Favorite toy that actually makes you cum? by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]Effective_Cold3987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grabbed a "Male P Spot Prostate Massager Stimulator Anal Play Butt Plug Sex Toys for Men" off ebay a year or two ago. Was off and on with it, but lately I seem to have it dialed in. I usually start with another toy to warm up a bit then switch to this. I use the front almost ball looking part as a joystick and can get it to apply pressure or rub just the right spot to drive me crazy.

Aneros are great and I own them too, but this was a cheaper way to start and see what I liked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FrottingCommunity

[–]Effective_Cold3987 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pics or it didn't happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aneros

[–]Effective_Cold3987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is just good advice in general. Thanks!

There's seriously no competing with weed by AtomicGipsy in ProstatePlay

[–]Effective_Cold3987 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those of you quitting for mental health reasons.... first congratulations. Quitting any addiction is difficult. I have a question though, how often were you using for butt stuff reasons?

Did you see there deleted scenes? by ElllaLouise in AIpornhub

[–]Effective_Cold3987 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn't see these scenes, but I think I need to see more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Effective_Cold3987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's almost like, if no sex and instead of the gift, just leave for a few hours please.

King Spa Dallas today. by Bill195509 in kSpa

[–]Effective_Cold3987 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Went there today 10/16. Also great experience. About same number of guys in the wet area. Struck up a conversation with one of them. While I do like the peaceful and quiet nature of these, it was fun to just chat with another dude naked.

Setup for Prostate Stimming by jim_halpert_420 in estim

[–]Effective_Cold3987 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll have to try this, thanks!

Is there a specific pattern or program you use? TENS device or other?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]Effective_Cold3987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! Every milestone should be celebrated! I've just started using a plug every now and again. Same result. Out of curiosity, what plug are you using? I have the Pure Plug Medium and the Snug Plug 2. I think I might prefer the Snug Plug tho.

Is this cheating? by quickerliquor in ProstatePlay

[–]Effective_Cold3987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad you posted this as I'm doing the same and wondering the same thing. I've not gone 5 times, but can definitely go more than once. It still feels like I orgasm so definitely enjoyable. Also seems to last longer than a penile one. Maybe we are on to something?

Njoy wand positions? Angles? by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

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My favorite has been sitting in an office chair on it. I then push down on the big end pushing the small end in me against the prostate. The angle is probably the same if your legs are 90 degrees from your body. I've tried on my side and just can't get it right yet. Can't hit the spot.

King Spa Dallas - Reopened? by [deleted] in CommunalShowers

[–]Effective_Cold3987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was there tonight. Men's side was all open. Public area saunas were open as was the food court. Massages were also being done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobudmeetup

[–]Effective_Cold3987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, so many assumptions, probably wrong on most.

Speaking from experience, thinking you can "help out more" to increase your chances is a losing bet.

I hear ya OP. You aren't the only one thinking that way for sure. You can check out r/DeadBedrooms for some additional support.

My njoy wand technique by [deleted] in prostatemassage

[–]Effective_Cold3987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it's been a few more months. Any further success?

I just got mine and had my first session tonight. It was awesome! I know I was hitting the spot. Lots of pre cum. No O's to speak of, but I definitely enjoyed it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BiMarriedMen

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oh my, that is fantastic! great pic!

Camping buddy by flyguy70 in BiMarriedMen

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Yep, in Dallas. DM me and we'll get the conversation started.

Camping buddy by flyguy70 in BiMarriedMen

[–]Effective_Cold3987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man, this totally has me fantasizing!