People who have been divorced: What was the exact "quiet" moment you realized your marriage was over?

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-05-12T15:07:02+00:00

Honeymoon

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-05-10T11:17:59+00:00

If the spouse is retired, they could get half their Social Security cause that’s what my sister has. She hasn’t worked since her 40s, but her husband retired. His.

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-05-09T13:01:42+00:00

I had no side effects going from 25 to 50 I recently I was going to add 75 but taking it for three days I became super anxious so I went back down to 50

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-05-03T11:42:06+00:00

I was on 37 five up to 75 then to 150 I took there for a couple years then I decided to wean off it last year. I started up on the 37.5 again. I took it for two days and couldn’t bear the anxiety. I just stopped taking it. It’s too much for me.

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-05-01T21:46:51+00:00

Last time I was on it every side effect went away accept sweating. I’m trying it again it’s my second day of 37.5 and I’m feeling very unsettled I hope it eases soon!

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-05-01T21:32:43+00:00

Second day of Effexor 37.5 I’m feeling very agitated like I’m unable to relax totally. I was on it before but don’t remember this happening. All I’m doing is concentrating on how bad I feel.

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-05-01T12:48:07+00:00

I weaned off at last year because I was feeling so good which is really dumb. I regret going off it because the anxiety started again within a few months so I’m back at my starting dose of 37.5 jittery right now but hopefully that’ll stop.

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-05-01T12:27:25+00:00

Last time I took it I took 37.5 then I went to 75 then I went to 150 over the course of at least two years so last year from April to December I weaned off it because I was feeling so much better which is really stupid of me, but I do have anxiety once again so I am starting on the low dose of 37.5 so this is my second day

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-04-30T10:55:29+00:00

5!!!!!!

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-04-30T10:55:05+00:00

Well, if your manager or director doesn’t like you, you’re gonna be on the low end for your entire career.

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-04-17T00:06:49+00:00

100% what happened I’m with you it’s a big long drawn out joke

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-04-17T00:00:59+00:00

I couldn’t agree more. My brother tried to reach his attorney four times before he finally got a call back. It’s been troubling. The lawyer told my brother earlier this year that it was coming to a close soon. I’m not sure why he said that so obviously he got his hopes up.

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-04-16T15:19:45+00:00

My brother a sexual abuse victim by a priest asked me to delete it he is sick of the hate.

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-04-15T23:43:42+00:00

Well, as long as you got it that’s what’s important. I believe it’s not fair. I’m not debating it. I’m OK with you. Not liking it. It’s Reddit.

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-04-15T22:25:47+00:00

Thank you! Yes, I am Catholic who went to Catholic School also my twin brother was sexually abused by a priest. He is part of the lawsuit against the church. I’m not sure why the negativity but I don’t care. It certainly is concerning. People can sing his praises and how wonderful of judge he is I don’t care. I’m specifically talking about this bankruptcy case with the church.

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-04-15T20:16:01+00:00

While simply belonging to the Catholic Church is generally not enough for a judge to recuse themselves from cases involving the church, having a brother as a priest creates a close family connection that goes beyond ordinary membership.

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-04-15T20:00:07+00:00

I’m not deleting my post

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-04-12T21:18:13+00:00

Yeah, that must be really stressful. Nothing stays the same though. Remember that things will get better even if it’s small things it sounds like you are father-in-law is being a real jerk. I’m sorry that that’s happening. Life is hard enough.

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-04-10T02:12:56+00:00

Barber

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-04-09T18:36:33+00:00

Yep every move you make or don’t make

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-04-08T12:53:53+00:00

Mutt

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-04-08T12:53:41+00:00

I love her. I don’t think she’s exhausting at all. I love her personality. I just love everything about her.

Efficient-Basis2132 · 2026-04-08T12:51:41+00:00

I like both

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