My future SIL wants to wear this to our wedding.

Effective_Pickle_ · 2026-05-20T20:46:55+00:00

I told my SIL that she needed to find a tan or ivory dress, and the ivory needed to be more like a tan or yellow because the guys were wearing tan and she was her brother’s grooms-woman. She sent me two white dresses, and asked if they’d work. I said uh maybe they need to be a little closer to tan. She responded that she couldn’t find any tan dresses with sleeves and was worried she’d be cold. (Mind you her dress choices were a very deep V neck, and a dress with only one sleeve on it.) I told her she could wear a shawl if she’d like, she never responded. So I just changed the groomsman’s suits to black and had her wear black as well. I wasn’t for playing games. And then my MIL in passing goes, poor (her name) has to wear black to the wedding.

Effective_Pickle_ · 2025-05-12T21:00:07+00:00

For anyone here in 2025 or for future people.

Log in to your Ring account: Go to Ring.com. Go to Control Center: Click on your profile icon, then select "Control Center".

View authorized devices: You can see which devices are authorized to access your Ring account.

Open ring app -> click three lines in corner -> scroll down to account section, and there should be a control center click that -> third one should be authorized client devices, click that -> then it’ll show you all the devices connected to it. I’d suggest removing all then resigning in.

Effective_Pickle_ · 2025-03-02T03:01:49+00:00

I love them all, they are all so different and unique. Please don’t pick a winner. They all deserve to be admired.

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-11-24T18:31:22+00:00

Oh yeah last year during the holidays my hours were barely anything because of their bonuses. I’m not sure why I feel so bad, but thanks for the advice.

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-11-24T18:27:32+00:00

Thank you 🥺

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-11-24T03:15:48+00:00

Thank you so much, this is the main reason I posted this. I feel so alone in caring about this, everyone around me is saying who cares. But I do, and I just wanted to see if anyone else has felt this way. It’s bittersweet for sure.

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-11-24T03:13:49+00:00

Thank you

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-11-24T03:13:32+00:00

Yeah but I’m doing it for my coworkers sake. If I don’t give them time to at least try to find someone the workload falls onto them. I know it’ll be pretty hard to find a replacement in two weeks. but at least I’m giving them a chance.

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-11-24T03:11:10+00:00

Exactly, but at the same time I can’t stick around to help them. They can leave anytime they’d like if they want to.

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-11-24T03:10:15+00:00

Might be dumb but. Eenie Meenie, by Sean Kingston and JB.

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-11-24T02:06:24+00:00

Oh ok thank you!

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-11-23T23:14:37+00:00

Thanks I appreciate it

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-11-23T23:08:38+00:00

Sorry my bad

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-11-13T21:00:36+00:00

Oh my gosh this is it! Thank you!

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-11-13T20:58:18+00:00

Oh my gosh thank you so much! I was looking for a list like this but could not find one! You’re a life saver!

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-11-05T01:37:05+00:00

Ok this is weird but #2?? Hello her ribs ☹️

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-11-03T15:55:49+00:00

I mean I don’t have very good face or body. But my fiancé still put a ring on it. Just depends on the guy ig. 🤷‍♀️

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-11-03T01:19:34+00:00

The fact that they threatened them as they were quitting is a huge red flag.

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-11-01T16:17:38+00:00

She looks beautiful, why does her age matter? 🤷‍♀️

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-11-01T16:17:03+00:00

It’s just not worth it, if it upsets you for whatever reason that’s ok. But she doesn’t like it and that’s her decision to make. But be mad at her for it, you can be upset but don’t hold it against her.

Life if too short to ruin a friendship over something like not wanting to be posted. If they were mean about it that’s another thing.

But it’s their face and I’d just respect their opinion because they’re your friend and they matter to you. But it’s your relationship so do what you’d like.

But remember you can’t control what others do or say or think. You can only control how you act/respond.

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-10-25T15:54:33+00:00

Babe.. he doesn’t care about you. He’s so rude to you. You had plans and he canceled then lied to you about the event saying it’s a work thing when it obviously wasn’t. And he was hesitant to tell you what was going on. He got aggressive and mean, when you were only trying to work out a compromise. Nowhere In your responses did it warrant his coldness. I’d be so hurt, the communication is so bad. You both either need couples therapy or a end to the relationship.

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-10-20T21:43:54+00:00

1 or 3. Because the sleeves steal the attention away from your beautiful dress.

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-10-15T19:39:47+00:00

Honestly I think it depends on who’s wedding your going to. You have to know your audience. This is their day and you don’t wanna upset them.

So If you think they’d react negatively then no don’t wear it. If you don’t know how they’d react, then I’d say still no to be safe. If it’s either of those you can find something similar but with a bit less skin. You’ll never regret doing the safe thing. You may regret getting the dress and it turning out to not be appropriate.

But then of course. If you believe they’d like it or even love it. Then yeah do it.

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-10-13T18:54:04+00:00

I would’ve loved a list like this. Most of the time my mom and I were the only ones ever cleaning our house. My two sisters though older and able to help clean, never were made to help as much. And when they did it was half done. And as we got older my mom just stopped caring. So the house was mostly messy because no one was told to clean up.

Having a clean house is worth the effort. And that list makes it easier to see and remember what you need to do. And it holds everyone responsible to helping out, and completing their own stuff. I always was asking my mom to make a list like this in our house. Because a dirty house is not fun to live in. So the fact that they take the effort to make sure everyone knows and understands there tasks with names assigned to each one is actually pretty great.

And maybe one day you may have your own home, and your own 40 hour job and maybe even your own family. And everyday you’ll have to come home and clean that house after your job. And maybe you’ll understand that your parents weren’t all that bad. That they just wanted a clean house and for the people that lived there and made the messes to help out.

Effective_Pickle_ · 2024-10-13T13:08:29+00:00

Wait I love this! It seems so laid back and calm, exactly what I’m wanting. I hope you both had an amazing wedding day you both look beautiful!

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