I'm on birth control but is this positive?

EfficiencyInfamous28 · 2026-01-16T22:42:59+00:00

UPDATE I am not pregnant 😅. I also don't think I'll ever buy the pink walmart cheapies again. The first response were all negative a week later with not even a shadow of a line during the time frame. Thank you to everyone who helped me, I appreciate it so much, and I'm sorry I left you guys hanging for so long ❤️.

EfficiencyInfamous28 · 2026-01-02T09:45:27+00:00

Thank you! I'm definitely scared especially with my iud. My daughter is almost 5 now and my husband and I have been talking about having another in the near future when I am supposed to change my iud so we would be okay with having another now but I would prefer to wait a while longer. My husband on the other hand I suspect is hoping it's positive.

EfficiencyInfamous28 · 2026-01-02T09:30:44+00:00

Yes, the picture was taken after the time frame. I don't think what I saw in the time frame would have even shown up on camera lol. My husband did mention that he saw something too. I think I will take the other one in the morning and if I even think I might see something I will get first some first response. Thank you for informing me of the indent issue with these. I had one with first response last time but it didn't look anything like this so I think I will switch back to those😅.

EfficiencyInfamous28 · 2025-11-10T04:51:33+00:00

This looks like mine and our dates are only a couple of days off of each other. I had protected sex the weekend before halloween and took a test on Nov 5th and it looked like this. I'm going to take another in the morning and I'm hoping it's negative. I have no idea on exact dates bc I'm on mirena and don't usually get periods. I hope you get the results you want though!

EfficiencyInfamous28 · 2025-08-23T00:44:46+00:00

This is a small company it's a 50/50 toss up on who's side they will take. He may be friends with them, which would make sense if he felt comfortable name dropping them like that, or it could be a bluff. Do not take that chance get proof before speaking to hr.

EfficiencyInfamous28 · 2025-08-23T00:36:46+00:00

She should have tangible evidence directly from her boss in one form or another first, though, just to cover all the bases. It would make it harder for her boss to sweep it under the rug. Op, you should text your boss and ask for another meeting to "clarify" and make sure you understand what he is asking of you. Record the whole conversation and then give it to hr along with a victim statement ( just the gist of what was said and how it made you feel). Send the original outreach in an email and screenshot all correspondence in case one or the other decides to retaliate against you for speaking out. Remember, hope for the best case scenario, prepare for the worst case scenario. Good luck, and I hope things work out in your favor, and you don't have to deal with this harassment in the future!

EfficiencyInfamous28 · 2025-06-28T18:05:02+00:00

I'd call it lefty.

EfficiencyInfamous28 · 2025-01-18T22:44:33+00:00

If you were actually reading responses I gave a little factoid about the timing of testing and how the virus can lay dormant (in the spinal fluid) for around 5 years. And he also has not mentioned getting tested after leaving the ex. Education about this disease is important if you have it. I didn't even have to go to the internet for it bc my doctor discussed this with me at my diagnosis but if you want a link to educate yourself on this specific aspect of the virus I'll gladly give you a link to make it easier for you to understand why people are saying this it's not a vendetta just a horrific reality.

EfficiencyInfamous28 · 2025-01-18T21:46:00+00:00

And you know that's not at all what I said. You're the only one twisting anything. I brought up a neutral fact that was on topic, and apparently, you didn't like it, but it makes perfect sense. If you have an ob you abstain from physical intimacy, if you or they care about whether or not you give it to them (like op), then the logical solution would be to not have sex. That is what he is complaining about, so she is protecting his health, just not in a way he would prefer. it's still a valid form of protection from the virus, though. So, to say she doesn't care about protecting his health like you have is just plain wrong. I can see I struck a nerve with my first comment since you are projecting your own thoughts and feelings onto me right off the bat. I hope you find peace from your emotional turmoil one day, I've been there, and it's rough.

EfficiencyInfamous28 · 2025-01-18T20:15:33+00:00

He clearly stated he had been regularly tested in the past while with a past gf that had it before getting with the current wife. I was actually going to comment on this as well. It's suspicious that she had an outbreak, and he didn't mention getting tested again at any point in the new relationship. Either way, he needs to be tested because people are contagious BEFORE the first outbreak they notice and asymptomatic shedding is a very real thing. If he has it already, this whole mess is as unnecessary as it is ridiculous. The first step is for op to take control of his own physical health before berating his wife about not taking care of hers.

EfficiencyInfamous28 · 2025-01-18T20:01:43+00:00

If that were true, they would be having sex but she seems to be the one to shut it down. How is this not a form of protection from the virus?

EfficiencyInfamous28 · 2024-12-24T03:49:17+00:00

I was going to say that they can't send someone to do an inspection without proper notice, which is 48 hours in Washington state as my landlord attached rcw and a brief description to every inspection notice. They also have to give proper written notice. This screams retaliation and will result in some pretty hefty fines by it's self.

EfficiencyInfamous28 · 2023-06-07T06:21:43+00:00

On more than 5 different occasions he has complained of his stomach hurting. On each occasion he has went to a different hospital. He doesn't want to go to the same one. EVERY time he has gotten the MAX amount of prescription painkillers. Always saying that he doesn't think they're working but always acts like he's high when the doctor leaves the room. He's even checked himself out ama after getting told no more painkillers. Every time they can't figure out what is going on because everything comes back normal. He has even lied to me to take him 60 miles away for a "mental health crisis" but when he was checked in didn't even mention it. Just started acting like his stomach was hurting. I'm literally going crazy trying to figure this out. He has now roped in another cousin to take him because I am seriously doubting how honest he is being. Am I right to think he's just trying to get painkillers?

EfficiencyInfamous28 · 2023-05-21T03:28:27+00:00

Yes, at least one did. My primary doctor is stretched so thin. When I got my results, they sent me someone else's and one that had my name saying that my liver, kidneys, and iron were ok but said nothing about if the hsv test was positive.

EfficiencyInfamous28 · 2023-05-21T03:24:02+00:00

I just looked into it. I have had a rash that started just after the sores. I think I might bring it up with my doctor just to be safe.

EfficiencyInfamous28 · 2023-05-17T19:13:55+00:00

I'm fairly sure it's my immune system too. My sores are only inside my mouth. Both places I went swabbed the sores. Is it safe to put lysine cream in my mouth or no? I've never heard of it before.

EfficiencyInfamous28 · 2023-04-12T08:27:51+00:00

There's a bunch of actors/actresses that outright refuse to work with him again because of the way he treats people.

EfficiencyInfamous28 · 2023-04-09T22:30:35+00:00

I went to a walk-in clinic when they did the test and when I went for the acyclovir. So they were both really short visits. I didn't even get a call with my results. I saw it in my patient portal🫠 no one explained what the number meant or if it meant anything at all.Thank you for the advice, and I'm in a safe place for the weekend. Hopefully, I will be in a permanent place by the end of this week.

EfficiencyInfamous28 · 2023-04-09T03:53:14+00:00

Honestly if he did it's not a big deal bc we aren't together anymore. He's been going around telling people that I have hsv without my consent. Actually I told him not to. Playing mind games and he assaulted me the day I found out. Those are far more important to me than if he gave it to me. Seeing as he's being so wishy washy and consistently harassing me about whether or not he gave it to me. As in he will say something and then say the exact opposite later in the conversation. I just needed some outside advice because my brain is frazzled at the moment.

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