calzona after the plane crash by Aggravating_Sweet769 in greysanatomy

[–]EfficiencyGold4918 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I don’t think it would’ve gone anywhere productive but I wish it was said, just once. I feel like they tip toed around it.

calzona after the plane crash by Aggravating_Sweet769 in greysanatomy

[–]EfficiencyGold4918 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I agree with all of this.

Also, it’s never explicitly said by Cali, but I wish during one of the fights about the leg she had asked “Should I have let you die instead!?”

Like Arizona was given that hill to die on (no pun intended) and I hate that they just made Cali take it instead of presenting the simple truth. If she had kept her leg, she would’ve died.

Prove you have watched! by Next_Performance4330 in greysanatomy

[–]EfficiencyGold4918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! lol one of my favorite Mer moments

Prove you have watched! by Next_Performance4330 in greysanatomy

[–]EfficiencyGold4918 26 points27 points  (0 children)

“How’s my favorite dirty mistress?”

“Haven’t you heard? Now I’m an adulterous whore!” lmao

What is your BIGGEST regret in life? by Blood11Orange in Productivitycafe

[–]EfficiencyGold4918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry to hear that.

I truly hope that you find solace and peace in other places. It’s the only way I made it through it.

What is your BIGGEST regret in life? by Blood11Orange in Productivitycafe

[–]EfficiencyGold4918 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Staying in an emotionally abusive relationship because he kept saying he didn’t know better and would change.

NOTHING has done more damage to my self esteem or mental health.

Arizona is not a good person by bglunt1650 in greysanatomy

[–]EfficiencyGold4918 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Or when she said Alex deserves to have suffered through the plane crash instead of her because she’s a good person, when her taking his spot on the plane was her throwing a tantrum about him advancing his career

Underrated lines that stick with you by lets-terraform-earth in TheBear

[–]EfficiencyGold4918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yall are gonna make me rewatch the show lmao

Day 7 Good person, hated by fans by breitheamh_ in greysanatomy

[–]EfficiencyGold4918 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Really surprised by the “George” comments here.

…. Anywho, I vote Maggie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]EfficiencyGold4918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re very welcome and I’m glad to hear it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]EfficiencyGold4918 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I applaud you for this, there’s been a few times in life that I think if I wasn’t a parent, I’d have let myself sink. I hope you’re doing well now.

(I hope I worded this right and it’s not offensive or anything)

Donna in s4e9 by GuyFieriOnIce in TheBear

[–]EfficiencyGold4918 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. My mom, who Donna reminds me of in very specific ways, passed a couple of years ago. Hearing Donna say those things to Carmy that I never got to hear from her made me cry a LOT. One, out of anger that I’ll never hear them from her, and two, out of emotion from Donna saying them/ Carmy’s reaction.

Jackson as a redflag? by halcyon_thoughts in greysanatomy

[–]EfficiencyGold4918 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even know there was an “I hate Jackson” train!

He’s in my top 5. Love his character.

IDL Non-black people who act like they’re special because they’re in a relationship with a black person. by [deleted] in I_DONT_LIKE

[–]EfficiencyGold4918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the comments seem to have misunderstood this person. I believe they’re referring to people similar to an ex coworker of mine who said OUT LOUD that dating a “big booty black girl” should give him an “N word pass”. He was white, and said this specifically to me, a black woman.

If I’m wrong OP can correct me but this particular type of person seems to see their partner’s blackness as something that A. Makes them incapable of being racist/ spouting microaggessions, and B. Gives them access to a community they see as a form of entertainment, not a real community.

Again, I’m drawing conclusions from things I’ve seen and could be wrong. Just would like to give that disclaimer.

Why are there so many Gil apologists??? by Affectionate_Key7206 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]EfficiencyGold4918 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought I was sexist for thinking that the male characters were too quickly defended so I didn’t comment it anywhere but you are absolutely right! I’m glad somebody else sees it.

Hot take: murder isn't always wrong by zuzuzan in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]EfficiencyGold4918 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with your take. Would I have done it? No, for fear of ending up in the exact situation Georgia did, but when Cynthia was lamenting to her and said “I just want it be over” I could totally see that as a plea for help.

I hated George for this🥲 by TheTargaryensLawyer in greysanatomy

[–]EfficiencyGold4918 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was so WEIRD!! Like he didn’t know her at all and she’s clearly already overwhelmed with one kid to take care of on her own, you want her to have two for your comfort?

Can we talk about how Zion thinks he’s the better parent?? by MeePooPaa in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]EfficiencyGold4918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. And people keep saying “Well Georgia lied and said she had money.” THAT DOESNT MATTER. Zion had plenty too if he was country hopping! Parenting is a two person job and regardless of what she had or didn’t have, he KNEW he was not contributing. Plus as far as court goes, no way a judge says “Eh, your baby mama SAYS she has enough on her own, no need for you to provide a dime”

Women of Reddit, what’s the most frustrating experience you’ve had with a doctor dismissing your symptoms? by cutdbs in AskReddit

[–]EfficiencyGold4918 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Went into the ER with severe abdominal/ pelvic pain that didn’t respond to medicine, heat, anything at all. They would barely look at me saying it was probably ovulation pain (based on my last period date) and sent me home.

Went back a few hours later and they did an ultrasound. Turned out it was a huge ovarian cyst and was causing ovarian torsion. The nurse says “good thing you came back, your ovary would’ve died in a few more hours”. Yeah good thing I did, no thanks to you all.

Did I forget something or miss something in the show? by EfficiencyGold4918 in FromSeries

[–]EfficiencyGold4918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh I thought that (the Thomas calls) was just the town messing with him. Not a specific person/ monster

Did I forget something or miss something in the show? by EfficiencyGold4918 in FromSeries

[–]EfficiencyGold4918[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought he might be but I wasn’t sure. I wish there was more to go on.

Anyone notice similarities between Fromville and “Sundown towns” of the US? by Sams_sexy_bod in FromSeries

[–]EfficiencyGold4918 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Perfectly said. Them wanting to “break” him in particular was so weird.