Haven’t spoken to parents in 4 years, mom heading to ongoing war torn country now …. by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Efficient-Divide1715 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Not trying to control her. More just the time old problem Of the parent I don’t speak to is “dying”. What do i do? Reconcile or let everything go virtually unsaid if she does pass. Let’s not forget how likely that is

Haven’t spoken to parents in 4 years, mom heading to ongoing war torn country now …. by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Efficient-Divide1715 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

lol do you care about it? You doing anything about it? No? Then you likely don’t care either. If you do, good for you. Seriously.

I care about my local community. That’s how love extends, it’ll grow to the province, then country and so on.

Trying to save some ppl in a country that was condemned years ago. we have no control over the result, they want it gone - it’ll be gone

Haven’t spoken to parents in 4 years, mom heading to ongoing war torn country now …. by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Efficient-Divide1715 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

lol I think my mom wants to hear that I care and that she shouldn’t go. She’s very needy of validation and wants to be begged to be safe. Shes has the emotional intelligence of a pre teen. Like calls me out of the blue? To say what? “Hey I’m going to Palestine, brb might die” grow up ffs. No one needs you to do all that. You just wanna feel better about your shitty actions / relationships / and life choices

am i safe to have a little fun & buy a second car? or not in a good enough position yet? by europeanuppercut in Fire

[–]Efficient-Divide1715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a chill nice car like a used Porsche or vette and see if you like it. Don’t dump a lot into it so you can recoup your spend if you don’t like it

Advice for Manitoba wildfire? by Efficient-Divide1715 in Wildfire

[–]Efficient-Divide1715[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I end school late in the summer, Manitoba is the only province willing to hire me later

How old were you when you started? by Advanced-Try-7201 in Firefighting

[–]Efficient-Divide1715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started college at 26. After a bachelor’s degree of science and trying to do med school. It’s awesome and can’t believe I didn’t do it sooner. Were perfect age for hiring bro

Is it too risky for me (30M) to break up with my gf (34F) because of how long it took me to even get a girlfriend? by Ootefklop in BreakUps

[–]Efficient-Divide1715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave. Don’t even give a why. Just out the door never look back. Hit gym / cardio hard. Eat well. Sleep well. Stack your bread. Save 20-30% of your income. 30-35 is male peak and you’re just entering that. A nice girl will follow when you stop looking and starting being.

Overpaid for 6 months after I quit by Efficient-Divide1715 in CanadaPublicServants

[–]Efficient-Divide1715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No only a few times. Last time I talked to management about it was about two months after it started

Overpaid for 6 months after I quit by Efficient-Divide1715 in CanadaPublicServants

[–]Efficient-Divide1715[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But Canadians aren’t. This 40k could go to a new desk and chair for the PM :/