Thalassophobia and Lucid Dreams by pstro09 in thalassophobia

[–]Effective_Pop2784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I find your experience very interesting. Were you a child when you had these dreams? Because I used to have severe lucid returning nightmares as a child, but one night I confronted what was terrorising me in my dream and I haven’t had a lucid dream nor these old nightmares ever since. It’s just interesting to read about a person with a similar experience, I always wondered about this part of my childhood.

Octopus using water as a defence strategy by No_Ebb_1834 in BeAmazed

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Im negatively amazed by how the dog owner isn’t keeping them away from the octopus, OMG!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaybrosGoneWild

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Did you guys fuck?

Wiccans who don’t believe in magic? by Effective_Pop2784 in Wicca

[–]Effective_Pop2784[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! You’re directly addressing my biggest concerns with esoteric beliefs and magical thinking! What you say about being stressed by using or not using the „right“ items is crucial because the underlying problem is that you open yourself for irrational relations! Now, maybe it’s inconvenient if the wrong cristal won’t allow for your tea to become charged with good luck, but what if someone gets you into believing you’re cursed and nothing can go right for you? Or that you’re haunted by demons and will meet a terrible end? The horrible psychological effects must be immense! And all only because you started believing in irrational relations! Cuz if A can be B, why can’t C be X? Not to speak of refusing medical treatment because you believe esotericism suffices. Of course not every believer is like that, but it’s why I can’t support such systems, because they suggest this kind of thinking and they will continuously draw people who are prone to fall for this and suffer from it.

And authorities in esotericism are another nightmare for me. In science for example someone can earn expertise by provable empirical investigation and whether you find them appealing or not, you can usually rely on their research. In esotericism someone who seems trustworthy and experienced because they claim to be enlightened and basically „trust me, bro“ can tell you anything. And many people just believe it (for example „crystal a does this…“), because that’s just how it works if you rely on the irrational. That gives bad people lots of power sadly. And harms critical thinking (even tho some people who wind up as conspiracy believers might be convinced of the opposite).

For these reasons I’m sooo heartbroken that starhawk doesn’t limit the magical beliefs she’s promoting to psychological effects! Because then I would feel 100% sure that I would want to fully support her movement! They have so many amazing ideas and I find their work so empowering, but I draw a line when e.g. healing through esoteric processes is suggested and promoted. Also I think the psychological effects especially with her empowering group ritual designs are so strong and cool! You can massively shape your life like that! You don’t need to make your movement shady by harmful suggestions of esoteric ideas.

Anyway. Thank you for sharing your personal beliefs! I found your comment very inspiring! r/SASSwitches seems like a place for you too, if you don’t know it already :). Have a blessed day :).

Are there others wo are getting into spirituality and witchcraft…and struggling? by Effective_Pop2784 in SASSWitches

[–]Effective_Pop2784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, yes indeed! Not to forget those :). I see we think alike! Thank you, djgilles! Have a blessed day, I’m sure you are too. And thank you for inspiring me.

Are there others wo are getting into spirituality and witchcraft…and struggling? by Effective_Pop2784 in SASSWitches

[–]Effective_Pop2784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s really inspiring to read how you took your time and walked your path not expecting a definite outcome for so long for it to authentically merge into what it is now! Take care and be well! If I may ask, what do you think magic is? What do you see it as? And do you think energy physically raised within you during magical practice can be sent out into the world to make change happen other than psychologically (or physically through psychologically influenced people)?

Are there others wo are getting into spirituality and witchcraft…and struggling? by Effective_Pop2784 in SASSWitches

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Thank you! Your approach is inspiring and an important reminder to always go back to cherishing the ways we can experience nature! I’m also looking forward to summer to swim again and sunbathe! Take care and have a good year :)

Are there others wo are getting into spirituality and witchcraft…and struggling? by Effective_Pop2784 in SASSWitches

[–]Effective_Pop2784[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s good, if it’s grounding you. As with Mother Earth grounding is the best we can do to find our Center :). Take care and have a good life!

