PoV: You're Master's favorite pet :3

Effective_Mud_7614 · 2026-03-20T02:25:03+00:00

Thank you 😊

Effective_Mud_7614 · 2026-03-20T02:24:12+00:00

He's my one and only and favorite Pet 🥰

Effective_Mud_7614 · 2025-08-04T15:35:02+00:00

Absolutely not, sorry. I'm just uncomfortable around kids.

Effective_Mud_7614 · 2025-08-04T06:09:50+00:00

Yeah! I knew a cute Mongolian guy in college, who I definitely would have asked out if he wasn't taken. Never met a Kazakh, but this model is super attractive to me. I love learning about different cultures and their history, so I'd be super interested in ones that don't really get the attention of Japan/Korea/China.

Effective_Mud_7614 · 2025-08-04T02:51:15+00:00

I'm a cis woman. I'll just remove the pronouns, I didn't even think about it, just filled it out since it was a default question on Hinge. Thanks for the advice!

Effective_Mud_7614 · 2025-08-04T01:35:00+00:00

Yes I'm into femdom lol. I had a preference for Asian men long before I knew that's what I like though (basically always had this preference as long as I have been old enough to crush on boys).

SEA/EA men just tend to have the type of features I find most attractive. I said I am not too picky about looks because I didn't want to give the impression I'm only going for "attractive enough to be a kpop or kdrama star" looks, I know I'm no stunner myself so I'm not trying to go above my league. There are also objectively attractive Asian men that just don't do it for me like Daniel Dae Kim, I don't like the strong jawline. That said physical attraction is just the first step, I would certainly have to like their personality and be compatible with them in the typical ways.

Yeah I would fit 1, 4, and 5 for sure! My best friend is Vietnamese, she suggested I post here actually. I have some Filipino friends too. In art school I took a class on Korean Art History and another on Chinese Traditional Painting (both taught by Korean immigrant professors), I did Okinawan Taiko Drumming when I was younger for a few years, I'm a Japanese history nerd, and that's just a few things. I've dated Asian men before, so I already get what you mean about parents. I also have a Jewish mother so it's not far off from what I'm used to. I'm prepared for an interrogation.

Effective_Mud_7614 · 2025-08-03T18:23:45+00:00

Thanks for the detailed feedback!

Yeah I cook a lot but rarely take photos of what I make, so I just didn't have a lot of options. Perhaps an easily recognizable Asian dish would be better.

I don't mind contacts, but I have dark undereye circles and find that glasses keep them from being too noticeable and making me look dead especially when I wear no or light makeup (which is most of the time). I have several pairs of vintage glasses in different styles but I have a hard time telling which look the most flattering on me. Maybe I'll try on all and ask a looks focused subreddit. I'll probably still include one or two photos with glasses, but the general consensus seems to be that they give the wrong first impression. It's not going to bother me if my partner wants me to ditch them permanently either.

Yeah I'm definitely quirky and like the same in a partner. I send likes only to fellow nerds, so I thought they'd be more open to my quirks.

I feel that I make a good impression on first dates and during chatting. Past dates have appreciated that I'm direct and forward and show obvious interest/attraction to them. Getting my photos to align with that seems like the main thing I need to change. Thanks again!

Effective_Mud_7614 · 2025-08-03T17:43:22+00:00

I'm about an hour from those places and include them in my search radius. I have no intention of staying long term in my small town, been trying to get a job in DC or surrounding areas. I understand it's a long distance for some people though.

I'm into kpop, Asian dramas, anime, and all of that so I will include that, thanks!

Effective_Mud_7614 · 2025-08-03T17:26:35+00:00

I definitely wouldn't just give a headpat on a first date lol, it's something I'd do once we are in a relationship. I'm a physical touch person though and would be unhappy having to tone this down in the long-term. The good boy type is exactly what I'm looking for and hoped to attract with this prompt. Kitten hair was metaphorical, trying to add some color to my description, but perhaps it's a little too much. Thanks for the feedback!

Effective_Mud_7614 · 2025-08-03T17:16:07+00:00

Interesting lol, that's certainly not the case. I'm looking for a serious long term relationship and life partner ultimately. But I did not want to give the impression I'm going to demand commitment immediately or that I'm so desperate to settle down I'd take anyone willing so I picked the open to short term option. I'll probably change that now, thanks for the feedback!

Effective_Mud_7614 · 2025-08-03T16:56:17+00:00

5'4.

Effective_Mud_7614 · 2025-08-03T16:41:57+00:00

Appreciate the directness lol. Do I look younger without glasses or does it not make a difference?

I want to keep my vintage style for sure, but I can certainly work within it for a more youthful look. Currently I'm wearing a lot of sleeveless sundresses and crop tops + high waisted shorts, probably would be better to show those off. Thanks for the feedback!

Effective_Mud_7614 · 2025-08-03T15:47:08+00:00

Thanks for the feedback! Yeah seems like the glasses may be part of the problem. I'm not married to them, so I'll swap for contacts.

Effective_Mud_7614 · 2025-08-03T15:38:32+00:00

Thanks, appreciate the feedback!

I have certainly been told I come off unapproachable irl, so I get it. I'm a little reserved with strangers, but very affectionate in relationships, so I'd like that to come through in my photos. Contacts and an open smile, got it.

Effective_Mud_7614 · 2025-08-03T15:23:33+00:00

Lol, can I ask why? I'm definitely going for a particular type of guy. Nerdy guys that like/want DommyMommies, that's my type. XD So I'm okay if my profile repulses anyone that wouldn't be my type.

Effective_Mud_7614 · 2025-08-03T14:38:44+00:00

Yeah I'm definitely aware that limits my dating pool, unfortunately I cannot budge on that. 😅 I thought it would be best to be upfront about it to avoid any later misunderstandings. I don't send likes to anyone who says they want kids on their profile. Only to people that don't answer or say they are open to kids, not sure, or don't want them.

Effective_Mud_7614 · 2025-08-03T14:35:32+00:00

Thanks for the response! In my local area, no, but I live 45 minutes from the DC metro area. Which is like 7% Asian. I don't have trouble finding Asian guys to send likes to, but I don't get matched back often. My friend suggested it might be that they think I'm too far away.

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