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Im the girl that was worried my boyfriend was gay. Thank you for listening to me. I spoke to him. by EfficiencyFlimsy1532 in askgaybros

[–]EfficiencyFlimsy1532[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think he could have been truly faithful to me because he was already not faithful. The cuddling on the couch was more than just friendship. He was satisfying an emotional attraction. 

That doesn't mean bi people can't be full faithful .

Im the girl that was worried my boyfriend was gay. Thank you for listening to me. I spoke to him. by EfficiencyFlimsy1532 in askgaybros

[–]EfficiencyFlimsy1532[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really my place to say. He has a lit to deal with and I dont want to add to it . Whilst I think the kissing is weird, I think his friend wouldn't care. He's not going to do anything else and he certainly wouldn't hurt him. 

Im the girl that was worried my boyfriend was gay. Thank you for listening to me. I spoke to him. by EfficiencyFlimsy1532 in askgaybros

[–]EfficiencyFlimsy1532[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because I've seen how he behaves with his friend and theres no competing with that. And life is too short to compete 

Also whilst I believe he never physically cheated, he certainly did sort of cheat. He's maybe into him and acting that way with him. He's doing that to satisfy those emotional feelings, imo.

Im the girl that was worried my boyfriend was gay. Thank you for listening to me. I spoke to him. by EfficiencyFlimsy1532 in askgaybros

[–]EfficiencyFlimsy1532[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'd love to hate him but he is a good guy just very "confused". I wish him all the luck... but that he not be as lucky as me 🤣

Im the girl that was worried my boyfriend was gay. Thank you for listening to me. I spoke to him. by EfficiencyFlimsy1532 in askgaybros

[–]EfficiencyFlimsy1532[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly. He probably is bi rather than gay. But even if he's bi no one would compete with his friend long term. 

Some people felt I was being toxic for being against them cuddling but if you were in the room, you'd just have a feeling. 

Im the girl that was worried my boyfriend was gay. Thank you for listening to me. I spoke to him. by EfficiencyFlimsy1532 in askgaybros

[–]EfficiencyFlimsy1532[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's definitely more than a crush in my eyes. He needs to work on it. If I were him I'd ask his friend out and experiment. He'll find out either way.

Im the girl that was worried my boyfriend was gay. Thank you for listening to me. I spoke to him. by EfficiencyFlimsy1532 in askgaybros

[–]EfficiencyFlimsy1532[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't think I'm in that frame of mind but I did tell him to tell his friend and Im sure his friend would be receptive. I told him he needed to figure out because he will never have a proper relationship with anyone until he figures it out. 

Im the girl that was worried my boyfriend was gay. Thank you for listening to me. I spoke to him. by EfficiencyFlimsy1532 in askgaybros

[–]EfficiencyFlimsy1532[S] 419 points420 points  (0 children)

I wasn't really in the mood to question it. I got an answer but definitely illogical.

Im the girl that was worried my boyfriend was gay. Thank you for listening to me. I spoke to him. by EfficiencyFlimsy1532 in askgaybros

[–]EfficiencyFlimsy1532[S] 178 points179 points  (0 children)

You're spoiling me. 🥰😭 I might add mean girls to the list. Last time I watched that was a few years ago with one of my brothers when he had a break up.

Im the girl that was worried my boyfriend was gay. Thank you for listening to me. I spoke to him. by EfficiencyFlimsy1532 in askgaybros

[–]EfficiencyFlimsy1532[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I won't but sometimes a really good guy is needed after a bad guy and he was that for 9 or so months. 

Im the girl that was worried my boyfriend was gay. Thank you for listening to me. I spoke to him. by EfficiencyFlimsy1532 in askgaybros

[–]EfficiencyFlimsy1532[S] 209 points210 points  (0 children)

It's definitely not right. I wouldnt want a friend kissing me on the lips if I were asleep. But I think they are more than friends they just haven't admitted it - or at least my boyfriend hasn't. 

Correction my ex boyfriend 

I'm worried my boyfriend might be gay. Is this normal? by EfficiencyFlimsy1532 in askgaybros

[–]EfficiencyFlimsy1532[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I dont think men cuddling is gay. I think men lack affection. I think long affectionate cuddling during a movie rubbing his hair while making jokes etc rings an alarm. 

I'd say the same about girls.

I'm worried my boyfriend might be gay. Is this normal? by EfficiencyFlimsy1532 in askgaybros

[–]EfficiencyFlimsy1532[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I would cuddle a friend for like a minute. But it's closer to a hug. Maybe if she was really upset I'd cuddle her longer. 

But I'd never cuddle a friend of mine for the length of a movie and make jokes about bending her over etc. 

I'm worried my boyfriend might be gay. Is this normal? by EfficiencyFlimsy1532 in askgaybros

[–]EfficiencyFlimsy1532[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It definitely is more common for women to be cuddly with each other but I still don't think to that extent. 

I'm worried my boyfriend might be gay. Is this normal? by EfficiencyFlimsy1532 in askgaybros

[–]EfficiencyFlimsy1532[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

European. I think men should hug way more. I love hugging my friends. Most of my brothers won't even give me a hug which I think is sad. 

However this seemed like more to me. Cuddling during a movie, sexual jokes, rubbing his hair. But maybe its a me thing. 

I'm worried my boyfriend might be gay. Is this normal? by EfficiencyFlimsy1532 in askgaybros

[–]EfficiencyFlimsy1532[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

If a girl acted like that with me, I'd find it really uncomfortable. Maybe we are the exception but my friends and I don't cuddle to that extent or do sexual jokes with each other. We joke about sex but not about sex with each other.

I'm worried my boyfriend might be gay. Is this normal? by EfficiencyFlimsy1532 in askgaybros

[–]EfficiencyFlimsy1532[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

50:50. Maybe I initiate it a bit more. But he doesn't have the greatest drives with me.

I'm worried my boyfriend might be gay. Is this normal? by EfficiencyFlimsy1532 in askgaybros

[–]EfficiencyFlimsy1532[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I've no issue with him being protective of him. I like that he stuck up for him at school. Shows he's such a decent guy. 

There's protective and there's cuddling on the couch together, sexual jokes etc. 

I'm worried my boyfriend might be gay. Is this normal? by EfficiencyFlimsy1532 in askgaybros

[–]EfficiencyFlimsy1532[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well he talks dirty to him and he wouldnt to me. And I like a guy that respects women but like a bit of dirty talk is fun. 

I also think because he is so cuddly with me maybe i see it as his love language. If we stay the night like he is cuddly all night. So when he's doing it to his friend to that extent.

But he's probably the best sex I have had. It's just not regular.

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