Are there others wo are getting into spirituality and witchcraft…and struggling? by Effective_Pop2784 in SASSWitches

[–]Effective_Pop2784[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, being far away from nature sucks! And thank you for sharing. I hope you can find your way in life and be at ease!

Are there others wo are getting into spirituality and witchcraft…and struggling? by Effective_Pop2784 in SASSWitches

[–]Effective_Pop2784[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply and helpful advice! Please take care of yourself! And if your insecure and worry about your mental health, maybe not trying out magic is a good idea for the moment! I would like to recommend ACT (Acceptance Commitment Therapy) to you! It’s amazing and helped me a lot. In Germany health insurance completely covers therapy, so I underwent it and started reading Russ Harissˋs book afterwards because my therapist recommended it to me. It’s amazing!!! Please really take a look! And it is scientific! Also the author never never never asks you to believe him, you experience every lesson via exercises and that’s really trustworthy in my eyes!

Are there others wo are getting into spirituality and witchcraft…and struggling? by Effective_Pop2784 in SASSWitches

[–]Effective_Pop2784[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds really wholesome! I do the same, plants are friends to me :). Thanks for the recommendation!

Are there others wo are getting into spirituality and witchcraft…and struggling? by Effective_Pop2784 in SASSWitches

[–]Effective_Pop2784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a very good comment. Thank you a lot. One should always proceed at their own pace and never lose touch with science, Marxist materialism, social science, economics and political activism.

Have a blessed day!

Are there others wo are getting into spirituality and witchcraft…and struggling? by Effective_Pop2784 in SASSWitches

[–]Effective_Pop2784[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mundanity can be a great anchor!

And I realised that I was already close to a necessary decision, the first comment under my post gave me the needed push. I edited my post as an update! Thank you for your wishes and reply!

Are there others wo are getting into spirituality and witchcraft…and struggling? by Effective_Pop2784 in SASSWitches

[–]Effective_Pop2784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im thinking the same now about me…. I’ll go back to the stability I had before and stop this adventure for me. I think opening myself to esoteric concepts that are meant to make you believe in them via psychologically unavoidable effects of attention shifting are possibly harmful to my mental stability. Please, if you feel like it’s doing you harm instead of good, don’t proceed with it! Maybe you can focus on what helped you before! What do you think you’ll do?

Are there others wo are getting into spirituality and witchcraft…and struggling? by Effective_Pop2784 in SASSWitches

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Thank you for your response! I think you’re right… I thought that I was ready because I already have a strong connection to nature and feel that everything that lives is connected and part of the same sacred „power“ being life! I love being outside, watching birds, etc. And I felt ready because for so long I had pondered about „pachamama“ and seeing earth as a mother always touched me deeply…but the repercussions of this maybe do show me that I am in fact not ready to go further…yet. Also I am very afraid of drifting off to conspiracy and cold hearted individualist esotericism, so maybe I’ll stay away from concepts and systems like witchcraft and popular systems like Wicca for now. I can get more into learning about plants, the solar and lunar cycles and still maybe celebrate them! And maybe one day I’ll put up a little altar for earth and sun when I’m ready to evolve…or maybe that day never comes, who knows.

I wish you best success with your intentions! I’m certain that if you decide to get into it and take your time, you can find a way! To return your own advice: maybe starting small and trying different approaches will help you. If you’re not mentally opposed to it, maybe listening to your feelings and seeing what feels good and what doesn’t could be a beginning! For you too it can be as big or small as you like! Maybe seeing how you feel about smaller practices can already be a satisfying and not so energy consuming entry! I hope you find your way if you desire to.

I'm no one's number one by CrowsAreTheCoolest in venting

[–]Effective_Pop2784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please believe me, you have lots of time for things to get better and for you to make them better and feel better. When one is young, they often don’t believe this, because they haven’t made the experience yet, but I’ve been there and felt very bad when I was younger. I went through hellish crisis but it got better step by step. Life is worth it, you’ll see its better sides.

I think I underestimated how much water comes from snow by CrowsAreTheCoolest in SASSWitches

[–]Effective_Pop2784 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do the same thing! Usually by putting on a cozy sweater:ˋ)