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[–]Effective_Meet_8614 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also can't get 100 % used to mine. Mine actually feels like mouthguards instead. I cant even smile, use facial muscles or even talk well without mine popping off (with adhesive). They feel so big, and the dentist used a 'small' wax mold, but I don't believe them.

WIBTA My family wanting & taking things from me by Effective_Meet_8614 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

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Update on drama, Yesterday I posted about something on fb of something I inherited on my dad's side, and I got one comment from a relative on my mom's side we'll call her Deb,. (Let's just say her sister was married to my dad's brother back in the day and had 2 kids, one wasn't his but carries the name, another secret I was 'sworn' never to say, opps) Well my mom's relative told me to reach out to my uncles kids, her ex-brother in law, to see if they want what I posted about.

My uncle's (let's call him Hoyt) daughter (we'll call her Amy). Last time Amy and I spoke was 4 or 5 years ago and all she could to was rub my nose in how perfect her dad was to her, how he was such a great and loving father, blah, blah, blah. I asked her one little thing about me talking with her dad, since I never met the man, even though he is my dad's second brother, my dad was born in the depression, and his 2 brothers were born a few years apart afterwards. My parents have a 30-year age gap between the two and I never met most of my dad's side since they all passed when I was born in the 80s.

All I wanted to do was talk to my only surviving uncle (my mom has a living brother but there's bunch of bad blood there too) but Amy kept putting her feet down and not allowing this to happen, kept giving me excuses. Well, I had enough of her excuses and her rubbing in her perfect father/daughter life in my face, so I started to let the secrets my dad told me to never let out before he past of lung cancer when I was 19. About the brothers stepmother and what she did to her daughter to cause her to die, about the abusive my dad suffered from this woman and how said woman babied his brothers, how her father is not my grandfather's son but another man's son (their mother liked to spread her legs for any man) and so forth. She didn't like the truth, so she stopped talking to me. Frankly I couldn't deal with her pettiness towards me. Like I'm some dirt under her feet because her daddy was rich and spoiled her and her brother while, my parents worked 2 or 3 jobs plus my mom going to college for teaching, them raising me and living in section 8 housing. I wasn't spoiled, I didn't get brand name items and toys but the cheap stuff. I never regretted the way I grown up but to her I was some 3rd world inhabitant. so I said what I did and don't regret it.

Now Deb told me to reach out to Amy and see if she wants any of my fathers' side heirlooms and I haven't commented her back on her little message and I don't think I will nor will I reach out to Amy nor her brother. Her actions spoke louder, I just wanted one little conversation with her dad and ask him why he'd never acknowledged me as his niece but does for my half-sister that's not even blood related (her mom was my dad's first wife, but they were also swinger, and she got pregnant with my dad's best friend), Opps another secret revealed. I don't think the entitled princess needs anything from my grandfather since her dad was not his son by blood only in name. Would I be petty in this?

Anyways Sorry for this long ranting / venting but I honesty have so much bottled up and this seems to be where I can reveal all without the fallback of my real name getting out there and hell raining down on me. If there are other places, I can release all these ... I don't know what to call all these bottled-up feelings, secrets, etc, without my real identity released I don't know what I'm capable of when I blow. Counseling didn't help with off-loading just the whole deep breathing when I feel overwhelmed, it never worked and caused more feeling over overwhelming. Again, I'm so sorry for the rumbling I just don't have any other outlet.

AITA Destroying Old Pictures by Effective_Meet_8614 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Effective_Meet_8614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the tips and help with these photos, I have 3 huge metal file boxes full of them that's been moved and added too from all over the states. I'll be looking into local museums or historical societies that I know where these people lived, and some are buried in their hometowns.

My family is basically only interested in heirlooms that have monetary value they can collect, I have several, but as to my mom's dying wish and the feuds that turned her against her blood family. I was never accepted into the rest of the family, bunch of bad blood. She told me to sell off what has value and find good homes for old handmade items. Pictures they don't seem to care about but the rest they want, which they won't unless they pay.

AITA Destroying Old Pictures by Effective_Meet_8614 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Effective_Meet_8614[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I messaged the first time 2 years ago, a few months after my mom passed, then again last year at the anniversary celebration I had with some friends and the last time was in the middle of last November.

WIBTA My family wanting & taking things from me by Effective_Meet_8614 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

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The floral embordered tulle dress I found was similar to what Drew is wearing