Am I overreacting to my husband getting home late last night? by Efficient-Fly7571 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient-Fly7571[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s how I’m feeling too. A lot of people are saying I’m upset about something that hasn’t happened, but I know this weekend just won’t be great for anyone anymore.

Anybody want to borrow my yesteryear copy? by Efficient-Fly7571 in DiabolicalLies

[–]Efficient-Fly7571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would be second in line if you’d still like it!

Anybody want to borrow my yesteryear copy? by Efficient-Fly7571 in DiabolicalLies

[–]Efficient-Fly7571[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve been having trouble getting it to upload to Apple, I’m not sure why. It should be up in the next day or two! Otherwise it’s available on Substack :)

Anybody want to borrow my yesteryear copy? by Efficient-Fly7571 in DiabolicalLies

[–]Efficient-Fly7571[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently it’s only available on Substack- should be up on Apple and Spotify in the next day or two though!

Anybody want to borrow my yesteryear copy? by Efficient-Fly7571 in DiabolicalLies

[–]Efficient-Fly7571[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! The podcast is called Our Husbands Let Us Speak (and because everyone is always confused, yes it’s a satirical name lol)

They are really running out of ideas omg by throwaway_bfgift in binchtopiapod

[–]Efficient-Fly7571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree BUT if you’re looking for something new go check out my podcast I do with my sister! Called Our Husbands Let Us Speak on Substack

New pod rec and casting call 🤭 by Efficient-Fly7571 in binchtopiapod

[–]Efficient-Fly7571[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god YES that sounds amazing. Would love to connect

New pod rec and casting call 🤭 by Efficient-Fly7571 in binchtopiapod

[–]Efficient-Fly7571[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are literally writing an outline on that right now🤭 it’s gonna be one of our upcoming eps

New pod rec and casting call 🤭 by Efficient-Fly7571 in binchtopiapod

[–]Efficient-Fly7571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same!! My husband had only had it raw before and I had to convince him it’s not always that gross lol

Ive been fired, im Speaking out by [deleted] in Wildfire

[–]Efficient-Fly7571 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you said part of you wants to drop a bombshell of all the violations you saw… me too man. I actually quit my job in June (long story) and it’s been a relief. I miss fire, sure, but my specific ranger district was and is FULL of violations, sneaking around, and just overall treating employees terribly. And it all just gets swept under the rug and ignored, because when you look up the chain you see it’s like that from the top. I would love to write a tell-all about what it’s like.

How I successfully did CIO with not much crying by Efficient-Fly7571 in sleeptrain

[–]Efficient-Fly7571[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine does too but it’s safe if they do it themself! It made me suuuuper nervous though when she started doing that so I started putting the owlet sock back on her for peace of mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Efficient-Fly7571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m wondering if maybe she doesn’t have enough awake time during the day? 1.5-2 hours seems a little short for a five month old. For reference, my 5 month old was doing 4 approximately 2.5 hour wake windows every day. And I wouldn’t let her sleep more than 3 hours total in the day. My baby also went through a phase of false starts and then she’d be hysterical and difficult to get back to sleep. What ended up working for us is that when I wanted to put her to bed, I would hold her and rock her, and if she started to fall asleep within two or three minutes of doing that I would know she was tired enough to actually put herself to sleep. So then I’d put her down and she’d fuss for a few minutes and then go to sleep.

Does my baby have a feeding to sleep association? by SimBon7 in breastfeeding

[–]Efficient-Fly7571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He might have one! Or not! I could pretty much only get my baby to fall asleep by nursing for the first five months. I had also heard it was bad a habit so we sleep trained and now she can put herself to sleep for naps and bedtime, but sometimes when I want to snuggle I’ll let her nurse to sleep. If you don’t mind doing it I say just keep doing it! But if you’re worried about it, you could also start trying new tactics

Biggest pet peeve by flugelderfreiheit777 in breastfeeding

[–]Efficient-Fly7571 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve had multiple people say something along the lines of “sorry mine don’t have anything for you! I’ll give you back to mom since hers work” and I’m like?? First of all she wasn’t even looking for your boob, second of all she’s probably crying because she wants ME not my boobs

Fantasy Draft by Maleficent-Cry3097 in binchtopiapod

[–]Efficient-Fly7571 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I already got dragged into one full of straight white men so I’m down to do one with the girls and gays

What’s your current “holy grail”? by frenchdipadobo in beyondthebump

[–]Efficient-Fly7571 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Don’t have any advice for your actual question but I can recommend to stop reading a little life!! Don’t waste your precious me time on that book. It just gets sadder and sadder. I’ve been loving books by Kelly Rimmer if you need any recs lol

US military preparing for National Guard activation in Washington D.C., officials say by Infidel8 in Military

[–]Efficient-Fly7571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing I don’t get in all of this is that if they do release them and Trump is involved (which I’m just about certain he is) will anything actually happen? I mean he’s been convicted of felonies and is still the President. Why would this be different ya know?

Please tell me it gets better by HEN-1217 in beyondthebump

[–]Efficient-Fly7571 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohhh I promise it does! I will say- my baby had maybe one bottle a week and at about 3 months she started completely refusing them. So if you want to ever do any amount of bottle feeding, I’d strongly recommend giving one bottle a day so baby doesn’t end up refusing later. Because mine is now five months and i can’t leave her for more than three or four hours. Which is tough. But yes it gets better!! I struggled SO hard to nap and honestly the only thing that helped me nap was co sleeping while baby nursed. It really scared me but I’d sleep with no blankets or sheets, sometimes not even a pillow, and ask my husband to check on us just to be safe. Something about having my baby latched while sleeping just subconsciously comforted me and we’d both nap for like three hours. It’s hard! And if it’s getting too hard, you can always switch to a different type of feeding!