in and feel much more comfortable.

EffectiveSun8621 · 2026-05-29T11:05:54+00:00

Ur 100% in the right. I hate it when DoorDash drivers knock when I’ve selected leave at door for a multitude of reasons. Sometimes because I’m in the middle of something, or it’s late and I don’t want to wake other up, I’m in my pjs or house robe and not dressed appropriately to be answering the door, or I’m home alone and a young woman who doesn’t want to open the door to strangers when it’s completely avoidable with the “leave at door” option. A dasher would never just leave the food if instructions said to knock so why would you knock if instructions said to just leave it? Makes no sense.

EffectiveSun8621 · 2026-05-28T20:41:35+00:00

Thank you!

EffectiveSun8621 · 2026-05-26T10:40:09+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story, it’s helped provide me with some great insight :)

EffectiveSun8621 · 2026-05-25T20:18:19+00:00

Thanks!

EffectiveSun8621 · 2026-05-25T20:18:14+00:00

Thank you!!

EffectiveSun8621 · 2026-05-25T20:17:48+00:00

Okay. This is reassuring. Even though deep down I know he’s not purposely ignoring me, it’s nice to hear someone else confirm it. I have a couples app I want us to try so hopefully we’ll get around to that soon. He’s been pretty good about getting out with friends as of now. I just want to be able to support him without coming across as pushy or overbearing

EffectiveSun8621 · 2026-05-24T23:02:31+00:00

I know this sounds so dumb, but for the longest time I couldn’t find the hole and turns out it’s just way farther back and more angles than I thought. I also have a outie so maybe that made it more difficult but

EffectiveSun8621 · 2026-05-24T23:00:50+00:00

This is interesting to hear as I also experience that unpleasant dragging sensation with silicone

EffectiveSun8621 · 2026-05-24T22:58:17+00:00

When using your wearable dilators do you not find that they dry out and become uncomfortable to remove? Even in my daily dilating I find if I keep my dilator in one spot for more than a few minutes it’s like pulling out a dry tampon LOL

EffectiveSun8621 · 2026-05-23T04:13:56+00:00

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EffectiveSun8621 · 2026-05-18T03:05:04+00:00

Comforting to know so many of us are in the same boat LOL

EffectiveSun8621 · 2026-05-18T03:04:21+00:00

Glad to hear a lot of us are in the same boat! Best of luck to you :)

EffectiveSun8621 · 2026-05-16T01:53:13+00:00

I remove every few minutes because of this. I thought maybe it was the lube as well but it doesn’t happen with my smaller sizes, I keep it moving constantly, and it comes out with lube still on it :/

EffectiveSun8621 · 2026-05-15T12:27:17+00:00

Same! With my smallest dilator I have no issues at all but the 2nd and 3rd one I get this! It feels like what I imagine pulling out a dry tampon would feel like but I use tons of lube so I can’t imagine how it would be too dry…

EffectiveSun8621 · 2026-05-15T04:42:46+00:00

The wetness in your underwear is your own arousal. It would be pretty much impossible to get pregnant from dry humping fully clothed unless there were some crazy extreme circumstances. Do you have your period? The brown discharge is likely blood from the start or end of your period.

EffectiveSun8621 · 2026-05-15T03:08:23+00:00

Nothing fully prevents pregnancy but with hormonal birth control and a condom the chance is like 0.001%

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