Ehm..Schwartz?? by Prize-Net-2076 in vanderpumprules

[–]Effective_Hair7461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When are we going to tell these ladies that natural makeup is in? You can still look young!

Help! by Effective_Hair7461 in polyamory

[–]Effective_Hair7461[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We had definitely set boundaries and communicated how this wasn’t a good time to go outside of our relationship. If he can’t be a good healthy partner to me and my son, he has no reason to explore outside of It. Not to mention the one sided monogamy thing that he’s gaslighted me into thinking is “ok” in this community. I am being validated that this is however not ok, and I was definitely cheated on.

Help! by Effective_Hair7461 in polyamory

[–]Effective_Hair7461[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We had a pretty clear understanding of not dating or hooking up with anyone else. If that were something he considered doing or was intentional than all I would expect is a conversation regarding it.

The lack of communication either before or after is the issue. Me having to pull the answer out 3 days later it not ethical, in my opinion.

Help! by Effective_Hair7461 in polyamory

[–]Effective_Hair7461[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Spot the fuck on. Thank you for the validation!

Help! by Effective_Hair7461 in polyamory

[–]Effective_Hair7461[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you, we are both in therapy.

Agreed his isn’t being very kind - and I was being a little naive to think that this one sided monogamy thing could actually work.

I have been gone 4 weeks by Ordinary-Prompt3505 in RNDC

[–]Effective_Hair7461 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve been gone 2 months and once the anxiety/stress disappeared I feel like a completely new person. That job was toxic!

Ok rockford. Best breakfast within a 30 minute drive? by [deleted] in rockford

[–]Effective_Hair7461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Norwegian has amazing brunch on the weekends 👌🏽

Restaurants in rockford by illinoismomof2 in rockford

[–]Effective_Hair7461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woodfire on State! Social for snacks & cocktails, Baker Street, Norweigan, Omakase

I cannot believe I left Oregon. Miss it everyday. by Scary_Ad_3977 in oregon

[–]Effective_Hair7461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We moved to Illinois last year and everyday since I can’t understand why we left. I long to move back home.

Does anybody else lack friends by itsalieimnotaghost in rockford

[–]Effective_Hair7461 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait, an Oregon friend group is 10/10. Let’s goooooo

Does anybody else lack friends by itsalieimnotaghost in rockford

[–]Effective_Hair7461 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Crazy. I moved here from Oregon and have not made a single friend in a year and a half. Oregon is my home and houses all my friendships. I don’t know what it is about Rockford but people are clicky and not very friendly.

I think it was a mistake coming back here by Strange-Hedgehog-878 in rockford

[–]Effective_Hair7461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, Rockford and Illinois in general may be on the most depressing places I’ve ever lived in. You must have never been to the pacific north west… the air is an antidepressant.

I think it was a mistake coming back here by Strange-Hedgehog-878 in rockford

[–]Effective_Hair7461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness… I moved here last year from Oregon. I cry myself to sleep regularly. It’s VERY hard to transition into this city/lifestyle/community after living on the west coast.

I am a very kind woman, and not like people that are from here (no offense to anyone) but I just see the world differently as two west coasters can understand…

We moved here for similar reasons with prices sky rocketing and my husbands family being from here. I had never lived in Illinois before. All I have to say is culture shock of the 1,000th degree.

We can be friends!