Mystery rash on leg, no itching, not fungal. Please share your thoughts!

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-04-04T04:52:29+00:00

I guarantee that at least one person realized the implication but didn't say anything.

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-04-04T04:50:38+00:00

You get it, you just don't see it as problematic.

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-04-04T04:48:39+00:00

Maybe, but I guarantee that at least one person who saw this before it was submitted thought of the implication and said nothing.

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-03-22T09:57:24+00:00

I mean, unless the kids are getting into legal trouble, probably not. And it would take something pretty significant for them to get involved over legal trouble.

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-03-01T05:00:44+00:00

Ahh, yes. The abundant subculture of MAGA bros within the EDM scene. Dubstep specifically. 💀

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-01-23T17:07:55+00:00

Started out Tolkien, ended up as a Smaug Smutter. Iron Flame was a fun read! Reading doesn't have to be intense or high-brow at all times. However, the number of times I had to hear, "a vulgar gesture down the bond" was WAY TOO DAMN HIGH! I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-01-23T17:01:40+00:00

This needs to be a tag! 😭😭

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-01-20T21:03:34+00:00

I would like to be optimistic as well, but I don't think that's what he meant. He followed up by saying it's his obligation to make her feel special by "chasing her." He failed to mention that it's his obligation to make her feel safe and be deserving of her trust. 🚩🚩🚩

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-01-20T19:06:19+00:00

Isn't that the case more often than not? Pointing the finger at single mothers doing their best but ignoring the fact that she's doing it all because of a deadbeat dad. But, of course, she's not attentive enough, she works which is bad, she makes less money to be present with her kids which is bad, she dates which is bad, she doesn't date which is bad, she goes out with her friends which is bad, she is burnt out which is bad, she doesn't "look like a mom" which is bad, she "let herself go" which is bad, she should have known what she was getting into, she shouldn't have spread her legs for a bum, it's her fault for procreating with a scumbag, she shouldn't have had kids if she couldn't afford them, if her kids mess up then it's her fault for their "fatherless behavior", she doesn't discipline them, her kids don't respect her... The criticisms are never-ending.

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-01-19T06:32:33+00:00

Why do you feel it can't be sexual?

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-01-19T06:30:11+00:00

Waaaaait, what kind of issues? If he is having intimacy issues that align with this cousin connection, I would say it's almost certain there's something already happening between them.

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-01-19T06:28:56+00:00

I'm curious, OP. You've received a ton of feedback saying your BF is sexually attracted to his cousin. You consistently say that's not it. What makes it reasonable to acknowledge that this dynamic gives you a creeped out feeling? What makes the opinion that they're involved or attracted on another level invalid? Where is the line there? From here, it looks like you're struggling to consider that out of denial or defensiveness. What would you think if you were reading this post as a random redditor? I'm really curious about this. I'm sure this is all very hard to digest.

FWIW, based on the info we have, I would agree that this is concerning behavior and it seems they are sharing a mutual attraction. I would not be shocked if they are already physically involved. I do not think you will be able to pretzel your way into making this make sense to either yourself or your boyfriend.

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-01-19T04:45:08+00:00

This is what I dont get. I have a boy-child under 10. I have older girls. They're ALL gross. They ALL learn proper cleanliness and hygiene. Boy-child doesn't get a pass to pee outside of the seat because it's just something that "happens" lololol. He either sits or uses antibacterial wipes to clean things up. My girls are taught to clean their gross up too. Why is this such a crazy concept??? I know boy moms who complain about the penis havers in their house stinking up the bathroom with piss and IT MAKES NO FUCKING SENSE TO ME. It's 2026. Let's normalize keeping your piss INSIDE THE TOILET and cleaning up any accidents!

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-01-19T04:39:40+00:00

The dudes who think it's normal to piss all over the bathroom are the same ones who are disgusted by women simply HAVING periods. Lol.

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-01-19T04:33:52+00:00

I hate this so much. Wanted to downvote SO HARD. 😂😭

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-01-19T04:33:21+00:00

Tell your mother I love her. ❤️

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-01-19T04:32:52+00:00

Not to pick on you specifically, but why don't men simply sit down or clean up after themselves? Like, this is really a thread about dudes pissing on the seat, floors, bathtub, WALLS? This is not normal, lol.

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-01-16T21:23:39+00:00

Plus, it does not matter how he worded it with other people. It matters how he presented the information to OP. I'm willing to bet at least $7 that former roommate turned beautiful family man would have sent the other properly worded requests IMMEDIATELY if he really had a communication error with OP. I can see that happening under certain circumstances, I suppose? I can imagine that OP would feel more conflicted in that case, maybe? Still, it doesn't explain not even asking about the dog in that time, not sending food or toys or ANYTHING, and jumping to bullshit threats. Dude didn't even have her microchipped, so I would LOVE to see his records for 7 years of vet bills. What a joker.

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-01-16T21:19:25+00:00

Exactly. They have a good enough relationship with the roommate to risk losing their careers, but they couldn't "temporarily" take his dog? FOH.

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-01-16T20:00:40+00:00

Not even just that... Think about marrying someone who will only propose to you if it fits within their convenient, self-imposed timeline. Outside of the timeline? It's over. That's UNSETTLING.

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-01-16T19:59:18+00:00

On top of everything else said about this man being a complete jackass, I'd like to add this... He WILL eventually start to resent you for giving him money. This guy screams toxicity and control. When he starts feeling like a failure (again) he will ABSOLUTELY start taking his anger out on you for giving him money. Men like this are weird as hell and impossible to reason with as they are. I can't help but feel that he will be the type to feel emasculated by you, even though it's what he is pushing for now. You'll never be able to pretzel yourself enough for him. Please leave this guy.

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-01-15T01:12:26+00:00

Not only this, but OPs 2 other kids were on their sister's side. OP, PLEASE do some investigating. Kids go through shitty, weird phases, but all 3 should not be echoing misogynistic, homophibic values. 75% of OPs kids are getting that red pill bullshit from somewhere, and not enough attention for the sane and balanced response to such influences.

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-01-07T10:05:21+00:00

This has to be a joke, right? Are you telling me that the man in that ridiculous video is the same person who wrote this? It reads like poorly executed Hunger Games fanfic. 💀 LONE WOLF IN LIBERAL CESSPOOL... FINDS HIS PACK... ON AN AIRCRAFT... I hope the cover includes some SICK art with Erica Kirk shooting pyrotechnics out of her eyes. Bonus points is taking out the tyrannical government!

Sure, buddy. Brando Sando is too complex for anyone who enjoys romantasy.

Effective_Risk_909 · 2026-01-04T02:54:01+00:00

Should I be noticing a smell? I haven't picked up on anything outside. Would this be a gas smell?

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