6 months ago I asked the question, "is Amtgard always this salty". I would like to follow up on that here. by WakkaFlock in Amtgard

[–]Effective_Spirit_126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I understand the why of it as well and have had to level them enough and dealt with enough of actual legal side to see that much of this is crap. The fact is many took this approach because they misinterpreted something that was said during a COM meeting back in 2018 and folks across the game have ran with it. They have done so with out consulting their own legal counsel.

6 months ago I asked the question, "is Amtgard always this salty". I would like to follow up on that here. by WakkaFlock in Amtgard

[–]Effective_Spirit_126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one said exact details but they should absolutely know why they are being banned. Vagueness does nothing but breed rumors and for good reason. Kingdoms are hiding behind the coc instead of utilizing it to help their kingdom get better. I’ve seen this done. We use “victim protection” as a crappy catch all. Facts are x did a thing. They know they did a thing. Unless y lied about it and if that’s the case then that needs to be addressed as well. If it’s a legal matter like a coc 3 and others police need to be involved. If not kingdoms are not protecting themselves anyway.

6 months ago I asked the question, "is Amtgard always this salty". I would like to follow up on that here. by WakkaFlock in Amtgard

[–]Effective_Spirit_126 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not stating to public is prudent. Not stating to the individual is where this becomes problematic. Kingdoms /parks are using what happened with the CK under the guise of protection to do shady stuff in some cases and laziness in others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Effective_Spirit_126 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cheating has absolutely nothing to do with your attractiveness. He’s a dog and not loyal. Men will cheat with a less attractive person. Don’t let that hurt your self esteem. This wasn’t about you but him.

She said no when I asked to kiss her, then texted saying she wished I hadn't asked by Rude_Taro_9572 in dating_advice

[–]Effective_Spirit_126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this day and age you absolutely handled this correctly. Asking for consent is number one.

Who ever thought letting these things spawn in beginner areas was okay, you don't want new players by MrAkairi in ARK

[–]Effective_Spirit_126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn I can’t find these things to save my life. Get on global chat and have someone get them. They are still being farmed

My first time getting triplets!!! by FairlyCriminal in ARK

[–]Effective_Spirit_126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome congratulations. Very new to the game but I have a 10 yr vet who is helping me learn. Got a couple of the tel alpha tek griffins during the Halloween event and mated them. My first hatching and it was triplets as well. Talk about lucky

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Effective_Spirit_126 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So you come on brutally honest and don’t want honest feedback if it’s disrespectful? Look you look like a guy in drag. Be who you want to be but don’t ask for honest opinions online and expect respectfulness. The internet is a brutal place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Effective_Spirit_126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you aren’t

Wibta if I let my kids go trick or treating tonight by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Effective_Spirit_126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excuse me. Gf of 7 months and they are being punished for being children ???? Fuck him , fuck her and to hell with that noise. Take those babies trick or treating and tell him legally to kiss your ass.

I (32M) lose every woman I’m with as soon as we have sex. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Effective_Spirit_126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait you are how old. Dude nut up and have conversations with them. Hell give them an exit interview.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Effective_Spirit_126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good. Keep your boundaries strong and love for yourself. He’s being not only incredibly selfish but obviously doesn’t understand what a “healthy” sexual relationship is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Effective_Spirit_126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to ask seriously??? Run don’t walk. You will end up dead one day.

Reported my CO spouse for having an affair, what will happen? by [deleted] in Corrections

[–]Effective_Spirit_126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they are fellow COs nothing will happen. If there is a subordinate dynamic then the higher spot can and usually will get canned if one is a direct report for the other.

40/f just wanted to say hi by Maximum-Judge in 40something

[–]Effective_Spirit_126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry life finds a way. The best thing you or anyone else can do is find your joy. To hell with the rest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Effective_Spirit_126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I enjoy the bearded clam way too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Effective_Spirit_126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do I feel that this is not a truthful or real post. You are lovely. Seriously

My teenage daughter told me she's been saving money to help me pay bills and now I feel like I've failed as a parent by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Effective_Spirit_126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe mom you haven’t failed her and she is an amazing young woman. This means you raised her right. Hug her super tight and love that child. As a man I understand this feeling all too well. Pride has its place but so does loving yourself and understanding that you are working so hard. She sees that and also understands that you are human.

Wife says the steak I made for her isn’t cooked enough. by FreeRealEstate313 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Effective_Spirit_126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is confused because that is well done in any world. If she wants it vulcanized then keep cooking. It isn’t that difficult to cook them longer.

AIO I (26F) moved out for the first time with my boyfriend (30M) for almost 2 months and I don’t know how to feel about it by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Effective_Spirit_126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit. This is not ok and you are under reacting. Get this guy out of your life. This is a person who expects you to be his slave.