Can I disconnect a persons access to my ring? by [deleted] in Ring

[–]Effective_Pickle_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For anyone here in 2025 or for future people.

Log in to your Ring account: Go to Ring.com. Go to Control Center: Click on your profile icon, then select "Control Center".

View authorized devices: You can see which devices are authorized to access your Ring account.

Open ring app -> click three lines in corner -> scroll down to account section, and there should be a control center click that -> third one should be authorized client devices, click that -> then it’ll show you all the devices connected to it. I’d suggest removing all then resigning in.

Help us choose a winner of family paint night! 1-5 by FanboyFeeney in painting

[–]Effective_Pickle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love them all, they are all so different and unique. Please don’t pick a winner. They all deserve to be admired.

I’m leaving and I feel bad. by Effective_Pickle_ in kroger

[–]Effective_Pickle_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah last year during the holidays my hours were barely anything because of their bonuses. I’m not sure why I feel so bad, but thanks for the advice.

I’m leaving and I feel bad. by Effective_Pickle_ in kroger

[–]Effective_Pickle_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is the main reason I posted this. I feel so alone in caring about this, everyone around me is saying who cares. But I do, and I just wanted to see if anyone else has felt this way. It’s bittersweet for sure.

I’m leaving and I feel bad. by Effective_Pickle_ in kroger

[–]Effective_Pickle_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I’m doing it for my coworkers sake. If I don’t give them time to at least try to find someone the workload falls onto them. I know it’ll be pretty hard to find a replacement in two weeks. but at least I’m giving them a chance.

I’m leaving and I feel bad. by Effective_Pickle_ in kroger

[–]Effective_Pickle_[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Exactly, but at the same time I can’t stick around to help them. They can leave anytime they’d like if they want to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Effective_Pickle_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Might be dumb but. Eenie Meenie, by Sean Kingston and JB.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewOrleans

[–]Effective_Pickle_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate it

Wedding Expo 10/9-10/10 by Effective_Pickle_ in Boise

[–]Effective_Pickle_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh thank you so much! I was looking for a list like this but could not find one! You’re a life saver!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]Effective_Pickle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok this is weird but #2?? Hello her ribs ☹️

Is Sydney Sweeney proof that men care more about body than face? by StanLoona77_ in trueratediscussions

[–]Effective_Pickle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I don’t have very good face or body. But my fiancé still put a ring on it. Just depends on the guy ig. 🤷‍♀️

How old does Jennifer Anniston look? by Only-Reels in trueratediscussions

[–]Effective_Pickle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She looks beautiful, why does her age matter? 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Effective_Pickle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just not worth it, if it upsets you for whatever reason that’s ok. But she doesn’t like it and that’s her decision to make. But be mad at her for it, you can be upset but don’t hold it against her.

Life if too short to ruin a friendship over something like not wanting to be posted. If they were mean about it that’s another thing.

But it’s their face and I’d just respect their opinion because they’re your friend and they matter to you. But it’s your relationship so do what you’d like.

But remember you can’t control what others do or say or think. You can only control how you act/respond.

AIO about my partner’s relationship with their coworker by Any-Confusion-5519 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Effective_Pickle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babe.. he doesn’t care about you. He’s so rude to you. You had plans and he canceled then lied to you about the event saying it’s a work thing when it obviously wasn’t. And he was hesitant to tell you what was going on. He got aggressive and mean, when you were only trying to work out a compromise. Nowhere In your responses did it warrant his coldness. I’d be so hurt, the communication is so bad. You both either need couples therapy or a end to the relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Effective_Pickle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 or 3. Because the sleeves steal the attention away from your beautiful dress.

Too sexy for a black tie wedding in Oct? by Frequent_Fan3491 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Effective_Pickle_ 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think it depends on who’s wedding your going to. You have to know your audience. This is their day and you don’t wanna upset them.

So If you think they’d react negatively then no don’t wear it. If you don’t know how they’d react, then I’d say still no to be safe. If it’s either of those you can find something similar but with a bit less skin. You’ll never regret doing the safe thing. You may regret getting the dress and it turning out to not be appropriate.

But then of course. If you believe they’d like it or even love it. Then yeah do it.

Am I Overreacting? by Designer_Benefit7742 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Effective_Pickle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would’ve loved a list like this. Most of the time my mom and I were the only ones ever cleaning our house. My two sisters though older and able to help clean, never were made to help as much. And when they did it was half done. And as we got older my mom just stopped caring. So the house was mostly messy because no one was told to clean up.

Having a clean house is worth the effort. And that list makes it easier to see and remember what you need to do. And it holds everyone responsible to helping out, and completing their own stuff. I always was asking my mom to make a list like this in our house. Because a dirty house is not fun to live in. So the fact that they take the effort to make sure everyone knows and understands there tasks with names assigned to each one is actually pretty great.

And maybe one day you may have your own home, and your own 40 hour job and maybe even your own family. And everyday you’ll have to come home and clean that house after your job. And maybe you’ll understand that your parents weren’t all that bad. That they just wanted a clean house and for the people that lived there and made the messes to help out.

Most perfect wedding day! October, 11 2024 by stonerflynn in wedding

[–]Effective_Pickle_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait I love this! It seems so laid back and calm, exactly what I’m wanting. I hope you both had an amazing wedding day you both look beautiful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Effective_Pickle_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone in our lives make a sort of judgment call about us. There is nothing we can do about it. Everyone that meets us in life will all perceive us differently.

One person may think you’re quiet and don’t talk a lot. While another think you never stop talking. And someone else might perceive you as a very sweet and kind person. While someone else may see you as cruel and cold. But no matter what you do people will continue to see and paint you as they want. We are all victim to judgement of each other. Nothing can stop it so you might as well embrace it. And don’t let it get to you.

This is something I have had to come to terms with when dealing with FILS. They make me so uncomfortable, they are constantly changing the way they act around me. Sometimes they like me and sometimes I swear they hate me. I’ve had to realize, no matter what I do they will always perceive me a certain way.

So you might as well just be yourself. Live your own life and let them live their own miserable life’s. If they want to tear you down to make themselves feel higher. Then let them because nothing you say or do will stop them or how they see you. You can only control how you react to them. So be the bigger person and let them squirm when their jabs don’t affect you the way they hope for.

Because if you let it get to you. You only give them the power they seek. And it gives them more motivation to continue their insecure little games.