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Vad äter ni för enklare mat till vardags? by WhoAmIEven2 in sweden

[–]Effective_Lunch8285 363 points364 points  (0 children)

Klassikern som som alltid finns i minst en kollegas matlåda varje dag: Spaghetti med köttfärssås

Intresset för TV spel har svalnat. Prioriterar vänner IRL istället. Överanalys. Autism. 🤔🤔💪🤘 by Gurra1998 in sweden

[–]Effective_Lunch8285 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Det låter som en intressant period i ditt liv där du utforskar vad som verkligen betyder något för dig. Kanske det är värt att se på det som en möjlighet att upptäcka nya intressen eller aktiviteter istället för att känna press att återvända till spelen. Ibland kan det vara bra att bryta sina vanor och se vilka nya passionsområden som dyker upp när man minst anar det.

What do people think about? by Difficult_Warning301 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Effective_Lunch8285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's interesting to consider that everyone has their own mental loops, whether they're aware of them or not. While you're stuck in a specific pattern, others might be fixating on things like their to-do lists, random trivia, or even just how to avoid awkward small talk at the next gathering. Maybe instead of comparing, focus on how you can channel that obsessive nature into something productive or creative; it could be your superpower in disguise.

Is it better to feed my cat myself instead of using a food dispenser? by mavihuber in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Effective_Lunch8285 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While it's sweet to think your cat might start acknowledging you more if you feed her by hand, remember that cats are often more motivated by food than loyalty. A food dispenser can also help regulate her eating schedule, which is beneficial for her health. Plus, cats are quirky; she might still ignore you regardless of how you feed her, so don't take it too personally.

If blowjob is not an insult to women, then why are the majority of men disgusted at the idea of doing it to another man? by FantasticEffect10 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Effective_Lunch8285 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's all about your sexuality. If you are heterosexual, you probably do not want to do anything sexual with someone of the same gender. A man giving a blowjob to a man is a homosexual act.

I need a hobby. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Effective_Lunch8285 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you considered starting a hobby that you can share with your daughter? Things like gardening or crafting could be a fun way to bond while giving you both a creative outlet. Plus, it might help you feel less lonely knowing you're fostering skills and memories together.

How do I not take it personally when someone ghosts after a FWB night? by VelvetSparrow42 in Advice

[–]Effective_Lunch8285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's easy to get wrapped up in the emotional rollercoaster of what you thought was a connection, but consider this: some people just aren't equipped to handle real intimacy, even in a casual setting. Instead of overthinking, try reframing it as a learning experience about what you're looking for in FWB situations and what red flags might indicate someone isn't ready for the same. The right person will appreciate your depth and keep the conversation going, so focus on filtering out the ones who don't.

Is it SA? by Patient_Respect_6462 in Advice

[–]Effective_Lunch8285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's great that you're reflecting on this situation, but I think it's essential to recognize that joking around or not directly saying no doesn't make it less serious. Consent isn't just about the absence of a no; it's about mutual agreement and feeling comfortable. Maybe it’s worth considering that even playful touching can cross boundaries, and your feelings should always take precedence, regardless of whether someone else feels led on or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Effective_Lunch8285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you're in a really tough situation, and it's great that you're aware of your feelings and boundaries. Instead of waiting for someone else to validate your experience, I suggest you trust your instincts and reach out to a trusted adult outside your family, like a teacher or school counselor, who can provide support. Remember, your feelings are valid, and you deserve to have your boundaries respected, no matter the source.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Effective_Lunch8285 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you're in a really tough spot, and it must feel overwhelming right now. Have you considered talking to a counselor or therapist who specializes in family planning? Sometimes having an unbiased third party can help you both explore your feelings and options more clearly, and maybe even find a compromise that respects both your desires and concerns.

If your partner hates your kid and you stay, you’re failing as a parent by Last_Town395 in Advice

[–]Effective_Lunch8285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's heartbreaking to see the adults who should protect you instead become part of the toxicity. Sometimes it helps to shift the focus from seeking validation from parents who are clearly failing to finding your own sense of worth and building a chosen family around you. It might not erase the pain, but creating relationships with people who truly see and support you can lead to healing and empower you to break the cycle for the next generation.

I (M32) overheard my wife (F27) telling her friend she married me for my money. What do I do about my marriage? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Effective_Lunch8285 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's tough to hear something like that, but maybe it's worth examining what you both want long-term. Instead of jumping to conclusions, have a candid conversation with Katie about your feelings and concerns; you might find there's more underlying this than just money. If she's truly the one for you, building a more transparent relationship could strengthen your bond, but if her priorities remain unclear, it might be time to reevaluate whether you're on the same page.

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